When You Blow Your Cal Count

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  • amyame555
    amyame555 Posts: 1
    Exactly what I was thinking!
  • contingencyplan
    contingencyplan Posts: 3,639 Member
    Part of doing this in a way that is healthy, safe, and sustainable, means learning to be okay with the fact that you're not perfect and you will go over every now and then. You have to learn to look at it and go "Oh well" and move on, next day, like normal.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I just carry on with my bad *kitten* self...tomorrow is another day. Blowing it up here and there isn't how anyone got fat...blowing it up on a regular basis is. Overindulging on occasion is pretty meaningless in the grand scheme.
  • Archer9304
    Archer9304 Posts: 113 Member
    I never feel guilty about going over. That's what makes MFP great because I know exactly (or atleast nearly) by how much I've gone over.

    And then I take that amount and divide it up by 2 or 3 days and just work it off.
  • 7ricarico
    7ricarico Posts: 15 Member
    I'm in a similar boat today. Had a heavy breakfast for a benefit we are raising money for, so it was tough to say no. However, I am proud that I grabbed one pancake instead of two, and one sausage link instead of two (better than what I used to do!).

    I just plan on having a lighter than normal dinner tonight and getting my exercise in. I hope I don't go over my daily cals, but I won't be devastated if I do.
  • wonko221
    wonko221 Posts: 292 Member
    if you're anything like me, you can go on and have a normal, healthy dinner and today will still be way better than your average previous day.

    What finally clicked for me was that i don't need a miracle diet or special plan to get healthy. I'm overweight because my body slowly, gradually responded to too many high calorie days. The body is flexible. If i start living healthy now, my body will eventually find a new level appropriate to that healthy lifestyle.

    Don't feel guilty that you had fast food today. You didn't cheat anyone else, and you only cheated yourself if you choose to view it that way. A healthy person can have a burger king meal from time to time. They just can't eat fast food five to ten times per week, which is what i used to do....

    Be well, and be kind to yourself. Slow and steady will get you where you want to be, and by the time you're at an "ideal" weight, you will have the healthy habits and outlook to maintain it; because then it's not maintenance, it's simply living.
  • ElliTree
    ElliTree Posts: 23 Member
    Log it and move on. Don't hate yourself. Food is food. http://freakonomics.com/2013/03/21/the-most-bountiful-food-in-human-history/

    Sorry, can't figure out how to do links here.
  • rtreit
    rtreit Posts: 8 Member
    I'm a fan of the 90% rule: eat healthy 90% of the time, eat whatever you want 10% of the time. So for 2 meals per week don't worry about it. In the long run it will be fine.

    Personally I agree with what others have said: throw in some exercise in the evening. When I've gone way over I'll hop on the exercise bike and get my heart rate going for a while. Mainly I just feel better if I've stuffed myself earlier in the day to end on a high note and get the blood flowing.

    Also if you're going to throw caution to the wind and eat a juicy hamburger, soda, etc...may as well savor it!
  • PrissyPisces
    PrissyPisces Posts: 117 Member
    Just knowing that I've went over my calories, and that doing so continuously would hinder my progress, is a good enough "spanking" for me. I just want this SO bad. In the past, however, I'd exercise a little before going to bed, and drink lots of water. Not going over my calories in the first place is better for me, because in the past, going over just 100 calories, turned into going over 500 calories! Then I'd reassure myself that I'd start over the next day, so I'd disregard my calorie limit for the day. Then eventually, I'd feel bad about myself for not being strong enough, and I'd quit altogether. Smh
  • KM0692
    KM0692 Posts: 178 Member
    If you allow yourself a 400 calorie dinner, cut back 50 calories a day for the next 4 days (or eat 600 and cut back 100 calories a day for the next 4 days), and then you're back on track. :)
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,861 Member
    I find myself sitting here think "Ok if I have a 400 calorie dinner I've only gone over by 200 calories and that won't cause any gain just slow my loss per week goal. Just swim some extra laps tomorrow."
    It's even better than that. Caloric estimates on food packaging are just that, estimates. 200 calories is for most people within tolerance. A win for you.
  • ddkphotos
    ddkphotos Posts: 304 Member
    it happens. don't beat yourself up... move on - fresh new day tomorrow - and you can even try to go back to a healthier dinner...
    just don't let it get you in a bad choices downward spiral... it's just one meal... move on...
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
    Um so I may or may not have hit up Burger King instead of eating the sandwich and fruit I brought for lunch leaving myself 200 calories for the day. (I did have a healthy breakfast and morning snack.) Of course I hate myself and feel like crap (emotionally and physically) for eating junk now. I'm trying to break from the vicious cycle of doing this to my body. For those of you have overcome life long battles with food, how did you handle backslide moments? How do you keep 1 bad choice for a meal from turning into a bad day or day week?

    I find myself sitting here think "Ok if I have a 400 calorie dinner I've only gone over by 200 calories and that won't cause any gain just slow my loss per week goal. Just swim some extra laps tomorrow."

    The bolded was your first mistake. Do not let food make you feel. Your second was in looking at any food as 'junk'. It's just food. It might warp your macro goal for the day but that's only ONE day. Just focus on the next day and maybe eat something that nutritionally dense.

    If you change these two viewpoints, you might break your vicious cycle. I used to think exactly like this. It took some time but I stopped telling myself that I'd ruined my progress. You didn't ruin anything. You just had some food and went over your calories a bit. How much is that really setting you back? Are you over by 200? So if you are thinking of some imaginary end date, you've set yourself back by what? Half a day? That's nothing; completely insignificant.

    When you eat those indulgence foods, ENJOY them. And then when you've finished, say to yourself, actually say it out loud, "That was good. I like that I was able to eat that and know that I haven't ruined my weight loss. I'm glad I let myself enjoy life. Now, let's go do something else."

    You didn't ruin anything. The only ruin that can come from it is if you let your feelings overwhelm your rationality. I used to do that but don't any longer. Thrust me, you'll be much happier if you manage to do it too.
  • misskarne
    misskarne Posts: 1,765 Member
    I had McDonalds for breakfast this morning. And not a little meal either - sausage mcmuffin and quite a few hashbrowns too. Yum yum, one of my favourite parts of the weekend!

    But I also am not having lunch (the breakfast leaves me full for most of the day), and I'll eat well at dinner tonight, and kaboom, I'll be fine. In the afternoon I will be dancing around in my house a lot as I clean (I'm a bit of a neatfreak) and tonight I'll do my pilates and my crunches.

    I fell off the bandwagon the first couple of times when I thought that this whole weight-loss shebang meant never eating anything I loved again. This time around, I'm still eating the way I liked - I just use the junk food as a reward for a great week. And I'm losing again, and enjoying it more! (And confusing my parents, but that's another story.)
  • nicsflyingcircus
    nicsflyingcircus Posts: 2,861 Member
    Um so I may or may not have hit up Burger King instead of eating the sandwich and fruit I brought for lunch leaving myself 200 calories for the day. (I did have a healthy breakfast and morning snack.) Of course I hate myself and feel like crap (emotionally and physically) for eating junk now. I'm trying to break from the vicious cycle of doing this to my body. For those of you have overcome life long battles with food, how did you handle backslide moments? How do you keep 1 bad choice for a meal from turning into a bad day or day week?

    I find myself sitting here think "Ok if I have a 400 calorie dinner I've only gone over by 200 calories and that won't cause any gain just slow my loss per week goal. Just swim some extra laps tomorrow."

    I don't think of it as backsliding. I went out to dinner tonight with friends and consciously chose to spend 400 calories on beer alone, lol. Plus 1/4 small pizza and a caesar salad. 920 calories later... whatever. This is a lifestyle change and I am still at a deficit, if not as big a one as I'd like. Even if I wasn't still at a deficit, it's nothing to panic about.

    There is no way I am living the rest of my life a hostage to food! :)
  • 1LadyKate
    1LadyKate Posts: 78 Member
    I downloaded a note taking app on my phone that all I record is fast food places that I like to eat and a reasonable meal i can order and exactly how many calories the entire meal is.

    That way I don't worry if I am over eating. However if I feel having french fries instead of apples, I will try to make sure and cut down a little bit over the next couple of days like another poster said.
  • doctorsookie
    doctorsookie Posts: 1,084 Member
    Girl, I just overshot my daily calorie allotment by over a grand and I didn't bat an eye. The o ly regret I have is the tummy ache I can feel coming on. I was celebrating tonight so I treated my self but with as many days I am under its not going to set me back. Days like these are going to happen so the important thing to do is learn to cope with them now. So you enjoyed some yummy food...you eat well most days so no big deal. You should also teach yourself to incorporate fast food into your new lifestyle. You certainly aren't going to avoid fast food for the next fifty years...right? So why avoid them now when you are actively losing weight. Learn to eat everything you love in moderation and you'll watch the pounds come off and stay happy and satisfied while you do. Now stop feeling bad and enjoy your night. Lots of love to you!
  • JilJon
    JilJon Posts: 7 Member
    Oh the despair! I know the feeling so well.. i've had a not so good week but have worked hard to repair the damage.. for example, if I have eaten 300 cals over my daily calorie limit, I have entered 100 cals over the next three days .. I then allow myself to complete my diary for the day under my calorie content.. then over the next three days I do extra exercise to 'consume' the 300 cals I've overeaten.. I have struggled a bit this week and have entered quite a bit in the following days.. Finally I was able to catch up and I started today from scratch.. My weekly average remained in tact and I had time to work through it .. I have yet to do my measurements to see if I've succeeded in losing whilst 'amortising' my calories.. I don't really mind if I haven't lost.. The goal was maintaining control over the whole of the week and not letting one day of overeating blow the whole diet.. I am back in control and feel fantastic for getting through.
  • LAT1963
    LAT1963 Posts: 1,375 Member
    200 calories is low enough that you could walk for less than an hour to clear your ledger.
  • arnostbilej
    arnostbilej Posts: 56
    It's a process, really ... I've never had this issue with food, but there are other things in my life that I have to stay away from completely or they will send me into days-long binges. So I completely understand that once you give in to the temptation, it just seems like a good idea to continue because that's what makes you happy (even though deep down you may feel guilty or hate yourself, let's face it, giving to the temptation filled a certain void).

    Just keep trying, accept that you will lose a few battles from time to time, and don't consider failure the end of the world. Unless you completely throw in the towel, you will find yourself giving in less and less frequently, and, in the process, you will win the war. Good luck and stay positive!
  • PapaChanoli
    PapaChanoli Posts: 178 Member
    Here's what I do: I forgive myself and move on. ONE MEAL isn't going to ruin your day. Have a sensible dinner, log everything, drink some extra water to counteract the excess sodium, and start fresh tomorrow.

    Trust me on this... I've done it many times over the last several months, and have still made good progress.

    Awesome answer.
  • PapaChanoli
    PapaChanoli Posts: 178 Member
    Um so I may or may not have hit up Burger King instead of eating the sandwich and fruit I brought for lunch leaving myself 200 calories for the day. (I did have a healthy breakfast and morning snack.) Of course I hate myself and feel like crap (emotionally and physically) for eating junk now. I'm trying to break from the vicious cycle of doing this to my body. For those of you have overcome life long battles with food, how did you handle backslide moments? How do you keep 1 bad choice for a meal from turning into a bad day or day week?

    I find myself sitting here think "Ok if I have a 400 calorie dinner I've only gone over by 200 calories and that won't cause any gain just slow my loss per week goal. Just swim some extra laps tomorrow."

    I crunched a couple of numbers. If the OP followed through and ate a 400 calorie dinner, only going over by 200 calories, that 200 calories would only equal about 0.1 of a pound. She said she is set at 1.5 pounds loss per week. Assuming that she was at her goal every other day of the week, that would change her loss for the week to 1.4 pounds for that week. (At least, according to the math)

    That's so minimal that I find it encouraging just to realize that. In the end the weight is still coming off, and the impact isn't even noticeable with the way weight fluctuates from one day to another.

    If the OP sees this, I hope that's some small encouragement.

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