Matronly Menopause!

Aedreana here, brand-new to the site. Greetings, everyone! I am 61 and a victim of postmenopausal weight redistribution. Currently experimenting to find the weight at which I will look the least old and matronly! The sordid details (not for the faint of heart!): When my waist and butt simultaneously did a disappearing act, I found myself suddenly in a very odd place. I was too fat in the waist, yet too thin of butt. I went on a diet, lost 27 pounds. At 108 (I am 5' 3 1/2"), I had lost too much volume in my bustline. I also had developed severe deep wrinkling of upper arms, as well as puckery wrinkles on midriff and belly. Even the skin just above my knees looked wrinkly. Not pretty. Not acceptable. A trade-off NOT worth it. I have to weigh 118 or less, I discovered, to now have normal body contour (a waistline) but at the expense of smooth unwrinkled upper arms. I decided to gain back into the 120s. It worked to remove the upper arm wrinkles. But my lower butt still looks like wrinkled fabric. I would be willing to be fat just to get rid off the butt wrinkling. But it failed. I have smooth arms again, still a wrinkled butt, and my midriff/waist/belly is smooth but very fat in the upper 120s. So now I have decided to drop back down probably to somewhere in the mid-hundred-teens to lower-120s, knowing it will be a compromise because I will still look horrifying, until I can win enough money in a contest, sweepstakes or lottery to get cosmetic surgery. To young people reading this: No need to laugh at me because this will probably happen to you someday too. If you are not laughing at me, thank you, and be ever so grateful you still have a butt, no matter how big it is!