Flirting with average looking girls vs. above average girls

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  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
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    It's two things:1) the hottest girls are intimidating to many guys. 2) the hottest girls (or any girl really) often give off an unapproachable vibe.

    Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

    Also I've never met a guy who thought anyone was out of his league. lol

    Doubt it. They did and you just didn't know it.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    Or the hottie is rather dense, or chooses to ignore when she's being hit on.

    What? Since when do dumb hot girls exist?

    If any are reading this (lol), please lmk.
  • kcmcd
    kcmcd Posts: 239 Member
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    Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

    Also I've never met a guy who thought anyone was out of his league. lol

    I think that isnt true at all.

    Maybe it isn't. I don't know All The Guys. :)
  • MsJulielicious
    MsJulielicious Posts: 708 Member
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    Could the "hottie" perhaps be more polar, like Marmite, where the average-looking lass is more universally appreciated, like bacon?

    I just googled marmite. I'm still not any closer to understanding what it is.
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
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    Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?
    I do. Don't even try with really hot girls.

    Quasimodo can occasionally hook up with Esmeralda, but 50$ says that he's the one getting dumped and heartbroken.
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
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    Could the "hottie" perhaps be more polar, like Marmite, where the average-looking lass is more universally appreciated, like bacon?

    I just googled marmite. I'm still not any closer to understanding what it is.
    Are you from space or something?




    Or is Marmite just very obscurely British? :tongue:
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    I flirt with everyone.
    All the time.
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
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    I flirt with everyone.
    All the time.
    He always tells the truth, too. :tongue:
  • BigVeggieDream
    BigVeggieDream Posts: 1,101 Member
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    Could the "hottie" perhaps be more polar, like Marmite, where the average-looking lass is more universally appreciated, like bacon?

    I just googled marmite. I'm still not any closer to understanding what it is.
    Are you from space or something?




    Or is Marmite just very obscurely British? :tongue:

    British. I never heard of it, until I visited England. I loved it, but I can't find it stateside. I've looked everywhere.
  • Lilly_the_Hillbilly
    Lilly_the_Hillbilly Posts: 914 Member
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    Marmite is the british version of vegemite.
  • Behxo
    Behxo Posts: 1,190 Member
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    I think a lot of it also depends on where you are at the moment, for example you would probably get hit on more often at the club than if you were at a mall. So maybe your better looking friend doesn't go to many "social" places than your average looking one?
  • minimalistmom
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    Men flirt when they want to, with what appeals to them, and what they think is within there league.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    Let's just make this thread be about marmite and space people instead.
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
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    Has it occurred to you that maybe people flirt for other reasons than just looks..?
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
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    Let's just make this thread be about marmite and space people instead.

    10/10 would flirt with a space person covered in marmite.
  • Junken__Diraffe
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    I think it's super awesome that you called out your friends. One as a hottie, the other as a... not-so-hottie. I wonder if they'll be able to figure out who is who. Wait, yeah. They will. Not-so-hottie said she gets hit on. Hottie said she doesn't.

    Hmm... that sucks.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    Let's just make this thread be about marmite and space people instead.

    10/10 would flirt with a space person covered in marmite.

    :laugh: :wink: :flowerforyou:
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
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    It's likely either that she doesn't pick up on flirting (which is a very common thing) or that she has an unapproachable demeanor (shy, aloof, sour, etc).

    I have friends of all shapes and sizes who get hit on constantly in no small part because they will make eye contact, smile and appear to be interested in everyone.

    People like me who can't look another human being in the eyes can't turn a head no matter how short my skirt is.
  • fr053n
    fr053n Posts: 2,793 Member
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    it depends on how approachable someone looks. if youve got a ***** face/think you're better than everyone else, people will shy away
  • Phoenix__Rising
    Phoenix__Rising Posts: 9,981 Member
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    Has it occurred to you that maybe people flirt for other reasons than just looks..?


    ^This