weight-loss and libido

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  • cnhamilton12
    cnhamilton12 Posts: 45 Member
    Mine has increased a ton but it seems that the better I look and feel, the more my husband doesn't wanna do it. Which sucks cause it makes me feel like something's wrong with me but whatevs :(
  • BurntCoffee
    BurntCoffee Posts: 234 Member
    Mine has increased a ton but it seems that the better I look and feel, the more my husband doesn't wanna do it. Which sucks cause it makes me feel like something's wrong with me but whatevs :(

    My husband prefers me heavier which makes this journey a little sad for me to be honest. If he loved me he'd want me to be healthy. Ya know? Whatevs.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Mine has increased a ton but it seems that the better I look and feel, the more my husband doesn't wanna do it. Which sucks cause it makes me feel like something's wrong with me but whatevs :(

    He could be feeling insecure.
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    Well I had a high sex drive before I lost weight...... But yeah its worse now :blushing: much worse lol I all can say is thank goodness for batteries :bigsmile:

    LOL! That's awesome.

    goes for me as well... :smokin: I need stock in either the electric company (electrical plug as you later pointed out) or the battery companies as there is no bf's on the horizon... :ohwell:
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    Mine has increased a ton but it seems that the better I look and feel, the more my husband doesn't wanna do it. Which sucks cause it makes me feel like something's wrong with me but whatevs :(

    He could be feeling insecure.

    +1

    maybe you can just reassure him of his masculinity or something... :wink:
  • wozkaa
    wozkaa Posts: 224 Member
    Well... I'm guessing I'll have to lose more to see if it's true, because so far it in't helping!
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:

    Upgrade?
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    Well I had a high sex drive before I lost weight...... But yeah its worse now :blushing: much worse lol I all can say is thank goodness for batteries :bigsmile:

    LOL! That's awesome.

    I totally agree! :blushing:
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    This doesn't belong anywhere, but being a psycho is never sexy. That could be applicable somewhere here.
  • SnuggleSmacks
    SnuggleSmacks Posts: 3,731 Member
    It seems as though I read somewhere that exercise increases libido in the same way that it decreases depression, through the manufacture of hormones. It seems that I also read somewhere that increased muscle mass will also increase the production of testosterone, and this has a positive impact on libido, even for women. But I'm at work and don't have the time to verify either of those things at the moment.
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:

    Upgrade?

    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:

    Upgrade?

    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:

    Yeah...a hairbrush probably isn't the best choice.
  • segovm
    segovm Posts: 512 Member
    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:

    To save you time and embarrassment Amazon sells everything you could ever need.

    Buy a Rabbit and if you have some extra cash pick up a Hitachi Magic Wand for about $50'ish.
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:

    To save you time and embarrassment Amazon sells everything you could ever need.

    Buy a Rabbit and if you have some extra cash pick up a Hitachi Magic Wand for about $50'ish.

    Thanks for the advice! :laugh:
  • SnuggleSmacks
    SnuggleSmacks Posts: 3,731 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:

    Upgrade?

    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:

    Oh yeah......yeaaaaaaaah........yessssssssssssss!!!
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  • BikerMan54
    BikerMan54 Posts: 210
    :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    This doesn't belong anywhere, but being a psycho is never sexy. That could be applicable somewhere here.

    you sayin' something??? :grumble:



    hahahaha
  • SnuggleSmacks
    SnuggleSmacks Posts: 3,731 Member
    ^^Ok, BikerMan54...I know in your pic you're just taking a selfie, but in light of the direction this thread has taken, it now looks as though you are poised to photograph all the...err...hairbrushing...
  • msbunnie68
    msbunnie68 Posts: 1,894 Member
    oh yeah...

    I am keeping us both fit now.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    oh yeah...

    I am keeping us both fit now.

    :laugh:
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:

    Upgrade?

    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:

    I hear carrots are a good choice
  • msbunnie68
    msbunnie68 Posts: 1,894 Member
    I agree with everyone I've definitely been feeling more "frisky" these past couple of days. I definitely need to upgrade soon :blushing:

    Upgrade?

    K this is going to sound a bit TMI-ish but....
    A better toy cuz a hairbrush is not cutting it anymore :blushing:

    I hear carrots are a good choice

    Get out of the fridge and go and get one that goes bzzzzz...

    and a warming gel :laugh:
  • shmerek
    shmerek Posts: 963 Member
    :embarassed: Lelo is the brand you want, rechargeable like a phone
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    ive lost 150 and my libido is the same as always
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    My increase could be from weight-loss or it could be the fact I haven't had sex in over a year. I'm honestly not sure.
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    my sex drive was always high. now it is higher. the sex is better.
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    so at what point (length of inactivity) is it called being a "born again virgin"??? :laugh:
  • arainiday1
    arainiday1 Posts: 1,763 Member
    i don't doubt it. I haven't noticed an increase at this point but I still have a long way to go. Mine is already through the roof so I hope it won't get too much worse.........
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    so at what point (length of inactivity) is it called being a "born again virgin"??? :laugh:

    idk 6 months -shrug-
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