Am I Thin, Normal, or Fat?

I'm 5'3'' and 128 pounds........am I thin, normal, or fat?

What?

And, you're 128 trying to lose 18 pounds at 5 ft. 3?

Something is off here.

110 would still be normal for her height, she may have a small frame of very little muscle mass

All my guy friends tell me I should lose weight and when I ask how much they say 110, girls I know say 100 but I think that's not healthy for me.

Sweetheart - you need new friends.

Um, she said she just started. Not everyone fills out a profile right away.

I'm 5'3'' and 128 pounds........am I thin, normal, or fat?

What?

And, you're 128 trying to lose 18 pounds at 5 ft. 3?

Something is off here.

110 would still be normal for her height, she may have a small frame of very little muscle mass

All my guy friends tell me I should lose weight and when I ask how much they say 110, girls I know say 100 but I think that's not healthy for me.

110 would not necessarily be too thin for your height (depending on how muscular you are), but 100 would definitely be.
Bear in mind that girls lie all the time about their weight, and most guys have no idea how much girls should weigh.
Decide for yourself what your fitness goals should be.
I'm surprised that at 25 your friends are focusing so much on the number. That seems more like high school/college behavior to me, but maybe I am just old.

So much this. (Although it is NOT college behavior, at least not in my college. In my college, people don't really give a flying heck how much one weighs - they're more worried about their finals lol..)

I know someone who is much bigger than I was when I was 220 lbs. If I had to wager a guess, I'd guess 240. Although, I'd never guess with her around or out loud to anyone we know, either. She says she's 220, and I just nod. Women do this. I don't know why. I couldn't tell you why. But they do. So, that 100 lb girl could easily be 110 lbs.

I'm 5'3'' and 128 pounds........am I thin, normal, or fat?

You are none of the above. You are a human being with emotions and feelings.

None of those three words define who you are. Don't let others do it either.

You are what you are, and your soul tells you whether you are ok with who/what you are.

The validation from others doesn't mean ****. They don't walk in your shoes, pay your bills, carry your water pail, etc.

Fsunami

Beautiful

I'm 5'3'' and 128 pounds........am I thin, normal, or fat?

What?

And, you're 128 trying to lose 18 pounds at 5 ft. 3?

Something is off here.

110 would still be normal for her height, she may have a small frame of very little muscle mass

All my guy friends tell me I should lose weight and when I ask how much they say 110, girls I know say 100 but I think that's not healthy for me.

if they are saying that then they are not your friends sorry.

Would need pictures to judge.

Weight means nothing my friend.

True. For reference, those are roughly my numbers (within 1-2 pounds,) and this is me
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You look thin to me. I want to be thin, and I want people to think I'm thin....so yes I know BMI says I'm just normal but I guess I posted this to find out what people generally think...I don't have a recent full body photo but I'll take one this weekend when I'm hanging out with some friends.

I'm so sorry.

I guess I am quite influenced by people around me...everyone else wanting to be thin...I actually used to think I was thin....a girl I knew asked my weight and I said 120 pounds which was my weight then...and she was like oh i'm 100 pounds, same height, you weigh a lot. So now I'm kind of questioning...I used to think I was pretty thin and that most people weighed more...now I see that people might consider me as having a curvy body (not just chest and butt but all around big)

Wait. Some girl said "you weigh a lot" and now you are questioning whether you are thin or not?

You're not old enough to use this site, please go to sparkteens.

Because troll...She makes it all up. None of it is true. She finds this fun for some reason?

Would need pictures to judge.

Weight means nothing my friend.

True. For reference, those are roughly my numbers (within 1-2 pounds,) and this is me
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You look thin to me. I want to be thin, and I want people to think I'm thin....so yes I know BMI says I'm just normal but I guess I posted this to find out what people generally think...I don't have a recent full body photo but I'll take one this weekend when I'm hanging out with some friends.

I'm so sorry.

I guess I am quite influenced by people around me...everyone else wanting to be thin...I actually used to think I was thin....a girl I knew asked my weight and I said 120 pounds which was my weight then...and she was like oh i'm 100 pounds, same height, you weigh a lot. So now I'm kind of questioning...I used to think I was pretty thin and that most people weighed more...now I see that people might consider me as having a curvy body (not just chest and butt but all around big)

Wait. Some girl said "you weigh a lot" and now you are questioning whether you are thin or not?

You're not old enough to use this site, please go to sparkteens.

Because troll...She makes it all up. None of it is true. She finds this fun for some reason?

Yes, you're right. I just realized who this is. I'm a little slow on the uptake this morning. :laugh:

Have at it, Troll!! :drinker:

Also, no pics? Not even of your "$700 blouse" that you probably got for $12 at Forever 21?

It might have gotten stolen by her neighbor in the laundry room at her apt building.

I knew that would come. Then again people do stuff like this thinking it is funny. What to believe?

Would need pictures to judge.

Weight means nothing my friend.

True. For reference, those are roughly my numbers (within 1-2 pounds,) and this is me
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You look thin to me. I want to be thin, and I want people to think I'm thin....so yes I know BMI says I'm just normal but I guess I posted this to find out what people generally think...I don't have a recent full body photo but I'll take one this weekend when I'm hanging out with some friends.

I'm so sorry.

I guess I am quite influenced by people around me...everyone else wanting to be thin...I actually used to think I was thin....a girl I knew asked my weight and I said 120 pounds which was my weight then...and she was like oh i'm 100 pounds, same height, you weigh a lot. So now I'm kind of questioning... I used to think I was pretty thin and that most people weighed more...now I see that people might consider me as having a curvy body (not just chest and butt but all around big)

Step 1: Don't do that.

There is no Step 2. You are fine. Focus on fitness, looking and feeling your best. Set realistic goals for yourself, and screw what anyone else thinks. What do you want to do? How do you want to feel? They aren't the one's running the miles or lifting the weights, so they don't matter. And don't listen to that kind of nonsense...she was probably lying about her weight anyhow.