I want to quit smoking

PSMTD
PSMTD Posts: 106 Member
Anyone else working on it too? I'm not a heavy smoker usually about 4 a day though I can go 2 - 3 days without one. What are some tips/thoughts you use to get through the day? I try to pretend they just stopped existing which is fairly easy until I go out in public. I want to actually quit instead of just saying I do.
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  • Spicer1
    Spicer1 Posts: 50 Member
    I'm having the same problem! I actually have quit smoking except for when I drink. I recently went about 2 weeks without drinking any alcohol and I had absolutely no problem not smoking during that time. I didn't even think about it. As soon as I take a sip of alcohol I just can't control my urge!
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    I smoke hookah daily which I hear is worse than cigarettes. I am in the same boat. For alcohol I literally think about how many calories I am about to intake. Also I have stop drinking until I hit my weight goal. I have not been sober for 57 days since I have started drinking.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    I'm just over 2 months smoke free. It sucks, but every time I run, I'm reminded why I quit. I would feel so much worse if I was still smoking.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    When I quit it was easy because I had a reason and a definite goal. My son didn't want me to smoke any more so it was a no brainer to quit. I gave myself a quit date that was a few weeks out and I stuck with it. I haven't had a cigarette since January 17th of last year. If you want something bad enough you just have to do it. It's not easy every day, but it is worth it every day.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    When I quit it was easy because I had a reason and a definite goal. My son didn't want me to smoke any more so it was a no brainer to quit. I gave myself a quit date that was a few weeks out and I stuck with it. I haven't had a cigarette since January 17th of last year. If you want something bad enough you just have to do it. It's not easy every day, but it is worth it every day.

    +1 there is not try. You either do or you don't. Are you a doer?
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
    Quit for a few days, then the next time you're around a smoker you realize how horrible it makes you smell.

    Yep, that's what did it for me.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I got really bad bronchitis. Was sick and didn't smoke.
    Never touched it again.

    That was almost 6 months ago.

    Train yourself to hate the smell.
  • EddieHaskell97
    EddieHaskell97 Posts: 2,227 Member
    Sorry, this is a bit long...

    I just hit my two-year anniversary of being smoke-free 6/1. I had accepted a job at a company that doesn't hire smokers (and they chemical test to verify). So I went cold turkey, and promptly turned into a psychotic late on day two. None of that was as bad as day three. I was dizzy, I could hear a high-pitched ringing at all hours. Everything seemed too bright, my muscles ached, and I was running a low fever. Day four hit, and it was better! I was physically free of nicotine. The mental addiction was still there, but I could pass the job's pee test at that point, and I did. The mental portion took months to finally overcome, but it was so much easier than the physical. It was "force of habit" kind of stuff, and when I was feeling stress, my first instinct was to go outside and smoke. Instead, I chewed on straws, went for walks, (and ate too much.)

    Anyway, I didn't want to go back to smoking, and I was pissed off! I had been Marlboro's ***** for a long time, and I didn't like it! I wasn't going to kneel down and suck off another cancer stick. I had to concentrate on how much I hated Phillip Morris / Altria. I had to continually think of my two kids crying over a headstone instead of playing catch, fishing, or cooking with their dad. I chewed on straws, ate about two bags of Werther's sugar-free asphal....er, "candy." And after a few weeks, the desire dropped, and the old habits went away.

    But that's when things really did start to get better. I regained my sense of smell within two weeks, and it was a whole new world. I stopped wheezing entirely within a month, and within two I no longer snored. Within three I could hold my breath for 45 seconds, and two years later 80 seconds is easy. I get maybe one cold a year (instead of five or six) and they really do last only about a week, instead of a month.

    Do whatever works for you, but do it. You've made it to the hardest part many times. Stick with it just a day or two longer, and it becomes INFINITELY easier. If pretending that they don't exists works, then do it. Hell, go out into the woods, or shutter yourself away if you can if you're worried about running into smokers. If thinking of calm, relaxing places works, more power to you. If you're like me, then summon up every bit of hatred and Game of Thrones-style rage and direct it at the company that wants to profit off your death. You will succeed, and your life will be so much better because of it.


    :Edited to remove quote:
  • fuzzysham
    fuzzysham Posts: 75 Member
    What helped me was a "fake cigarette" or a vapor. Yes you can get the smoke juice with nicotine still in it, but without all the other ingredients of cigarettes its A lot better than still smoking! Plus its much easier to ween your way down to 0mg of nicotine.
  • SingRunTing
    SingRunTing Posts: 2,604 Member
    Sorry, I've never been a smoker, so I can't give you personal experience. However, everyone I know that successfully quit smoking did it cold turkey. They just wanted it bad enough. Example: my brother wanted to join the fire department, so he quit.
  • I_Will_End_You
    I_Will_End_You Posts: 4,397 Member
    Vaporizors/e-cigs work wonders. I quit without any problems, mood swings, weight gain, etc... last October using one and haven't looked back. If you find your struggling cold turkey, go to an e-cig store and try out some different flavors and see if it's something that would work for you.
  • acpgee
    acpgee Posts: 8,007 Member
    I used to smoke two packs a day and quit in 93. A trick that worked for me was to bribe myself.

    The cost of my habit was about 20 Euros a week, the price of a new CD at that time. On Saturdays I would buy myself a little gift with the cigarette money (typically a CD) and my contract with myself would be not to smoke for the rest of the week until the gift was paid off. As time passed, I would buy larger gifts associated to longer periods of not smoking, such as designer shoes with 3 months worth of cigarette money.

    I think it helped to have some positive reinforcement. Mostly people only have negative reinforcement to quit smoking, such as not wanting to get lung emphysema or cancer, not wanting your clothes to stink, etc. Also being able to focus on short periods of time helped me.
  • Amanda_Gx6
    Amanda_Gx6 Posts: 320 Member
    I will be 2 years cigarette free on 7/5. For the first 2 weeks I used an e-cigarette to help ween the nicotine. Basically when I started to feel the physical affects of quitting smoking, the headache, shakes, nausea I would take a puff of the e-cig. After 2 weeks my smell/taste was improving and then I sat next to someone who had just smoked a cigarette and almost vommed at the smell of them. After that I really didn't need the e-cig anymore and tossed it. Its hard but you need to pick your hard. I still get cigarette cravings, I should probably say here that I really enjoyed smoking when I did. Its worth it in the end.
  • markiend
    markiend Posts: 461 Member
    I gave up 8 months ago, after 30 years... enough was enough. It was actually a bit easier after the first 2 weeks than I had hoped but the first 2 weeks and any stressful situations will test the willpower

    I had bought some patches but never used them but I will tell you straight... I still miss them, most days I have to remind myself I am now a non smoker and when I am within half a mile of somebody smoking I can tell instantly



    It's hard but it's worth it
  • LassoOfTruth
    LassoOfTruth Posts: 735 Member
    December 31, 2013... right before midnight, I had my last cigarette. The first 3 months of the year were BAD! Lolz. I was a raging b*tch, and didn't care who got in my wrath. But, eventually it subsided and now I am just a normal-level b*tch. :P

    My boyfriend also quit at the same time. He used the e-cigs, which took him about 3 months to get down to a level where he didn't need the nicotine anymore. Eventually, he stopped completely too.

    I went cold turkey. I'm an all or nothing type of broad, so I thought it would be better if I didn't even have an alternative... my thinking was that it would just make me want to go back to the sweet, glorious Newports. (I still miss smoking, if you can't tell.) BUT, I no longer have the cravings and I don't want to sneak one anymore.

    Do it for you, and remember those commercials with the yucky lungs. You don't want to talk like a robot or stop breathing, or lose your leg... that can happen!
  • jchite84
    jchite84 Posts: 467 Member
    Go to your doctor or dentist and get a prescription for Chantix. I worked in dentistry for years, and we prescribed this pretty regularly to our patients who wanted to quit smoking. It works very quickly (2-3 weeks for heavy smokers), because of the nature of the medicine it does have some bizarre side effects (most people had very vivid dreams, including nightmares and erotic dreams). Basically it blocks your nicotine receptors so that your body doesn't get satisfaction from cigarettes, and it has a high dose of anti-depressants. So you start to smoke, your body realizes it isn't doing anything and you just sort of lose interest in cigarettes, but you're happy, because of the anti-depressants. We had a 99% success rate with patients who were prescribed Chantix. *Note - I am not a doctor, this is not medical advice.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Quit for a few days, then the next time you're around a smoker you realize how horrible it makes you smell.

    Yep, that's what did it for me.


    ^This! I was horrified that I actually used to smell like that! I guess I always dated smokers in the past, so there were never really any complaints about the smell that bothered me that much.
  • AbsolutelyAnnie
    AbsolutelyAnnie Posts: 2,695 Member
    I quit smoking in September 2013 after a habit of nearly 40 years. I had wanted to quit for a long time and did quit a number of times, but never for long.

    Then I lost my job.

    All of my wonderful reasons to quit -- my family's pleadings, the health concerns -- all came together around money. I could no longer "financially" afford to smoke. I counted the cost and counted the savings. Enough.

    And I quit anywhere from 1 to 5 minutes at a time. When a craving hit, I would take 3 slow deep breaths and repeat that until the craving passed. Those deep breaths were intentional to help me think about my lungs getting clearer each time I passed on having a cigarette.

    You need to know that I loved smoking. Loved it. And I shed bitter tears on many days. I wished smoking was good for me, that there was a government program to give me cigarettes for free, and that people admired me for smoking ability.

    I miss it from time to time...BUT, because I quit smoking I know that I can lose the rest of this weight. I have lost nearly 35 pounds in 108 days and I know that the remaining 70+ will also come off.

    I quit smoking. I can do anything.
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  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    I am almost at one month nicotine free. I quit cold turkey because it seems to work best for me. This is the second time I've quit. I was very successful the first time and was free for 4 years. Then I made a stupid decision to start again. It has taken me 2 years to quit again. I think it comes down to really being ready.

    Every time I have a craving, I remind myself of all the reasons I quit.

    My daughter
    my BF
    not having a stroke while on birth control
    better biking
    not getting lung cancer
    not rapidly aging
    better teeth, breath, lips
    not looking like a WT thug
    14ers
    money, money, money (what''s saved is better spent at the dispensary)
    not freezing my *kitten* off in the winter, roasting in the summer
    not stinking
    pride (you have to give yourself credit for quitting. It's effing hard)

    I also drink almost a entire bottle of water every time I crave. I've managed to not gain any weight this time.

    Hang in there. You CAN quit. Like anything else, it takes strength. At 3 and 1/2 weeks, I barely have any cravings at all anymore.

    ETA: I'm currently binge watching Mad Men. If you want to be totally grossed out by cigarettes, watch that show. I thought it would make me want one, but it's the opposite. I can't imagine how bad the 60's smelled.
  • mrsolsonwaters3
    mrsolsonwaters3 Posts: 12 Member
    What helped me was a "fake cigarette" or a vapor. Yes you can get the smoke juice with nicotine still in it, but without all the other ingredients of cigarettes its A lot better than still smoking! Plus its much easier to ween your way down to 0mg of nicotine.

    I did this if I went out and was drinking, it helps!
  • jess7386
    jess7386 Posts: 477 Member
    Never smoked, but just want to say I am proud of every one of you for kicking the habit & sharing your stories. :love:
  • PSMTD
    PSMTD Posts: 106 Member
    Wow thanks for all the replies :)

    My biggest problems are of course if I drink I want to smoke, boredom and the fact that my husband smokes. My husband doesn't want to quit and I'm fine with that. It's his choice but we do have a no smoking rule in the house so that will help. Even being a smoker I hate walking into someones house and only smelling cigarettes so we just never smoked inside. I have/had (it's in my house somewhere but we moved a couple of weeks ago and I still can't find it.) a vape and I really like it. I prefer it to cigarettes but I just haven't been able to locate it. I feel as if I'm just making excuses and I need to stop. Every morning I wake up and there is a pack in my car. If I throw it out I know there's another carton in the house and if I don't smoke any I can still smell them on my husband.
    I used to smoke two packs a day and quit in 93. A trick that worked for me was to bribe myself.

    The cost of my habit was about 20 Euros a week, the price of a new CD at that time. On Saturdays I would buy myself a little gift with the cigarette money (typically a CD) and my contract with myself would be not to smoke for the rest of the week until the gift was paid off. As time passed, I would buy larger gifts associated to longer periods of not smoking, such as designer shoes with 3 months worth of cigarette money.

    I think it helped to have some positive reinforcement. Mostly people only have negative reinforcement to quit smoking, such as not wanting to get lung emphysema or cancer, not wanting your clothes to stink, etc. Also being able to focus on short periods of time helped me.

    Aegee - I really like that idea. I might try and do that. I like the idea of positive rewards.
    I quit smoking in September 2013 after a habit of nearly 40 years. I had wanted to quit for a long time and did quit a number of times, but never for long.

    Then I lost my job.

    All of my wonderful reasons to quit -- my family's pleadings, the health concerns -- all came together around money. I could no longer "financially" afford to smoke. I counted the cost and counted the savings. Enough.

    And I quit anywhere from 1 to 5 minutes at a time. When a craving hit, I would take 3 slow deep breaths and repeat that until the craving passed. Those deep breaths were intentional to help me think about my lungs getting clearer each time I passed on having a cigarette.

    You need to know that I loved smoking. Loved it. And I shed bitter tears on many days. I wished smoking was good for me, that there was a government program to give me cigarettes for free, and that people admired me for smoking ability.

    I miss it from time to time...BUT, because I quit smoking I know that I can lose the rest of this weight. I have lost nearly 35 pounds in 108 days and I know that the remaining 70+ will also come off.

    I quit smoking. I can do anything.

    Thank you for that advice. I also LOVE smoking. I hate that I love it but even writing this makes me want to go smoke another. Starting Monday (I know, I know why not just quit now and just man up) I'm going to go cold turkey again.... and also hopefully over the next couple of days I can find my vape and life will be so much easier lol. (I have all 0.5 or 0 nicotine flavors) I did the patch, the gum, etc and none of those ever worked for me I think because I kept telling myself I wanted to quit but I knew I didn't really want.

    If there's any other posters who are thinking about quiting does anyone want to be my "battle" buddy starting Monday? If not that's okay too I know I need to do this for myself.
  • mehwhatever
    mehwhatever Posts: 569 Member
    I quit cold turkey 4 years ago. I found sucking on hard candy helped, kept my mouth busy. I must say though I only quit because my ex gave me an ultimatum. Only good thing the piece of crap did for me.
  • dcnemesis
    dcnemesis Posts: 31
    I am in the same boat exactly! I wouldn't say 4 cigs a day is a lot though I have been working on quitting, having about 1 a day for a couple months and some days I don't have one but same as you, 2-3 days out I want one all of a sudden when I think I'm winning! haha

    I find the same thing that I can pretend they dont exist until certain triggers. My mom who I'm stuck living with until I can get a job now that I'm done school is a chainsmoker and it makes it friggin impossible to kill the cravings because I'm always around her second hand smoke in the house. If I moved out I think I could do it. And alcohol of course is the worst trigger for me.

    Do a lot of your friends smoke? I find it has been easier to stop since I don't hang out with any smokers any more. Obviously you can't lose friends over that but a lot of my friends have quit over the years as we have become adults. I try to tell myself only the teenage me would smoke and it helps a bit lol.

    Maybe try quitting with a buddy IF its possible I think that makes it easier and think of all the money youll save and even keep track and then buy yourself something nice like clothes or a manicure or something :)
  • PSMTD
    PSMTD Posts: 106 Member
    When I lived in Ohio all of my friends smoked. Now that I'm in a new area and only have 2 friends at the moment, neither of them smoke which is really helpful.
  • TenderWalnut
    TenderWalnut Posts: 13 Member
    1 1/2 packs of Marlboro Reds every day for almost 20 years. I quit April of 2013 and use a personal vaporizer now. If you have not looked into e-digs check em out.
  • jcreazy
    jcreazy Posts: 50 Member
    Honestly, I quit by not buying cigarettes. It is really easy to not smoke when you have nothing to smoke.
  • bjmurphy102
    bjmurphy102 Posts: 31 Member
    I am about to take on this task next week (or maybe even this week) I am just ready to be done with it. I'm tired of spending the money, smelling like smoke, and being outed as a smoker. I already eat well and I exercise daily so I know that this is just holding me back from what my true goals are. If anyone wants to be a "no-smoke" buddy feel free to send me a friend request on here and we can kick the habit together!!
  • I am in the process also, I have tried many times in the past to quit and never made it longer than 6 weeks. The beginning of April I got myself a vapor pen and started on 18mg liquid, I am down to 3mg at this time and hoping to be done with it all very soon. The good thing about it is that I have not touched a cigarette since I got my vape and have not experienced any withdrawl symptoms at all (except the few days when I just think I want a real smoke) But everyone is different and quitting smoking is very hard. Just don't give up and don't quit quitting......If you slip up, forgive yourself and move forward......Now.....if there was only a way to give up on all the extra calories so easily life would be great! :)