my weight loss evolution. .. which was better?

2. you look unhealthy in number 3.

pretty smile in all 3....

Hard to tell the difference between 1 and 2 since different clothes and poses made all the difference.

Order is 1 is greater than or equal to 2 then 3. Beautiful in all. Weight gain with lifting would be optimal.

anywhere inbetween 1-2 would be fine, 3 is a bit much it doesnt suit you and its bad for your body

Since we are all being honest I think #1 was the winner.

I did the supper skinny thing when I was a kid and definitely found folks thought I looked best with a little weight on me (not a 100 pounds extra, but 165-170 lbs vs. my low of 135 lbs).

You should think about weight training if it's something you might be interested in. Still lets you focus on how you look without the need to be hungry all the time or feel guilty after you eat

Anyway, you should be happy with any weight that is healthy and natural for you. A million people will have a million opinions but yours is the only one that matters.

Between 1-2. You look very very thin in 3, how tall are you?

I also want to know how tall you are becaseu in the bottom pic, your arms look REALLLLLY skinny. A little too skinny. Please don't get upset that I said that. :flowerforyou:

Thanks you guys for your opinions I only want honest opinions so even the "mean brutal" ones mean a lot
And I am 5'6 currently at 95 lbs and trying to gain but I am wondering how much to gain lol

If you HONESTLY want to get healthy?
Start with this formula:
5'0"=100LBS, add 5LBS for every inch. Tweak as needed.
So, about 130. So, right where folks' comments suggest you should be. 35 pounds heavier than you are now.

She's right. Great weight/height formula-- going by that I'm spot on! (5'1", 105 lbs.)

I'm assuming you're seeing a doctor for your ED? He/she can help you pick a goal based on your health, not what strangers on the 'net think of your photos.

What confuses me is you lost weight to get to 95, too too skinny, but now you want to gain? I think you should make an appointment somewhere. Tell hubby to STFU if he is wanting you to lose weight.

95 is too little wight for a person of your height, look at your arms and shoulder blades, clavicle in 3. Way too small.

2.
not 3.

I think the first one is the best. The second one is good, but in the third one you look too skinny and not at all healthy.

You look cute in all 3 pictures, but I do think you look a little too thin in your last picture. I personally think you look best in the second picture at 125 lbs and that is a great slim weight for your height. I am a couple inches shorter than you and I weigh 10 lbs more and people think I'm too thin even. Be careful and don't lose anymore weight!

I also notice in picture 3, and of course we have no way of knowing whose things those are, but look in the background at all those pill bottles. Whose are they? I hope not yours. Maybe a multivitamin a day but you do not need supplements and what not, whatever those are, and they again may be somebody else's so if they are I am sorry, but just eat.

I also notice in picture 3, and of course we have no way of knowing whose things those are, but look in the background at all those pill bottles. Whose are they? I hope not yours. Maybe a multivitamin a day but you do not need supplements and what not, whatever those are, and they again may be somebody else's so if they are I am sorry, but just eat.

While I think the OP looks too thin in photo 3 I will disagree with the supplements statement above. You have no idea what or why anyone is taking the supplements they are. I personally take 10 different dietary supplements, 7 of those twice a day. During the winter months that increased to 11. Each are for a very specific purpose. My supplement routine does change from time to time depending on need. I would get downright pissy if you or anyone else other than my doctor tried to judge me on what supplements or medications I take. Unless one of those supplements is a gimmicky weight loss supplement, you know nothing about her supplement needs. This is very much a mind your own.

Otay then.

Well, I agree, but I meant supplements such as gimmicky crap that people think will help them lose more weight. I am all for some vitamins and whatever, even though I do not take any myself, and she certainly does not need gimmicks to lose more weight. If you enjoy our supplements, have at it and enjoy.

I also notice in picture 3, and of course we have no way of knowing whose things those are, but look in the background at all those pill bottles. Whose are they? I hope not yours. Maybe a multivitamin a day but you do not need supplements and what not, whatever those are, and they again may be somebody else's so if they are I am sorry, but just eat.

While I think the OP looks too thin in photo 3 I will disagree with the supplements statement above. You have no idea what or why anyone is taking the supplements they are. I personally take 10 different dietary supplements, 7 of those twice a day. During the winter months that increased to 11. Each are for a very specific purpose. My supplement routine does change from time to time depending on need. I would get downright pissy if you or anyone else other than my doctor tried to judge me on what supplements or medications I take. Unless one of those supplements is a gimmicky weight loss supplement, you know nothing about her supplement needs. This is very much a mind your own.

Otay then.

Well, I agree, but I meant supplements such as gimmicky crap that people think will help them lose more weight. I am all for some vitamins and whatever, even though I do not take any myself, and she certainly does not need gimmicks to lose more weight. If you enjoy our supplements, have at it and enjoy.

I usually don't get into the supplement debate here. The supplements I take and have done so for a number of years have absolutely nothing to do with weight loss. Now, some dietary supplements can help with weight loss but others are useless. Some have down right dangerous side effects. I honestly hope that is not what OP is using. However, from the picture the only thing we can conclude is that is her. The supplements may or may not be hers. She may or may not even be in her own home where the photo was taken. I know that a lot of of elderly folk like to keep their meds on the counter like that whereas it is not common practice for those younger than 60 to 65.

This is one thing I don't like about the forums in general - assumptions. I'm surprised someone hasn't commented on her hairstyle or fashion sense. That's the way things tend to go here. That is one reason my diary is kept private because there are too many judgements based on assumptions.

IMO, OP is pretty with a beautiful smile. I don't know if she has an eating disorder and while I can surmise she may, it does little good to her. It really isn't clear whether her husband is not happy with her weighing too much, weighing not enough or some other aspect of their relationship. Definitely, at 5'6" a weight of 95 lb is not a healthy weight. I hope she is not using MFP in a negative manner. If she is, there is really nothing any of us can do about it.