I keep gaining, but losing
darreneatschicken
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I'm trying to bulk, and I'll be successful and gain a pound or two, but then it all somehow disappears the next time I weigh myself. I'm currently 144 lbs, 19 year old male. Can someone please look at my diary and tell me what I'm doing wrong? I'll stay up till like 6am eating just to hit my macros, but I never seem to growwww!
For example, 4 days ago, I was 146.2 lbs, but I just weighed myself (on an empty stomach maybe that's why?), and I'm only 144 lbs now! It takes me so long to gain 2 lbs, so I'm extremely disappointed.
For example, 4 days ago, I was 146.2 lbs, but I just weighed myself (on an empty stomach maybe that's why?), and I'm only 144 lbs now! It takes me so long to gain 2 lbs, so I'm extremely disappointed.
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How long have you been eating over 3000 cals daily?
Don't weight yourself too often, it will mess with your head.
Are you overestimating your intake? Are you weighing your food, or just guesstimating?
what and how much exercise are you doing? Rest days?
When I started my bulk at the beginning of the year, the first 3 weeks I was losing weight, and kept upping my intake slowly week after week until I saw significant changes.0 -
If you look at my diary, I changed my macro intake on May 20 to consume around 3200 calories. I now try to consume 240 grams of protein a day (but fail most of the time as this is just so intense for me).
I weigh my food always. Been pretty obsessive about this actually, like when we go out to eat, I ask my mom how much she thinks this side of veggies weighs (for example).
I haven't been doing that much weight lifting lately, because I've been working a lot on strengthening my core and glutes so that I can perform more compound exercises correctly. I just finished 3 sessions with a personal trainer and I learned a bunch of good exercises for the core and glutes, the problem is, these exercises are mostly with just your body weight. So I'm trying to implement them into a workout with heavy weights. Sort of all over the place right now. Learned so many exercises, but I don't know how to use them and gain muscle at the same time.
I go to the gym 3x a week, and I also play hockey 1-3 times a week so sometimes I'll only have 1 rest day. I really need to plan my day better and bring protein bars with me everywhere and just "healthy" snacks, because I do stuff during the day, and never eat until late at night when I'm home and can sit on the sofa and watch netflix. And then I'll cook like 100000 chicken breasts and eat like 10000 cups of fruits until it's like 6 am and then I go to sleep and wake up at 6 pm and my days gone and I hate it.
I hate getting home at the end of the day, wanting to go to sleep, but then looking at my diary and seeing that I still have 150 grams of protein to eat. It sucks. I hate it. But I don't know what to dooooo! The deadly cycle just keeps repeating itself and my mom is super worried because I stay up so late eating and I wake up so late, and I hate it and I hate it but I want to gain sooooo badly, I just like... can't...0 -
If you look at my diary, I changed my macro intake on May 20 to consume around 3200 calories. I now try to consume 240 grams of protein a day (but fail most of the time as this is just so intense for me).
I weigh my food always. Been pretty obsessive about this actually, like when we go out to eat, I ask my mom how much she thinks this side of veggies weighs (for example).
I haven't been doing that much weight lifting lately, because I've been working a lot on strengthening my core and glutes so that I can perform more compound exercises correctly. I just finished 3 sessions with a personal trainer and I learned a bunch of good exercises for the core and glutes, the problem is, these exercises are mostly with just your body weight. So I'm trying to implement them into a workout with heavy weights. Sort of all over the place right now. Learned so many exercises, but I don't know how to use them and gain muscle at the same time.
I go to the gym 3x a week, and I also play hockey 1-3 times a week so sometimes I'll only have 1 rest day. I really need to plan my day better and bring protein bars with me everywhere and just "healthy" snacks, because I do stuff during the day, and never eat until late at night when I'm home and can sit on the sofa and watch netflix. And then I'll cook like 100000 chicken breasts and eat like 10000 cups of fruits until it's like 6 am and then I go to sleep and wake up at 6 pm and my days gone and I hate it.
I hate getting home at the end of the day, wanting to go to sleep, but then looking at my diary and seeing that I still have 150 grams of protein to eat. It sucks. I hate it. But I don't know what to dooooo! The deadly cycle just keeps repeating itself and my mom is super worried because I stay up so late eating and I wake up so late, and I hate it and I hate it but I want to gain sooooo badly, I just like... can't...
The protein intake is pretty high IMO, I would lower that percentage a bit and up your carbs. Are you eating any pasta, bread? quick carbs. Veggies are good for you, but don't pack much calories, So I wouldn't focus much on those, keep them in tho.
what about protein shakes? You can get mass gainers that pack over 500 cals a drink. 2 a day and you're over 1k already.
It sounds like your pretty active, which you need to take into account. Hockey can burn a lot of calories, there is a reason why hockey players carb up on game day.
Eat ice cream, I was eating about 1-2 tubs a week
You can always add you're core and glute exercises at the end of your workout as accessory. If you want to progress with them, like anything else, increase the resistance of the exercise.0 -
trying to get your calories up with fruit and veg is never going to work... yes make sure you eat some for the vitamins and minerals, but look to your fat and starchy carbs for calories... or doughnuts and ice cream!0
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Ok guys, I'll eat more ice cream and bread and pasta and rice lol (just more carbs in general). Also, I'm starting to drink lots of milk again as a way to "cheat".
Right now, I'm doing 40% carbs, 30% protein, and 30% fat. My trainer told me to do this (and also a female body builder who messaged me on MFP).
So this is like 3237 calories, 240 protein, 321 carbs, and 105 fat a day based on Scooby's calculator. And this is what I've been trying to do for the past month or so. Super hard though. I hardly ever have a successful day where I can actually intake all this.
However, the female body builder did mention that based on how my body was responding, I should increase the carbs if necessary, which is what you guys are telling me to do right now. Well, Steve told me to lower my protein and increase my carbs, not just increase carbs, which makes more sense because seeing as I'm already failing, it would be crazy to keep the protein at 240.
But what do you guys think I should increase the daily carb intake to? 350? 375? 400?
And what should I decrease the protein intake to? 200? 180?
Pretty much what I'm asking is what should my new percentages be?
45% carbs, 25% protein, 30% fat?
45% carbs, 30% protein, 25% fat?
I also want to try Scott Herman's calculator, because it takes into account body fat, so it's probably more accurate? The link is here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZjxWqwoWTg
I need to get a body fat caliper first though. Just found this article on how to measure your body fat and muscle growth using a caliper:
http://www.muscleandstrength.com/tools/how-to-measure-bodyfat-using-calipers.html0 -
45% carbs, 30% protein, 25% fat
But you say your trying to bulk.. Bulking is eating at a surplus to add muscle.. Your not working out enough, incorporate Dead lifts, bench press and squats in your routine asap. If you want to strengthen your core they are a must.0 -
You might want to try GOMAD if it is easier for you to drink your calories. GOMAD = Gallon of Milk A Day.
IMO like Ashes said try 45/30/25 or 45/25/30. I personally like to go a little higher on dietary fat. You need to get in the consistent progressive weight training as well. Hockey is good cardio but I would imagine you are burning a pretty good chunk of calories there. If you really want to bulk up, you are going to have to get serious about bringing food with you so that you can eat during the day.0 -
Ok guys, I'll eat more ice cream and bread and pasta and rice lol (just more carbs in general). Also, I'm starting to drink lots of milk again as a way to "cheat".
Right now, I'm doing 40% carbs, 30% protein, and 30% fat. My trainer told me to do this (and also a female body builder who messaged me on MFP).
So this is like 3237 calories, 240 protein, 321 carbs, and 105 fat a day based on Scooby's calculator. And this is what I've been trying to do for the past month or so. Super hard though. I hardly ever have a successful day where I can actually intake all this.
However, the female body builder did mention that based on how my body was responding, I should increase the carbs if necessary, which is what you guys are telling me to do right now. Well, Steve told me to lower my protein and increase my carbs, not just increase carbs, which makes more sense because seeing as I'm already failing, it would be crazy to keep the protein at 240.
But what do you guys think I should increase the daily carb intake to? 350? 375? 400?
And what should I decrease the protein intake to? 200? 180?
Pretty much what I'm asking is what should my new percentages be?
45% carbs, 25% protein, 30% fat?
45% carbs, 30% protein, 25% fat?
I also want to try Scott Herman's calculator, because it takes into account body fat, so it's probably more accurate? The link is here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZjxWqwoWTg
I need to get a body fat caliper first though. Just found this article on how to measure your body fat and muscle growth using a caliper:
http://www.muscleandstrength.com/tools/how-to-measure-bodyfat-using-calipers.html
I'd go with 45% carb, 30% protein & 25% fat as well. The amount of protein you have now doesn't hurt you, but isn't benefiting you either. By adjusting your macros, the amount of protein you'll need will lower.
Carbs are equally as important to adding size and muscle. Which is why I suggest high calorie foods like pasta, bread, milk. Plus, they are a good source of energy. I big bowl of paste, couple slices of bread and a big glass of milk, can easily get you over 1000 cals.
If you're already drinking more milk, that's great, keep it up! Don't forget the ice cream.45% carbs, 30% protein, 25% fat
But you say your trying to bulk.. Bulking is eating at a surplus to add muscle.. Your not working out enough, incorporate Dead lifts, bench press and squats in your routine asap. If you want to strengthen your core they are a must.
I agree. Gotta lift big, eat big, to get big. No way around it. And as far as core strength, it doesn't get much better then Squats and deads.0 -
But you can't deadlift or squat with weak glutes or core, right?
Otherwise, why would all my trainers teach me a bunch of accessory work for my core and glutes?0 -
You can squat or deadlift with weak core and glutes, you will just have to start with lower weights than someone with a stronger core/glutes. Nothing wrong with working on weak areas though either.
I won't get involved in why trainers do what trainers do.0 -
But you can't deadlift or squat with weak glutes or core, right?
Otherwise, why would all my trainers teach me a bunch of accessory work for my core and glutes?
The accessory work is done to work on a weakness so you can improve the lifts in question, not to replace it. You would do them after your lifts, or off days, depends on your programming.
So if your weak points are core and glutes, squats and deadlifts are the first thing you want to do.0 -
But you can't deadlift or squat with weak glutes or core, right?
Otherwise, why would all my trainers teach me a bunch of accessory work for my core and glutes?
The accessory work is done to work on a weakness so you can improve the lifts in question, not to replace it. You would do them after your lifts, or off days, depends on your programming.
So if your weak points are core and glutes, squats and deadlifts are the first thing you want to do.
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trying to get your calories up with fruit and veg is never going to work... yes make sure you eat some for the vitamins and minerals, but look to your fat and starchy carbs for calories... or doughnuts and ice cream!
this.
I was bulking on 3000- and I'm a girl whose signifncantly older than you- there is no way you can be bulking well on 3K.
EAT MOAR.
I would normally say pizza and beer- but I can't recommend alcohol to minors- so ice cream- doughnuts- cheese cake in your smoothies- whatever it takes to up the calories- you gotta do it. Milk isn't cheating. There is no such thing as "cheating" when you're bulking- the job is to get calories- hitting the macros on average is nice- but you just need calories.The accessory work is done to work on a weakness so you can improve the lifts in question, not to replace it. You would do them after your lifts, or off days, depends on your programming.
So if your weak points are core and glutes, squats and deadlifts are the first thing you want to do.
steve knows
clearly... because EVERYONE knows the answers to ALL of life's questions are "more skwatz"0 -
This was me deadlifting in April. Hadn't done much core or glute work then:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qu0imZZ963k0 -
You can squat or deadlift with weak core and glutes, you will just have to start with lower weights than someone with a stronger core/glutes. Nothing wrong with working on weak areas though either.
I won't get involved in why trainers do what trainers do.
I agree, but you can only go so far with weak glutes and core. For example, in January, I tried doing StrongLifts. I got my squat to one plate, but what I realized was, because the weight was so heavy for me, I was actually using my lower back to lift the weight up. I talked to my trainer about this, and he said that my lower back was compensating for my weak glutes and core.
Therefore, yes, you have to start with lower weights, but just doing StrongLifts alone didn't build up my core and glutes enough for me to handle the heavier weights.
Also, the reason why I might've been squatting using my back (other than having weak glutes and core), was probably because back then, I didn't know how to engage my core. Now I do. You suck your belly in. Also, taking a deep breath at the top before you descend helps.0 -
You can squat or deadlift with weak core and glutes, you will just have to start with lower weights than someone with a stronger core/glutes. Nothing wrong with working on weak areas though either.
I won't get involved in why trainers do what trainers do.
I agree, but you can only go so far with weak glutes and core. For example, in January, I tried doing StrongLifts. I got my squat to one plate, but what I realized was, because the weight was so heavy for me, I was actually using my lower back to lift the weight up. I talked to my trainer about this, and he said that my lower back was compensating for my weak glutes and core.
Therefore, yes, you have to start with lower weights, but just doing StrongLifts alone didn't build up my core and glutes enough for me to handle the heavier weights.
Also, the reason why I might've been squatting using my back (other than having weak glutes and core), was probably because back then, I didn't know how to engage my core. Now I do. You suck your belly in. Also, taking a deep breath at the top before you descend helps.
Unless you were about to injure yourself, it's perfectly fine for the weight to feel heavy, it's suppose to do that. If there's issues or you fail, that's when you de-load, and work on form. Don't completely dump the exercise. Failing is part of the process. How you deal with failure, will determine how well you'll progress.
That's like being a swimmer and having a crappy stroke. You don't stop swimming, to go do shoulder exercises. You Jump in the pool and swim!!
De-load, work on your form, and do accessory work for your weaknesses.0 -
I seems like you're simply not eating enough and especially enough carbs. With all the training you do, I suggest 50% carbs, 20% protein and 30% fat, and upping your daily calorie intake to about 4000-4500.0
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I seems like you're simply not eating enough and especially enough carbs. With all the training you do, I suggest 50% carbs, 20% protein and 30% fat, and upping your daily calorie intake to about 4000-4500.
I'm really confused now about the percentages. I have people telling me to do:
45% carbs, 25% fat, and 30% protein
45% carbs, 30% fat, and 25% protein
And now you're telling me to do:
50% carbs, 30% fat, and 20% protein
Who do I listen to? Ahhhh!0 -
You can squat or deadlift with weak core and glutes, you will just have to start with lower weights than someone with a stronger core/glutes. Nothing wrong with working on weak areas though either.
I won't get involved in why trainers do what trainers do.
I agree, but you can only go so far with weak glutes and core. For example, in January, I tried doing StrongLifts. I got my squat to one plate, but what I realized was, because the weight was so heavy for me, I was actually using my lower back to lift the weight up. I talked to my trainer about this, and he said that my lower back was compensating for my weak glutes and core.
Therefore, yes, you have to start with lower weights, but just doing StrongLifts alone didn't build up my core and glutes enough for me to handle the heavier weights.
Also, the reason why I might've been squatting using my back (other than having weak glutes and core), was probably because back then, I didn't know how to engage my core. Now I do. You suck your belly in. Also, taking a deep breath at the top before you descend helps.
Unless you were about to injure yourself, it's perfectly fine for the weight to feel heavy, it's suppose to do that. If there's issues or you fail, that's when you de-load, and work on form. Don't completely dump the exercise. Failing is part of the process. How you deal with failure, will determine how well you'll progress.
That's like being a swimmer and having a crappy stroke. You don't stop swimming, to go do shoulder exercises. You Jump in the pool and swim!!
De-load, work on your form, and do accessory work for your weaknesses.
Okay Steve, I'm not going to completely dump squats and deadlifts, but, my trainer taught me this exercise called the angled bar squat, and what it is, is you put the barbell against like a corner, and you hold it out in front of you with two hands and you simply squat. I really like this exercise because it's like a squat and DL in one. The squatting motion makes it like a squat, but the fact that you have to pinch your shoulders back and down to keep your back straight, makes it like a DL. Also, you have to squeeze your glutes at the top, just like at the top of a DL.
I'm telling you about this exercise because I feel like it kills many birds with one stone. For some reason,I find it a lot easier to pinch your shoulders back and down to keep your back straight than an actual DL, and so I feel like it would be a good replacement exercise for the squat and DL for the meantime.0 -
squats and deadlifts are one of the best ways to strengthen a weak core. Unless a physio or sports medicine doctor has told you not to do them, I would go to those lifts first to develop core strength. Squats especially. Yes you need core strength to do them... that's why doing them builds core strength. Just be sure that you're using a light enough weight that you can maintain good form throughout the lift, yet heavy enough that it's giving your muscles enough stimulus to grow.
Have you tried stronglifts 5x5 or starting strength? Or a similar kind of beginner's programme? They are a really good way for a beginner to gain strength (and weight if combined with eating at a calorie surplus). You're a young man, so your potential to gain mass with these programmes is greater than for women or older men and you can benefit from a larger surplus than them too (hence GOMAD or similar) and gain that much more muscle. Even if you gain fat in the process, you can cut to remove it, and have that much larger muscles being revealed when you cut.0 -
The actual percentages are up to you. You technically don't need more than .6-.8 grams of protein per lb of body weight. Figure that number out. Fats I believe it is .4-.45 gm/lb. The rest fill with carbs or more fat or more protein. Carbs and fats to me are the easiest and usually cheapest ways to fill this in. You can usually pack in some pretty calorie dense foods as well in order to minimize what looks like hours you are spending at night eating.
I have been where you are, I started out at 6' 1" 140lbs. The heaviest I have bulked to was 214lbs @ 15% BF. Once you get the nutrition part down, everything else will fall into place with a solid lifting plan. I wish I would have learned the nutrition part sooner.0 -
Clearly you didn't read what I wrote so let me copy and pasty it for you and put it in bold
There is no such thing as "cheating" when you're bulking- the job is to get calories- hitting the macros on average is nice- but you just need calories.
stop sweating the macros and eat more food.You can squat or deadlift with weak core and glutes, you will just have to start with lower weights than someone with a stronger core/glutes. Nothing wrong with working on weak areas though either.
I won't get involved in why trainers do what trainers do.
I agree, but you can only go so far with weak glutes and core. For example, in January, I tried doing StrongLifts. I got my squat to one plate, but what I realized was, because the weight was so heavy for me, I was actually using my lower back to lift the weight up. I talked to my trainer about this, and he said that my lower back was compensating for my weak glutes and core.
Therefore, yes, you have to start with lower weights, but just doing StrongLifts alone didn't build up my core and glutes enough for me to handle the heavier weights.
Also, the reason why I might've been squatting using my back (other than having weak glutes and core), was probably because back then, I didn't know how to engage my core. Now I do. You suck your belly in. Also, taking a deep breath at the top before you descend helps.
Unless you were about to injure yourself, it's perfectly fine for the weight to feel heavy, it's suppose to do that. If there's issues or you fail, that's when you de-load, and work on form. Don't completely dump the exercise. Failing is part of the process. How you deal with failure, will determine how well you'll progress.
That's like being a swimmer and having a crappy stroke. You don't stop swimming, to go do shoulder exercises. You Jump in the pool and swim!!
De-load, work on your form, and do accessory work for your weaknesses.
Okay Steve, I'm not going to completely dump squats and deadlifts, but, my trainer taught me this exercise called the angled bar squat, and what it is, is you put the barbell against like a corner, and you hold it out in front of you with two hands and you simply squat. I really like this exercise because it's like a squat and DL in one. The squatting motion makes it like a squat, but the fact that you have to pinch your shoulders back and down to keep your back straight, makes it like a DL. Also, you have to squeeze your glutes at the top, just like at the top of a DL.
I'm telling you about this exercise because I feel like it kills many birds with one stone. For some reason,I find it a lot easier to pinch your shoulders back and down to keep your back straight than an actual DL, and so I feel like it would be a good replacement exercise for the squat and DL for the meantime.
strong lifts is designed to get you stronger.
Doing that type of squat is nice- it's a great compound exercise... but in order to get your squat up- you must squat more.
I struggled under 185 for months- even 155 which was a solid lift for me FELT heavy- and 200 felt impossible and I switched to a program that had me squatting EVER session- my squats got better. I can now squat over 200. Sht is still heavy as hell- but it's doable. my 175/185 feels so much more solid- and doesn't seem insurmountable any more.
In order to get better at doing the thing- you must do the thing.
Training abs and glutes won't give you a better squat. They'll help sure- but only squatting properly will improve your squat.0 -
Use the advise for Macro's as a guide line, their all pretty close...
And substitutes for Deads and Squats are just not the same, don't be afraid of the lifts, start at a weight your comfortable with to build proper form and do higher sets 8-12reps. You want to gain size and your not to comfortable yet so lighter weight and more time under tension will help you build muscle, then once you have your form down to a tee and you want to get stronger start 5x5. There's no shame in squating with an empty bar, I'd rather see someone with an empty bar going *kitten* to grass then someone with bad form and 300lbs.0 -
Yes! Gonna keep squatting and deadlifting! Found a trainer that can teach me directly how to squat with proper form. He told me odd things like grabbing the floor with your feet as you squat or DL. Good advice since my problem is that I have weak glutes, so I am actually leaning more towards my right when I squat rather than being directly centred.
He also taught me weird hip positioning: before you squat, move your hips forward, then backward, then squat, and as you go up, drive hips forward like in a DL. Hence, your starting position is your ending position.
Regarding DL, he said that my build was meant for sumo, which explains why I've been trying to learn conventional for so long and still haven't really. When I do conventional, I have to drop my hips hellaa to keep a straight back. Therefore sumo is better for me.
I got a free personal training session with this guy but the problem is that it costs 500$ if I want 6 more sessions. I know this is expensive, but is definitely worth the value to me. I've been trying to learn how to squat and DL for the longest time and this guy showed me he could teach me!0 -
Also can someone look at my diary now? Are the macros good? I increased carbs and lowered protein a bit (to a more reasonable amount).
I feel like the fat may be too low?0 -
Your goal fat in your diary looks pretty decent to me. That is about what I hit on workout days, rest days I like to go higher but that is a preference thing.0
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I don't know much about this stuff, but do you always weigh yourself at the same time of day? On the same surface?
Your weight changes over the course of the day, depending on water intake/digestion etc.. So weighing yourself one day at 9 am, and 8 pm the next day will give inaccurate readings.
The same surface is really important, because it messes with your scales. If I weigh myself with scales on a carpet, it is about 5 or 6 lbs off the weight that I get on a hard floor.0 -
Forget the macro ratios. You don't need 240g protein a day unless you just like to pass gas. Shoot for 1g Protein per pound LBM minimum and .45g per pound Fat and fill the rest of your calories with carbs and additional Proteins/Fats as you see fit. I was able to gain on 3,200 cals when I weighed nearly 40 lbs. more than you do. So unless you are extraordinarily active, take another look at your tracking for accuracy. If you're still not gaining, then up it a couple hundred cals. Eat like it's your job and lift like a madman and you'll gain. As others have said, don't worry about short term fluctations up or down. Keep eating and you'll gain.
....and ice cream is your friend. Eating it daily works great for bulking.0 -
If you are not measuring all your foods accurately with a scale than your numbers will be off. Start measuring your foods. Increase your calories till you can gain 1 lb per week & meet your macros which is important especially protein. Start lifting!!!!. If you don't lift the major compound exercises you will not gain muscle. Bench Press, Squats, Deadlifts & Strict Press are the 4 most important. Look for a beginners weight lifting program. If you are not gaining with 3000 calories & you are measuring this than up your calories till you start gaining. Start drinking protein shakes if you can't meet your calorie intake.0
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