Turning 51 and REALLY serious this time. Anyone else?

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  • paulandrachelk
    paulandrachelk Posts: 280 Member
    51??!!! Will be 72 in September and lost 14 lbs with MFP mostly to help back. At five six and 135 lbs I wasn't too overweight but at 121 Lbs I still look good in a size 6 jean. MFP keeps me on track maintaining. Stay with it, this is the best way I have found to keep on track.
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    Add me as a friend. I don't get on here every day as I have been in maintenance for about 3 years. The support here can be great! Some of us old timers can be a great resource. (I am 63).
  • Tblackdogs
    Tblackdogs Posts: 326 Member
    I'm in the Chicago area too and will be 49 this summer! I'll send you a friend request and maybe we can motivate each other!
  • schafmom
    schafmom Posts: 106 Member
    I'm soon to be 53 and yes the dreaded middle age spread crept up when I wasn't looking. Weight was never an issue until 6 months ago and then all heck broke loose on my butt! Yes I'm serious about getting off this extra baggage so you can friend me if you like. I work out to Leslie Sansone daily and also try to get a Jillian Michaels work out in a couple times a week.
    Deb
  • tigergrl
    tigergrl Posts: 2
    Hello, fellow 40s and 50s! I'm new to the forums, but not to the app. It looks like you all are experiencing the same change in metabolism I have. A couple of things about me:
    - In my 20s and 30s, I taught and competed in ballroom/Latin dance (half a pizza? No problem!)
    - Had my son at 34, finally got back to my normal body (5'2"/115 lbs) after he started to walk. I got divorced when he was three, weight was the same
    - My weight creeped up after he turned 7 - turned out to be a big-time uterine fibroid. Surgery took care of 10 lbs for me, yay! Back to 110 lbs.
    - Weight stabilized for another five years, then I lost my house and gained a lot of stress. Lost 10 lbs to 100 lbs. Too much.
    - Blew out both Achilles tendons (inflamed for two years). No more running up and down stairs. I didn't get a full-length mirror and wore forgiving clothes. Hello, summer, and why did my shorts shrink? For the last two years, I've been above 130. That's new territory for me. Turned out my hormone factory slowed down, and so did my metabolism. What a struggle to lose weight! I used to be able to drop 2-3 lbs. at will.
    - I finally joined a really nice 24-Hour Fitness within walking distance. I've been doing resistance/strength training, walking on the treadmill to increase stamina/endurance and kickstart my metabolism, and to be sure my Achilles could take it. I took my first Zumba class today - a lot of work, but fun!
    So, here we are. My goal weight is 115 lbs. I want to fit into my clothes again. I'm sick of wearing the same two pairs of pants and don't want to buy nice "133-lb clothes." That, to me, is admitting statis.

    So, how does everyone deal with the change in metabolism? Did it sneak up on you? I know that with more muscle mass, I'll start torching those calories again, but will I be losing more slowly because of my changed metabolism?

    Thanks, everyone! Glad to be here! (Yeah, I got 1200, too)
  • KarenB927
    KarenB927 Posts: 94 Member
    I am 55, I will be 56 in September. I've always been "bottom heavy" since puberty. As a toothpick skinny little kid, puberty just whacked everything out, LOL. So I've always played the lose weight, gain weight game. I'm 5'3" and at my heaviest was 150 lbs. Then I would lose weight, get lazy, gain weight, up and down, up and down. I am one of those people that HATE exercise.

    When I was 52, I had once again lost weight after discovering the joys of Zumba workout videos. Finally an exercise program I enjoyed doing! I was happy with my progress then........

    WHAM!!! I had a mild stroke. Thankfully, it was extremely mild and I was left with no residual side effects. However, during my hospital stay, I was also diagnosed with thyroid nodules. Those lumps that appeared on my neck (2 of them) were something I sort of ignored and put in the category of "don't want to know, it's just old age setting in". But they were causing out-of-control hyperthyroidism.

    Luckily they were not cancerous but needed to be taken care of. I had a choice of having my thyroid removed with surgery or shrunk and rendered non-functional with Radioactive Iodine treatment. I opted for the Radioactive Iodine treatment because that could be administered at my local hospital, whereas surgery would have had to take place about 50 miles away.

    Two and a half months after treatment (which was in October 2011) I became severely hypothyroid (which I knew was coming eventually, but really hit hard and fast). I also gained 25 lbs (\ I knew I would gain weight, which was a really depressing thought). It took 5 months to get my Synthroid to the proper level, but I still wasn't feeling good at all. I had muscle cramps and pain, joint pain, extreme fatigue (so bad I would have to literally crawl up the stairs to get to the second floor of my house), intolerance to heat AND cold, hair thinning and loss, night vision problems; I was a mess. I didn't have the energy to exercise, I tried it once and just couldn't do it. Five months later I had my one year post-treatment check with my endocrinologist. I asked her why I wasn't feeling good and described my symptoms. She said "Maybe you have Celiac Disease". I had never even heard of Celiac Disease, so I thought she was crazy and told her no.

    That same weekend after my endo visit, my husband and I went out of state for the weekend to my Aunt and Uncle's for a surprise birthday party for my Aunt. The party was at an Italian restaurant. Everything from the appetizers to the cake was made out of something with gluten in it. Plus the other gluten laden food I ate over the weekend and brought bagels home because where I live, Bagels suck, LOL. The day after we got home I felt like I got hit by a Mack truck about a dozen times. So I thought, let me check into this Celiac Disease nonsense online. Well, I was surprised to find out what it was all about, that I was suffering from about 99% of the symptoms and what caused it. Thinking about all the things I ate over the weekend, it made sense. I figured I had nothing to lose by trying out a gluten free diet.

    Well, the results were amazing. Within days I started to feel better, in two weeks I felt like a whole new person. Using MFP and going back to my Zumba vids, I lost all the weight I gained and a few pounds on top of it. I purchased the newest Zumba (Incredible Results) and have been working on toning and muscle building. My thighs are the smallest they've ever been and that's saying a lot for me. I've also built up my biceps and the first time I saw my deltoid muscles in the mirror, I was like "Hey, where did they come from? I've never seen those before!". I tried a couple Jillian Michaels videos, but I always end up pulling a muscle or injuring a rib. I've discovered I'm not the push-up, plank kind of gal. The newest Zumba has a step routine, and since I have always liked step aerobics, this combines two routines I like; step and Zumba. I have to say, I look better now than I do when I was in my 20's. And I feel great on top of.

    Yes, it's hard to eat gluten free. Yes, there are a lot of foods I miss, like good pizza (but I did find a pizzeria nearby that does a gluten free pizza, YAY!) and I have to watch where I eat out, the choices are limited where I live. But it's been manageable for 1 1/2 years so far. I haven't been diagnosed officially with Celiac Disease, the thought of having to eat gluten only to be told NOT to eat gluten doesn't appeal to me at all. In December I ate something that apparently had hidden gluten in it, and I thought I was going to die from the reaction I had. Doing that on purpose seems horrible to me. So I will just maintain a gluten free diet, which can be challenging sometimes. We are going back to my aunt and uncle's in August because my brother and sister-in-law will be visiting for a couple days and I will have to bring a lot of my own food so I can eat, but I will deal with it.

    I actually like shopping for clothes now, and when I get dressed and look in the mirror I LIKE the way I look, instead of just feeling OK with the way I look. It's quite a head trip, LOL. I stick with MFP because I find now that I can gain weight far too easy, just a couple days of not keeping track will have the scale creeping up. I exercise to keep healthy. My Mom had severe osteoporosis and as she became more and more sedentary, she lost muscle tone. By the time she passed away her legs looked like skin on top of bones. I do not want that to happen to me, so I exercise 5-6 days a week and actually feel guilty on my rest day. That is something I never thought would happen, me feeling guilty about NOT exercising!
  • Raeskii
    Raeskii Posts: 7 Member
    Ditto!
  • tracydr
    tracydr Posts: 528 Member
    Ok, I just went bathing suit shopping and I'm really starting to see the middle age spread. I am going to commit to MFP and stick to it gdmt!! I've never had a weight loss buddy so maybe that would help. Instead of making it a pound loss goal, I want to stick to my 1500 calls per day with at least 30minutes per day of a workout. I would like to do that for 30 days and see how much I lose. I will not weigh myself until that 30 days is up. Then I'll assess, and hopefully, keep going. Anyone want to get serious with me?? Oh, and I'm old!! Just kidding, I'm in great shape and workout a lot, but I guess I just eat too much. But, I am turning 51 and I want to accomplish this weight loss so I can move on with my life!! Anyone in the same boat??
    I was in a wheelchair or on crutches from last March until November, then very limited walking or standing. I recently hit my highest weight ever. Combination of being severely sedentary for so long and stress eating.
    I'm 49 years old and very excited about using MFP because it's really working. My goal is 105 and I'm currently 148.8. I may not go that low but I'm 5'2 and that was my healthy weight through my 20's. I need to get this 50 lb grain sack off my joints!
    I need more friends so please friend me!
  • cattle84
    cattle84 Posts: 6 Member
    Turned 50 in April, started exercising and seriously watching what i ate when in January. You can do it. Stick with your program ideas and when need a push friends on here will help :)
  • RockinMBC
    RockinMBC Posts: 48 Member
    Just turned 50 last week - and just weighed in at the highest I've ever weighed! I've been toying around with MyFitnessPal for a month or two - but now I'm seriously buckling down! I have the summer off before I start teaching Community College classes - so this a perfect time to get back into the swing of things health-wise.

    MY PLAN
    Consume 1200 calories a day M-F to allow for some cheating on the weekends. I'm primarily pescatarian with an emphasis on vegan dairy replacements, so I eat pretty well - just been overindulging due to past job stress and some old lady health issues. I'm just starting to go through menopause - so I'm really tracking my intake of vitamins and minerals at the moment as well.

    Living in Las Vegas during an unemployed summer will have its challenges as far as exercising goes - but I'm planning on doing yoga and resistance band training here at home, and walking in the cooler evenings to start (can't afford a gym membership right now). Would love to get back to bike riding eventually when the temps cool down again.
  • caroldurham18
    caroldurham18 Posts: 5 Member
    Hello iam new to this ..I been reading your posts of encouragement. iam 56yrs old ..just need some one to motivate me on.I just started drinking water . I was so use to drinking diets sodas..please feel free to ad me.I want to have more energy &feel better about myself.
  • ZosoFan
    ZosoFan Posts: 1
    Hi - add me to the challenge. I just started a new diet and exercise plan today. I turned 52 a few months ago. I had a very difficult year (death in the family, and on sick leave from work); and I'm now just getting myself out of it. I've been successful on diet and exercise before when I get serious about it. This time, I am making my own plan - I'm sort of making my own "Jo-annie Craig" lol. I'm going to start with the Lean Cuisine and WW meals for breakfast and supper, and fill in loose ends with salads and fresh fruits - for a total of about 1300 per day. I did the calculation and it estimâtes I can lose this 60 lbs in a year if I stick to 1300 calories and moderate exercise. So, we'll see how the weight loss rate goes. I love the idea of having a few buddies to check in with. My exercise goal at first is just to get out and walk - a fast walk - for one hour per day. I will also attend my yoga classes. Then I will add some other exercises as I get stronger. I plan also to drink a good 2 litres of water per day (instead of soda, which is a bad habit for me). So I'm in - if you all will welcome me! What's check in day - Monday? Have a great week!
  • I will be 51 in August and ready to do this AGAIN!! This is the highest I've ever weighed in my life and I'm so ashamed of myself!!! I've lost before, I know I can do it. I just need motivation and friends to get me through!!
  • rahrah6459
    rahrah6459 Posts: 23 Member
    Turning 50 this year. Also have an all school reunion to look forward to next summer. I have never gone in years past because I was just too embarrassed. My weight has been up and down, mostly up, my entire adult life. My highest weight was 297 in 1994. I am now down to 213. Better than I was but far from where I want to be. I am diabetic and had a quintuple bypass at age 45.

    Please friend me. I need all the support I can get.
  • walkingforward
    walkingforward Posts: 174 Member
    Nifty fifties ! I hit there in Sept .... looking forward to it.

    Friend requests welcome.
  • Moveover50
    Moveover50 Posts: 10 Member
    NEWBIE: Joined in 2012 but never started

    Turned 50 in April. Want to make the change and be fit and ready for the next 50. Just let myself go and now get discouraged as I know it is not going to be easy and it will not happen overnight. I am sick of spending money looking for a quick fix. So for me this is it. Been good for the first 3 days since I started and am determined. Good Luck to us all and I hope I can talk, help and encourage you if ever needed.
    My mantra is Plan- Commit - Achieve - Reward
    I cannot wait to Reward my success
    My first mini goal is July 16th and I hope to be 5kg lighter.
    Look forward to seeing everyones progress and sharing with you all.:smile:
  • sunman00
    sunman00 Posts: 872 Member
    18 months and 51lb ago I had high blood pressure, high cholesterol, & a poor osteoarthritis problem in my right leg,
    no my BP is 125/79, resting pulse 45 & 2.2 cholesterol,
    what you're starting is SOOOOOO worth doing,

    I'm 54 now, walk most days & have a healthy eating regime thanks to tons of logging on this fab MFP site

    if anyone of our age would like support or advice please feel free to add me, this is a great journey
  • I'm 59 and hopeful! I have MS which makes most everything a challenge,but my first grandbaby is almost 1 and I want her to know her grandma as a fun and active person! good luck to everybody here and please friend me if you like!
    flowerforyou:
  • LKM54
    LKM54 Posts: 48 Member
    My problem is I am not that serious. I spent my earlier years dieting going up and down the scale. I finally realized diets don't work, I always gained the weight back. Overall, I am pretty content. I exercise 5-6 days a week and eat healthy. At the same time, I like sugar, desserts and don't want to deprive myself of stuff I like. I used to be able to go on a diet and stick to it like nobodies business. I mean it, 9 months, 50 pounds later. When I hit 40 I kept tying to diet and just could not do it. I would do about 3 weeks and then say screw it. Now I am 53 and want the perks of it but not the commitment. I know I need to either accept myself as am and move on or get serious. Anyone else experiencing this dilemma? Plus, the weight loss is so slow and it doesn't help with motivation. I am responsible for all my decisions so please don't take this as a whine. I would like to be more invested and am just finding it incredibly difficult.
  • Alastair007
    Alastair007 Posts: 673 Member
    :smile: Life starts at 50... Loosing weight is more difficult after 50...you can look better at 52 than when you were 42.
  • brvwilger
    brvwilger Posts: 1
    I'll be 50 this October and am just tired of always saying, "One of these days I'll get serious about this!" So, I'm in!! I've already lost 13 pounds using this program, am sticking to my 1200 cals a day, but can't seem to get the exercise in...ugh! Good luck everyone!!
  • LKM54
    LKM54 Posts: 48 Member
    See that is my problem. There is no way I am only eating 1200 calories a day, there is just no way! I run around all day, very active plus I work out. I feel like at this age I keep seeing people only eat 1200 or 1500 calories. I just don't want to be that limited or that hungry ALL the time!
  • Doinitin2015
    Doinitin2015 Posts: 32 Member
    I am so happy to see a string of ladies in my age range and to hear how you are succeeding or the struggles you may be having.

    I am 54 female and have been struggling with trying to find the right calories, and just to lose some weight which seems to be proving very difficult. Since last fall I have been going to a training 3 times a week, etc and attended spin, have done the learn to run program and nothing just seems to make the pounds go....I realize that I have not been very diligent all the time but the times I have been in control o fthe food still have a difficult time to lose, so I hope to follow this thread and gain more knowledge/tips on what yu are doing....thanks
  • Madelinec117
    Madelinec117 Posts: 210 Member
    I understand exactly what you are saying. I am 51, just retired and now have time to spend on me (eating better and exercising). I have a long way to go, but hope this site will help me take it one step at a time.
  • sandybeachy
    sandybeachy Posts: 2 Member
    Hi, I have recently turned 50 and I am starting again! I know what I need to do, I just need to do it! I had joined a group at my local health clinic but didn't quite feel a connection with anyone there, and I would like to loose 50 lbs. Part of my weakness is the carbs in the house for the kids (twins in 6th grade) who are picky eaters. I need to exercise more, finally getting out more, now that my perimenopause symptoms have eased after being terrible in March and April. Was suddenly hit by nonstop period and cramping- it was worse than it was in my teens. Took a 10 day dose of hormones to jump start the system and crossing my fingers now.I would like to connect with people doing similar diet. I am working on portion control.
  • LKM54
    LKM54 Posts: 48 Member
    yea the working out for me is not the hard part. I work out 6 days a week. I am trying to ad more weights, I love the old firm. I have some old Kathy Smith too. Her work outs are longer and she also adds weights. I did that one today. I have my 2 big dogs and walk them anywhere from 1-3 minkes. My problem is calories and portions. So, I am hoping at 1800 I can lose cause I am not willing to do less than that :)

    Same on the portions for me too!
  • ChrisRiches
    ChrisRiches Posts: 45 Member
    OK, my turn. This thread sounds like it was made for me. Turning 50 next January, so close enough. I joined MFP in May 2012. I am not quite 5 feet tall (4' 11.5"), and currently weight about 144. My goal is to weigh around 115 lbs.

    I dropped to 125 pounds in 2012, then started creeping back up slowly. I started running in 2013, and ran two half marathons, one in August and one in September. Then life took some unexpected turns.

    My dad was hospitalized in November, the same day as I held my husband's 50th birthday party. It was dad's 15th time admitted to hospital last year. I injured my hamstring in November running at 225 step outdoor staircase. My husband had a total hip replacement in early December. After Christmas, I flew to Ottawa to spend some time with my dad. Sadly, he passed away on Feb 15th.

    All of these things have added up to me being back at my beginning weight in 2012. I am, for the most part, still staying active. I am running again, but much more carefully than I used to, as it still hurts. I am back at boot camp 3 morning per week, and trying to eat better again.

    I am registered for the same half marathon I ran last August, except this year it falls on my dad's birthday. That is my motivation. Near the end, he barely had the strength to walk across the room, and that was with the aid of a walker. He was only 76 years old. 40 years of diabetes and a heart condition took a terrible toll on him. My mother died unexpectedly of a stroke at 67. Those are also my motivators. If I don't pay attention to the history, I know how my story will end too.

    You would think that would be enough to motivate, but I think adding the support of people who are in the same boat could be the tipping point for me.

    So I'm in too - fell free to add me. I will do my best to support whoever I can in this journey.
  • Paleovmw
    Paleovmw Posts: 24 Member
    I am 54 and lost 25 pounds since January! I have 20 more to go and will decide if I want to go lower once I get there for awhile.

    You can add me as a friend. I love encouraging people! :flowerforyou: I take in about 1500 calories and walk 60 minutes or Elliptical for 45. I can lose 2 - 3 pounds that way. My new way of eating is the best that I have ever experienced.

    Have a great "losing" day! Vickie
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    You can do it! I will be 50 in October. :smile:
  • marina_swendra
    marina_swendra Posts: 1 Member
    Im 30 and i have a four year old and just had my last baby four months ago and I gained 20 pounds and im feeling horrible about myself. I feel like my husband doesn't look at me the same way when he met me I was 125lb. Maybe im just venting but im trying to lpse weight so I feel better about myself. Maybe I can find some motivation and support on this site so I can stick to this and reach my goal.
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