Meeting my 1200 calorie goal is surprisingly hard

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  • jwooley13
    jwooley13 Posts: 243
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    My typical day is...

    Breakfast: half grapefruit and a mini bagel (180 cals)

    Snack: 100 cal pack of almonds (100 cals)

    Lunch: bowl of fruit (200 cals)

    Dinner: (4oz of grilled chicken, a sweet potato, and broccoli (about 270)

    Snack: 90 calorie fiber one brownie (90 cals)

    So about 840 cals and I feel full. I also was burning 500 cals a day but I've stopped since I'm not eating enough.I used to eat a lot of junk food ( fried, pizza, candy, soda) since I can't have that it's hard to find things I like to eat that are healthy for me so I just stick to these few things. I do have one or two days that I eat pizza or one of my fav foods but on those days I try to exercise more.

    I don't know how you're not starving. Not only is that nowhere near enough calories, but those foods don't seem to be very filling or protein-rich. You should really consider increasing your intake, add some protein and fat to your diet, and be patient. Keep going like you are and you're going to start losing hair, cracking nails, and feeling like total crap.
  • leodru
    leodru Posts: 321 Member
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    I disagree with most of the posters here on this thread. Protein matters for general muscle health. Sugar and fat also matter because in order to do this long term you really need to eat healthier with foods that have more nutrients. Lower sugar/lower fat items tend to be healthier (ie. chicken breast, fruit, vegetables etc). I started with a dietitian and the first thing she went after was fat content and calories, then she was pushing me to higher carbs (because i work out) - and higher proteins. I've been making progress lately with her and her latest was on added sugar. It's not as hard as you think. I eat 2100 calories a day and struggle to keep it under that amount. Have a glass of skim milk with your meals - it will push your calories up with carbs and proteins. Eating fruit for lunch is not enough food to fuel your body. Despite your protest of having an eating disorder your diary seems to tell a different story - its loaded with calorie counted foods that are extreme. Have a handful of nuts instead of "100 calorie packs" - have a spoonful of peanut butter on your bagel. There is a tonne of opportunity in what you are eating to make your intake higher but you seem to be refusing to do it.
  • smn76237
    smn76237 Posts: 318 Member
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    I disagree with most of the posters here on this thread. Protein matters for general muscle health. Sugar and fat also matter because in order to do this long term you really need to eat healthier with foods that have more nutrients. Lower sugar/lower fat items tend to be healthier (ie. chicken breast, fruit, vegetables etc). I started with a dietitian and the first thing she went after was fat content and calories, then she was pushing me to higher carbs (because i work out) - and higher proteins. I've been making progress lately with her and her latest was on added sugar. It's not as hard as you think. I eat 2100 calories a day and struggle to keep it under that amount. Have a glass of skim milk with your meals - it will push your calories up with carbs and proteins.
    1 cup of skim milk with 11g of sugar? That's almost half of my sugar allotment given to me by MFP. Add on a couple servings of fruit and you're over your sugar limit for the day. Her initial post indicated she was afraid to eat more simply because she'd go over on fat and sugar, even though she had more than enough calories left for the day. That's why we're saying don't worry about her sugar number on MFP.

    The fat number MFP gives you is also pretty low. I reset mine because I eat a lot of avocado, nuts, salmon, and nut butters (within my calorie limit), which are "healthier" foods in most people's opinions, but high in fat.
  • wilsoje74
    wilsoje74 Posts: 1,720 Member
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    Oh my I don't believe anyone over the age of 10 who states that just can't eat over 1200 cals in a day.
  • Dragonwolf
    Dragonwolf Posts: 5,600 Member
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    My typical day is...

    Breakfast: half grapefruit and a mini bagel (180 cals)

    Snack: 100 cal pack of almonds (100 cals)

    Lunch: bowl of fruit (200 cals)

    Dinner: (4oz of grilled chicken, a sweet potato, and broccoli (about 270)

    Snack: 90 calorie fiber one brownie (90 cals)

    So about 840 cals and I feel full. I also was burning 500 cals a day but I've stopped since I'm not eating enough.I used to eat a lot of junk food ( fried, pizza, candy, soda) since I can't have that it's hard to find things I like to eat that are healthy for me so I just stick to these few things. I do have one or two days that I eat pizza or one of my fav foods but on those days I try to exercise more.

    I don't know how you're not starving. Not only is that nowhere near enough calories, but those foods don't seem to be very filling or protein-rich. You should really consider increasing your intake, add some protein and fat to your diet, and be patient. Keep going like you are and you're going to start losing hair, cracking nails, and feeling like total crap.

    I don't know how she's not bored with that, a lot of that is pretty bland, too. If I were eating that on a daily basis, I'd probably quit eating just because I'd be so sick of what I was having.

    OP, the goal is to lose weight in a healthy manner, not as fast as possible. Health isn't just about calories. Yeah, you'll lose weight eating only 1200 calories, but you'll also deplete your vitamin and mineral stores (on the food above) and lose muscle. MFP's defaults for protein and fat are quite on the low side and it's safe to go over them (or better yet, set them to numbers better suited to your size and needs).

    Sugar, especially from whole food sources, isn't really necessary to keep track of or limit as long as you don't have metabolic or endocrine issues. MFP also sets it quite low.

    Fat is required for proper function and vitamin absorption, so don't be afraid of fattier meats (which is pretty much anything besides that chicken breast), cream cheese, avocado, coconut oil, etc. The only fat you really need to avoid is artificial trans-fats, for everything else, a variety of sources will pretty much cover your bases without overdoing it on any one kind (and yes, they all have their purposes, even cholesterol and saturated fat). That will easily rack up your calories, too, to something that is more likely to be able to support your activity level.
  • aliakynes
    aliakynes Posts: 352 Member
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    1. Fat is one of the goals you want to meet when dieting to avoid hormonal and nutrient deficiency issues. Aim for 0.4g of fat per pound of body weight. If that puts you in the red, eat it anyway.

    2. If you're not a diabetic or have POCS or doing Atkins or keto ... stop watching the sugar. If you have an issue staying under your calories, then I'll suggest you look at your sugar. But if you're under, just eat.

    3. Feeling full is not a very good gauge for deciding on how much to eat as under-eating will give you a suppressed appetite which will cause a vicious cycle that leads to very severe deficits and eventually an ED (not saying you have it, it's just a really good way to get one). Just eat. MFP goals are already too small for most people.

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    I can easily eat a 300 calorie snack but then I'll go over my recommended sugar or fat.

    This, do it! You'll always go over one nutrient or another when meeting calorie goals. That's ok.
  • jraymond
    jraymond Posts: 25 Member
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    I'd like to weigh in here because I eat 1100 calories a day very comfortably, an amount recommended to me personally by two well-known weight and fitness MDs, one of them a famous women's weight and fitness physician from NIH who has written a number of books of the subject. The reason it works is that my Basal Metobolic Rate (you can calculate this, just google BMR) is around 1200, but because I have body fat (fat burns less calories than lean muscle), I can adjust down a bit. Recommendations were to not eat less than 1,000 calories a day. I also exercise and am starting to weight train more regularly to increase fitness and lean body mass, which will increase my BMR--and your caloric intake needs to go down (not up) as you lose weight. Best to do that through increased exercise. My doctors definately recommended NOT eating back the calories you burn through regular activities or through exercise.

    How to eat in this caloric range is easy, if you follow a few simple rules--and I can see from your plan what is going wrong. Eat at 3-4 oz of lean protein at EVERY meal (3x)--this means adding chicken to a commercial salad, etc. You eat no protein for breakfast, for example. Eat protein snacks 2-3 times per day, in additon to the meals. You will not get hungry. Avoide/eliminate carbs like bread, NO BAGELS, rice, potato, pasta, cereals--same old. Do eat small amts (no more than 1/4 to 1/2 cup a day) of carbs like farro, sweet potato. No more than 1 hand fruit per day or better 1/4 cup of dark-skinned berries. That's it! Got in great shape and lost 20 lbs--muscles like protein! Protein curbs your appetite. Watch out for all those hidden calories in commercial food. Good luck!
  • jraymond
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    Oh, and I forgot one important thing. Healthy fats in moderate amounts are your friend. When eating your 3-4 oz of protein and salad greens, for example, go ahead an add a tbl or less (about 100 calories) of olive oil. It satisfies and its healthy.
  • JassiBear
    JassiBear Posts: 268 Member
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    My typical day is...

    Breakfast: half grapefruit and a mini bagel (180 cals)

    Snack: 100 cal pack of almonds (100 cals)

    Lunch: bowl of fruit (200 cals)

    Dinner: (4oz of grilled chicken, a sweet potato, and broccoli (about 270)

    Snack: 90 calorie fiber one brownie (90 cals)

    So about 840 cals and I feel full. I also was burning 500 cals a day but I've stopped since I'm not eating enough.I used to eat a lot of junk food ( fried, pizza, candy, soda) since I can't have that it's hard to find things I like to eat that are healthy for me so I just stick to these few things. I do have one or two days that I eat pizza or one of my fav foods but on those days I try to exercise more.

    I don't know how you're not starving. Not only is that nowhere near enough calories, but those foods don't seem to be very filling or protein-rich. You should really consider increasing your intake, add some protein and fat to your diet, and be patient. Keep going like you are and you're going to start losing hair, cracking nails, and feeling like total crap.

    I agree. If you don't like to eat then I would just eat higher calorie foods...... or slightly increase your portion sizes on the food you are currently eating... Sugar and fat.......well its good to keep sugar goals but its not always necessary.
  • arabianhorselover
    arabianhorselover Posts: 1,488 Member
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    I'd like to weigh in here because I eat 1100 calories a day very comfortably, an amount recommended to me personally by two well-known weight and fitness MDs, one of them a famous women's weight and fitness physician from NIH who has written a number of books of the subject. The reason it works is that my Basal Metobolic Rate (you can calculate this, just google BMR) is around 1200, but because I have body fat (fat burns less calories than lean muscle), I can adjust down a bit. Recommendations were to not eat less than 1,000 calories a day. I also exercise and am starting to weight train more regularly to increase fitness and lean body mass, which will increase my BMR--and your caloric intake needs to go down (not up) as you lose weight. Best to do that through increased exercise. My doctors definately recommended NOT eating back the calories you burn through regular activities or through exercise.

    How to eat in this caloric range is easy, if you follow a few simple rules--and I can see from your plan what is going wrong. Eat at 3-4 oz of lean protein at EVERY meal (3x)--this means adding chicken to a commercial salad, etc. You eat no protein for breakfast, for example. Eat protein snacks 2-3 times per day, in additon to the meals. You will not get hungry. Avoide/eliminate carbs like bread, NO BAGELS, rice, potato, pasta, cereals--same old. Do eat small amts (no more than 1/4 to 1/2 cup a day) of carbs like farro, sweet potato. No more than 1 hand fruit per day or better 1/4 cup of dark-skinned berries. That's it! Got in great shape and lost 20 lbs--muscles like protein! Protein curbs your appetite. Watch out for all those hidden calories in commercial food. Good luck!

    I don't believe a person needs to eliminate all carbs. I certainly haven't; and I won't.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,943 Member
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    I have a 1200 cal goal on MFP. I'm finding it hard to meet especially when I am working out burning 400 cal. Am I suppose to eat them back? I don't on regular days but on cheat days I do. So, my problem with the 1200 cals is, I'm usually coming up about 300 calories short. I have no eating disorder or anything it's just that I try to go by the nutrition goals on MFP. I can easily eat a 300 calorie snack but then I'll go over my recommended sugar or fat. If I only had to count calories it would be easy but we also have to watch fat, carbs, and sugar.. Advice?
    There are no rules to weight loss, or MFP for that matter, except if you want to lose weight you must stay within your calorie goal. Take a look at my diary. What you see there is what I've been eating all along, and I've lost plenty of weight.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,943 Member
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    I'd like to weigh in here because I eat 1100 calories a day very comfortably, an amount recommended to me personally by two well-known weight and fitness MDs, one of them a famous women's weight and fitness physician from NIH who has written a number of books of the subject. The reason it works is that my Basal Metobolic Rate (you can calculate this, just google BMR) is around 1200, but because I have body fat (fat burns less calories than lean muscle), I can adjust down a bit. Recommendations were to not eat less than 1,000 calories a day. I also exercise and am starting to weight train more regularly to increase fitness and lean body mass, which will increase my BMR--and your caloric intake needs to go down (not up) as you lose weight. Best to do that through increased exercise. My doctors definately recommended NOT eating back the calories you burn through regular activities or through exercise.

    How to eat in this caloric range is easy, if you follow a few simple rules--and I can see from your plan what is going wrong. Eat at 3-4 oz of lean protein at EVERY meal (3x)--this means adding chicken to a commercial salad, etc. You eat no protein for breakfast, for example. Eat protein snacks 2-3 times per day, in additon to the meals. You will not get hungry. Avoide/eliminate carbs like bread, NO BAGELS, rice, potato, pasta, cereals--same old. Do eat small amts (no more than 1/4 to 1/2 cup a day) of carbs like farro, sweet potato. No more than 1 hand fruit per day or better 1/4 cup of dark-skinned berries. That's it! Got in great shape and lost 20 lbs--muscles like protein! Protein curbs your appetite. Watch out for all those hidden calories in commercial food. Good luck!
    1100 calories is not healthy. I would not trust anyone who recommended I eat that low, especially a doctor or nutritionist. Any doctor I've ever had, including my current one, has preached moderation for weight loss.

    There is also no need to restrict types of foods, just how often we bring food to our mouths.
  • ebbingfat
    ebbingfat Posts: 117 Member
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    There are so many things you can eat that will easily get you there. Is the food you're eating actually filling you up, because it seems like so little.

    As many people have said, find calorie dense foods to add to your diet. I make myself "bird bars" to snack on when I'm behind my calorie limit. It's just a mix of sesame seeds, sunflower seeds, unsweetened coconut, cashews, chia seeds, and then a blend of honey and peanut butter to make them all stick together. Everything in it is completely healthy, and yet one little 2x2 square packs over 120 calories.

    You can still eat healthy, and lose weight while eating things that fad dieters tend to stay away from: bread, cheese, meats, etc. There's no reason you can't have things like pizza if you want it. Have you tried making pita pizzas? Take a piece of pita bread, spread a little sauce and cheese on top, as well as whatever toppings you want, and bake it for a short while. Yum!

    If I were you, I would start eating slightly bigger meals. To me, your breakfast and lunch seem like small snacks. I know I would still be very hungry after those. Instead of half of a grapefruit and a mini bagel for breakfast, why not a whole grapefruit and a regular sized bagel with some peanut butter? And maybe with your fruit for lunch, make a salad or a sandwich. I love roasting up carrots, peppers, and garlic and then putting them on some whole grain bread with some hummus. Very tasty.
  • sunfastrose
    sunfastrose Posts: 543 Member
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    My typical day is...

    Breakfast: half grapefruit and a mini bagel (180 cals)

    Snack: 100 cal pack of almonds (100 cals)

    Lunch: bowl of fruit (200 cals)

    Dinner: (4oz of grilled chicken, a sweet potato, and broccoli (about 270)

    Snack: 90 calorie fiber one brownie (90 cals)

    So about 840 cals and I feel full. I also was burning 500 cals a day but I've stopped since I'm not eating enough.I used to eat a lot of junk food ( fried, pizza, candy, soda) since I can't have that it's hard to find things I like to eat that are healthy for me so I just stick to these few things. I do have one or two days that I eat pizza or one of my fav foods but on those days I try to exercise more.

    I'd question the math on your dinner; 4 ounces of chicken is close to 200 calories itself, much less adding in the sweet potato and broccoli. I'd advise getting a scale to ensure accuracy in measurements. if you find you are still undereating, add protein to your lunch (lunch is only fruit salad??!!) and fat to your breakfast (PB is a good addition to a bagel).
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
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    I always find these thread titles surprisingly hard to believe and take seriously. Unless you've had an under-eating ED and have a mental issue surrounding eating sufficient amounts of food, you should not have a hard time getting to your goal number. If it's a matter of consuming too much roughage and not being hungry, eat less roughage and more calorie dense foods.

    Also, unless you have a medical reason to avoid sugar and fat, you should not. The low fat craze of the 90s was disastrous for the health and weight of the nations that could afford to go 'low fat'. Fat is good for you. It's vital to a plethora of biological functions and you need it for good health.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,397 MFP Moderator
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    I disagree with most of the posters here on this thread. Protein matters for general muscle health. Sugar and fat also matter because in order to do this long term you really need to eat healthier with foods that have more nutrients. Lower sugar/lower fat items tend to be healthier (ie. chicken breast, fruit, vegetables etc). I started with a dietitian and the first thing she went after was fat content and calories, then she was pushing me to higher carbs (because i work out) - and higher proteins. I've been making progress lately with her and her latest was on added sugar. It's not as hard as you think. I eat 2100 calories a day and struggle to keep it under that amount. Have a glass of skim milk with your meals - it will push your calories up with carbs and proteins. Eating fruit for lunch is not enough food to fuel your body. Despite your protest of having an eating disorder your diary seems to tell a different story - its loaded with calorie counted foods that are extreme. Have a handful of nuts instead of "100 calorie packs" - have a spoonful of peanut butter on your bagel. There is a tonne of opportunity in what you are eating to make your intake higher but you seem to be refusing to do it.

    There are essentially amino acids and essential fatty acids. So I am going to wager that fats are more important than carbs. Most people just don't understand fats. Without fats, you will struggle to absorb vitamins and minerals, your skin healthy and hair health will deteriorate, and you can get gallbladder issues from low fat diets. Yes, fats have more calories per gram, but realistically, you want adequate amounts to help with help. Additionally, it's already been proven that low fat diets are some of the worst out there.