Is it fair for a woman to have to chase a man?

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  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
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    Had a guy tell me that "he'd prefer the girl to ask the guy out". Go ahead, call me old fashioned, but I'd prefer having the guy ask the girl not the girl ask the guy. :ohwell:

    Why would you intentionally sacrifice that power and instead roll the dice on an acceptable mate finding you and being into you?

    Guess... the fear of being rejected. :indifferent:
  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
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    The last time I had to chase a fella I hucked a ten foot pole at the guy. hashtag needthoseangermngmtclasses
  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
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    I figure we're faster because of the third leg thing. :ohwell:

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    Do not encourage his third leg because then he starts skipping instead of running. Creates a much bigger issue.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,375 Member
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    I figure we're faster because of the third leg thing. :ohwell:

    Unless you trip. :wink:

    Hi Mister Universe! :smooched: :heart:
  • endermako
    endermako Posts: 787 Member
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    I'm having a harder time just finding guy friends let alone guys to chase....
  • Holly_Roman_Empire
    Holly_Roman_Empire Posts: 4,440 Member
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    Chase.....hmmmm

    Can't I just set a trap? Maybe put a beer and a cheeseburger on the table and tie him up when he sits down to eat it?

    I don't like to run.

    I like this idea, but only if there's a beer and cheeseburger for me too.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    I think it's more than fair. In fact I think if it's a cougar it's almost a requirement the woman Chase the man.



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    Notice the card is wet. That's symbolism.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    Had a guy tell me that "he'd prefer the girl to ask the guy out". Go ahead, call me old fashioned, but I'd prefer having the guy ask the girl not the girl ask the guy. :ohwell:

    Why would you intentionally sacrifice that power and instead roll the dice on an acceptable mate finding you and being into you?

    Guess... the fear of being rejected. :indifferent:

    That just causes you to drift along, hoping that someone eventually finds you.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Had a guy tell me that "he'd prefer the girl to ask the guy out". Go ahead, call me old fashioned, but I'd prefer having the guy ask the girl not the girl ask the guy. :ohwell:

    Why would you intentionally sacrifice that power and instead roll the dice on an acceptable mate finding you and being into you?

    Guess... the fear of being rejected. :indifferent:

    That just causes you to drift along, hoping that someone eventually finds you.

    That's the best case scenario, the worst case scenario is that if you have any underlying history of victimization that is unresolved, the predatory types know how to find/recognize/approach you and will.

    ETA: TMI & DD
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    Chase.....hmmmm

    Can't I just set a trap? Maybe put a beer and a cheeseburger on the table and tie him up when he sits down to eat it?

    I don't like to run.

    This gets my vote. Who wants some cupcakes and steak?
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
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    :yawn: i don't chase. i just...choose. pretty easy, really. :smile:
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    Chase.....hmmmm

    Can't I just set a trap? Maybe put a beer and a cheeseburger on the table and tie him up when he sits down to eat it?

    I don't like to run.

    This gets my vote. Who wants some cupcakes and steak?

    me...can you chase me, even though i'm not a man
  • 115s
    115s Posts: 344 Member
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    But can she TASE the man and then chase him?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    But can she TASE the man and then chase him?

    Mace rhymes too.
  • 115s
    115s Posts: 344 Member
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    But can she TASE the man and then chase him?

    Mace rhymes too.
    Both!
  • Tiki1978
    Tiki1978 Posts: 364
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    Who cares.. As long as the end result is both parties getting some
  • coolraul07
    coolraul07 Posts: 1,606 Member
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    <scribbles down card #; creates new account on Amazon.com>
  • angelique_redhead
    angelique_redhead Posts: 782 Member
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    I don't chase any man. 1. I'm too old. 2. My .45 will slow him down enough if need be. ;)
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    I don't chase any man. 1. I'm too old. 2. My .45 will slow him down enough if need be. ;)

    You are unnecessarily violent.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    <scribbles down card #; creates new account on Amazon.com>

    beatcha to it. foudn that on google.

    poor ms. vargas.

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