Is being fat a disability??

Being fat is not a disability, there are plenty of "overweight" people that are in good shape.

The "victim" you are talking about, needs help for depression. That is what she needs. She is trapped in a loop of blame, it happens a lot. My life sucks, but if I lose weight it will be great, they lose some weight and guess what life doesn't get great. So they go back to eating because it is much easier to say "my life sucks because I am fat" than it is to say "my life sucks because I am ugly or stupid or lazy"

Reality is "fat" is not a disability, however, not eating healthy, not moving, not taking care of yourself will cause disability. It is not a number on the scale, it is not how you look, it should all be about health. My husband is the perfect weight for his height, he has high cholesterol and is totally out of shape, back problems, etc. I am 30lbs overweight and considered "obese", but my cholesterol is perfect, despite having arthritis I am very active and in complete good health! In other words, fat is not a disability, fat is a symptom or a cause, but fat is not a disability.

I can so relate to the bold.

I was in Walmart a couple of months ago and this young girl came in and I would say she probably has cerebral palsy...she was walking with crutches and she had that kind of sideways walk if you know what I mean...hard to explain. I was walking out as she came in, and she walked over to where they kept the riding carts and there werent any.....I had seen two of them in the store with those massive people in them. It just broke my heart that this sweet girl who had no control over her issue, was going to have to struggle around that store....

I never see elderly or disabled people using these carts. It's always Honey Boo-boo's mom or her clone.

Being obese or morbidly obese most definitely can be a disability because it often interferes with normal activity, even with no underlying health problems. Whether it is subject to FMLA is dependent on other factors. In some cases, yes, and in other cases, no. That's a matter that is determined by those whose job it is to make distinctions. It isn't my job, and I'm guessing that it isn't the OP's job, either. Yes, some obese people are more than capable of performing job functions, but some aren't. It isn't for me to determine if it's a disability or not because I don't work in that field or see the specific case file. As for OP's coworker with the lap band, my guess is her distaste for her as a person leads to her being overly judgmental of the woman. OP doesn't like her, so she's looking for more reasons to justify the dislike. It shows a distinct character flaw, and a disappointing one at that.

Judging what other people purchase at a grocery store is lame. Eating only clean foods or lean meat and veggies is whoever's prerogative, but I don't walk around the grocery store judging those sorts of people for thinking they're better than the rest of us who like to bring home frozen pizzas and pop tarts.

There are plenty of thin people out there gaming the system when it comes to FMLA, SSD and SSI. I'd be willing to bet that if you look at the statistics on it, people gaming the system would look just like the overall population with respect to the percentages of obese versus normal weight.

@ USED TO BE HUSKY!! Absolutely! Same thing with depression. It's a fight.... looks like you and I are winning:) WAY TO GO!!!!

Being obese or morbidly obese most definitely can be a disability because it often interferes with normal activity, even with no underlying health problems. Whether it is subject to FMLA is dependent on other factors. In some cases, yes, and in other cases, no. That's a matter that is determined by those whose job it is to make distinctions. It isn't my job, and I'm guessing that it isn't the OP's job, either. Yes, some obese people are more than capable of performing job functions, but some aren't. It isn't for me to determine if it's a disability or not because I don't work in that field or see the specific case file. As for OP's coworker with the lap band, my guess is her distaste for her as a person leads to her being overly judgmental of the woman. OP doesn't like her, so she's looking for more reasons to justify the dislike. It shows a distinct character flaw, and a disappointing one at that.

Judging what other people purchase at a grocery store is lame. Eating only clean foods or lean meat and veggies is whoever's prerogative, but I don't walk around the grocery store judging those sorts of people for thinking they're better than the rest of us who like to bring home frozen pizzas and pop tarts.

There are plenty of thin people out there gaming the system when it comes to FMLA, SSD and SSI. I'd be willing to bet that if you look at the statistics on it, people gaming the system would look just like the overall population with respect to the percentages of obese versus normal weight.

I like you! :flowerforyou:

I do kind of agree with you to an extent about it not being a disability. Until - that is - it becomes so overwhelming and out of control that it prevents you from living a normal active life.

But I think the OP being a complete *kitten* about 'being a victim' because someone has depression and eats as a result of that is completely uncalled for.

Unless you have had depression I dont think its for you to say what is being a victim and what is not, and even if you do or have had depression its still not up to you. You dont know what is going on in peoples lives behind closed doors. I suggest maybe you stop being so judgemental and try looking at things from another perspective.

ETA: I will argue that being obese is indeed a disability. Have you ever seen an obese person walk, clap their hands, or tie ther shoelaces? It's nto exatly easy for them. You would go so far to say that their movement is limited, not unlike a disability.

Being fat is not a disability. That being said, most people are only considered fat by society when, in fact, they are actually obese.

As someone who is morbidly obese by any chart (239 @5'4") I'll argue that it is not a disability to the extent people claim it is. I started taking MMA classes at 260. Yes my movement is a bit limited, mainly on front snap and ax kicks because my fat thigh is hitting my fat gut on the upswing, but I can still do a spinning back kick to someone's chest without blinking. I do these insane punching and kicking drills for a solid half hour every class that has everyone in the class literally dripping sweat all over the place. If someone who is obese has trouble just clapping, it's because they've laid around so much that their muscles have degenerated, not because they're fat.

If it's a disability, then IMO 90% of the time it's a self induced one. I didn't get to an all time high of 282 because of a health issue or mean people who made me sad. I got there because frankly I didn't care and I ate what I pleased and avoided exercise like the plague. And my friends, pretty much all of whom were overweight/obese? Same thing, tho some will insist it's genetics or work or whatever. But it isn't. I hang with them, I know how they eat and what kind of activity level they have. They all choose, just like I did, to surround themselves with people and situations that at best overlooked their unhealthy lifestyles, and at worst actively encouraged them. And hey, if they're ok with it then so am I, but disability? Maybe if their diabetes makes a foot fall off, ok, but requiring handicapped parking and a motorized scooter because walking around the grocery store makes you tired is absurd.

I am normally not one to play the “shame” card but the b!#@#ing about the electric carts at the store in pissing me off….I have a parent who is actually disabled (9 back surgeries) and she can barely walk. Between the drugs and the inactivity she has nearly zero quality of life and all the judgment heaped on those damn carts is why she won’t use them, that doesn’t mean she walks it means she gets out less and less and the isolation as some might be able to understand only heightens the depression.

A symptom OF disability maybe, but you're not disabled BECAUSE you're fat. That's just silly.

On Wed my boss had to go to a 3 hour meeting about FMLA. She came back and said that there are key words that if you hear them being used you should direct your employee to HR..such as migraine, diabetes and such.

Joking around, I asked if fat was a key word....I picked up that can marked worms and broke it wide *kitten* open!! Everyone had an opinion...mine is its not a disability because you can do something about it. Someone brought up thyroid, ok thats a medical condition with weight gain as a side effect, but Jenny Worth became Ms Fitness Olympia with a thyroid condition so yes you have to work harder but its not a fat sentence by any means.

THEN the "victim" that sits next to me and has already had a lap band and lost some weight and gained some of it back....brought up depression and that making you eat and you cant help it....sorry I am calling bull on this one.....no quit being a victim and get off your *kitten* and do something!!!

So please tell me you thoughts? Oh and my parting comment....tell the person sitting in the wheelchair that being overweight is a disability....

I think that this statement really defines the OP's attitude toward anyone fat:" "joking around, I asked if fat was a key word....I picked up that can marked worms and broke it wide *kitten* open!! " It is certainly her opinion, and she is entitled to it, but it is insensitive and lacking empathy.

However, your views on depressions are incorrect, and it makes you sound ignorant.. I suggest you read up and educate yourself on the basics of depression. An easy read would be to start below.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major_depressive_episode

I am normally not one to play the “shame” card but the b!#@#ing about the electric carts at the store in pissing me off….I have a parent who is actually disabled (9 back surgeries) and she can barely walk. Between the drugs and the inactivity she has nearly zero quality of life and all the judgment heaped on those damn carts is why she won’t use them, that doesn’t mean she walks it means she gets out less and less and the isolation as some might be able to understand only heightens the depression.

A few years ago, I blew the ACL and PCL in my knee. I was in a stabilizing brace for a month, and then wore a different brace and walked with a limp for six months. My boyfriend at the time used to ***** at me for refusing to use the carts. There is a serious stigma around them that should just not be there.

As for me, personally, OP... I think this post, and your question to your boss in such a public manner, was in poor taste. I think you're failing to take into consideration that not every "fat" person, as you call them, is going to need assistance. Not every "fat" person plays the victim. In fact a lot of them do pick themselves up by their bootstraps and get 'er done. And that's freaking awesome.

But I pose you this question: Have you ever been so depressed that the idea of moving a muscle aside from breathing is exhausting? The idea of having to look at your loved ones in the face and interact with them instills terror in you? Have you ever not wanted to get out of bed because the idea of facing a day is so unfathomably difficult that it would be infinitely easier to build yourself a blanket cave and never come out? And at the same time, believe that absolutely nobody in the world would miss you?

I have. It's not a fun place to be. Don't judge other peoples' disabilities or gauge their capabilities based off of your healthy mind. That does you and them a disservice. Try to have a little empathy, it will go a long way.

Good job. :flowerforyou:

As for me, personally, OP... I think this post, and your question to your boss in such a public manner, was in poor taste. I think you're failing to take into consideration that not every "fat" person, as you call them, is going to need assistance. Not every "fat" person plays the victim. In fact a lot of them do pick themselves up by their bootstraps and get 'er done. And that's freaking awesome.

But I pose you this question: Have you ever been so depressed that the idea of moving a muscle aside from breathing is exhausting? The idea of having to look at your loved ones in the face and interact with them instills terror in you? Have you ever not wanted to get out of bed because the idea of facing a day is so unfathomably difficult that it would be infinitely easier to build yourself a blanket cave and never come out? And at the same time, believe that absolutely nobody in the world would miss you?

I have. It's not a fun place to be. Don't judge other peoples' disabilities or gauge their capabilities based off of your healthy mind. That does you and them a disservice. Try to have a little empathy, it will go a long way.

Good job. :flowerforyou:

Thanks, boothang. :embarassed:

I am normally not one to play the “shame” card but the b!#@#ing about the electric carts at the store in pissing me off….I have a parent who is actually disabled (9 back surgeries) and she can barely walk. Between the drugs and the inactivity she has nearly zero quality of life and all the judgment heaped on those damn carts is why she won’t use them, that doesn’t mean she walks it means she gets out less and less and the isolation as some might be able to understand only heightens the depression.

This is why people like my neighbor p**s me off so much. She uses those carts when she doesn't need to. She parks in handicap spots when she doesn't have to. She's fat and lazy, not because of an underlying medical condition, but because she's a sack of s**t. Because of her poor lifestyle choices, people who have an actual need for these things sometimes go without; get judged by society. We can sit here and pretend that we don't do this, but the truth is, a vast majority of us judge others on appearance, and it's not just because a person is fat, or in a scooter. We do this because enough bad apples have poisoned the whole batch. I know I've seen a few people walk the other way or cross the street when they see me, and that's because some people who grow their hair like I do, or have tattoos like I do, have been a**holes.

ETA: I will argue that being obese is indeed a disability. Have you ever seen an obese person walk, clap their hands, or tie ther shoelaces? It's nto exatly easy for them. You would go so far to say that their movement is limited, not unlike a disability.

Being fat is not a disability. That being said, most people are only considered fat by society when, in fact, they are actually obese.

As someone who is morbidly obese by any chart (239 @5'4") I'll argue that it is not a disability to the extent people claim it is. I started taking MMA classes at 260. Yes my movement is a bit limited, mainly on front snap and ax kicks because my fat thigh is hitting my fat gut on the upswing, but I can still do a spinning back kick to someone's chest without blinking. I do these insane punching and kicking drills for a solid half hour every class that has everyone in the class literally dripping sweat all over the place. Meanwhile I see people my size at Walmart in the freaking power scooter, and I want to kick it out from under them and tell them to use their damn feet already. If they have trouble just clapping, it's because they've laid around so much that their muscles have degenerated, not because they're fat.

I agree with this. Again and again on these boards, I see a lot of people use their pounds as a reason to avoid life and it makes me sad any time I see that. I've had arguments with people who are lighter than I was when I started to run about whether running at their weight was dangerous. It's not. I've seen at least one woman run a 5k at just under 250. Fat does not necessarily mean unfit. By itself, it's not a good excuse.

That being said, the people on the scooters may have gotten fat because they have an underlying health condition that makes movement difficult. Probably not all of them, but I don't want to be judgey about the one who broke her hip because her ex-husband knocked her to the floor, you know.