How are YOU losing your weight?

Eat less and exercise more. For me at least, there's no magic combination beyond that. I keep my daily net calories within my target (I tend to eat "better" foods as a result simply because they tend to be less calorie dense, but I certainly don't eliminate any category of food) and I walk an average of 25 miles a week at 4.2-4.5 mph beyond my other physical activity (hiking, gardening etc). Honestly, for me at least. there's no actual need to over-think the whole process.

Eat and exercise to be fit and healthy; losing weight should come as a byproduct of that.

I don't eat any processed foods, no grains or legumes (including peanuts, beans of all types, and soy), and I cycle my dairy consumption (one month on, one month off). I focus on getting high quality and organic proteins, including vitamin and mineral packed offal, and try to source it locally wherever possible. Also, loads of organic fruits and veggies. That's where the bulk of my budget goes.

Since I actively want to lose weight, I try to stay at or below 50g net carbs per day, which isn't terribly difficult once you give up grains.

Lift heavy and lift often. I hate strength training, but I'm trying to make a concentrated effort to get this in.

Eat less and exercise more. For me at least, there's no magic combination beyond that. I keep my daily net calories within my target (I tend to eat "better" foods as a result simply because they tend to be less calorie dense, but I certainly don't eliminate any category of food) and I walk an average of 25 miles a week at 4.2-4.5 mph beyond my other physical activity (hiking, gardening etc). Honestly, for me at least. there's no actual need to over-think the whole process.

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All sixty pounds of what I've done was calorie counting and exercise. I shamelessly ate off the kids menu everywhere (if anything you will get a knowing smile out of the waitstaff and/or elders within earshot) and ate like a so-called "normal" person by today's standards when I exercised until the bike miles got too high and I learned about sports nutrition out of necessity. Elders remember a normal that worked for most people. If you know one, get them started talking on it and don't interrupt except to encourage them to keep talking by asking questions. Some of the most useful things I know were learned from them.

For the last month or so I've been making very conscious decisions to eat better and exercise. I've lost a good solid 10 pounds that hasn't come back at all, but I am also not losing weight at all!
I am having the worst time trying to figure out what to eat when, what to do at the gym and how to put everything all together.
I haven't been looking for any quick fixes and have been trying my hardest to do everything the healthy, long-lasting way.
I spend a decent amount of money on good food and my gym membership, so my "personal trainer" piggy bank is as empty as can be. I've looked into some of the online options but can't seem to find one that is legit and worth the money.
I'm also a researcher so I think I have a pretty solid base of facts about different things that involve nutrition, fitness and exerciser, but once again, my problem is I can't put them all together into something that works.

Does anyone have any tips about what they have done and how they managed to lose their weight the healthy way, or any success stories of online personal trainers, ect, ect, ect, ect. ANY info is greatly appreciated!

Thank you!

You can eat all the "best," "good," and "healthy" foods, avoid all of the "bad" and "unhealthy" foods and be the most committed gym member ever, but if your not in a caloric deficit, you will not lose weight. I gained weight doing what you're doing because I was just eating too much fish, chicken breast, vegetables, etc. Too many calories=too many calories no matter what foods they come from.

I've realized that there are no foods that are entirely good or bad for you. Foods are what you make of them. I eat everything in moderation while eating at a slight caloric deficit and I have been successfully losing weight since October. Eventually, I reach a weight where I maintain and I have to reduce my calories a little bit more. You have clearly reached a point where you are eating exactly what your body needs to maintain your CURRENT weight, which is why you lost 10lbs but not an ounce more. I highly suggest tracking calories and paying attention to how many grams of carbs, protein and fat you are putting into your body. Do some research on IIFYM (if it fits your macros).

ETA::: I don't do any exercise, aside from my physical job, I just make sure I'm in a caloric deficit. Science says you MUST lose weight if you eat fewer calories than your body needs to fuel itself. It then turns its own fat stores into the energy it's lacking. . . thus we experience weight loss!

I make sure I weigh and measure and log EVERYTHING. Then, if you are keeping below the calorie level you will lose weight.
HOWEVER there may be a too generous calorie level as someone else has posted earlier. If that's the case you need to lower it by about 150 calories and see if that makes a difference.

Feel free to look at my diary, it's public, for ideas of foods and portions.
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It is very hard for me to lose weight. Calorie deficit is great but the kind of calories you eat is important. I have been eating clean for a few months now and feel so much better. Making sure to have a balance meal plan with portion control is also important. So 30 net carbs for the day is low. Try staying within 30 carbs or less per meal. Before you exercise have a carb and a protein at least 7g of protein. Limit you sodium/salt intake. Remember fruits are healthy carbs they contain vitamins and antioxidants our bodies need. If you want to make this a life style you have to find the right combo that works for you. Look into the Paleo diet. As for exercise (which I hate) I recommend lots of cardio, walking, biking, hiking, swimming, find what you like. Beach body has exercise videos you can you use for strength training. There are all different levels for you to pick from. Good Luck and keep me posted!

If you're not losing weight, you are eating too much. You can eat very healthfully and not lose weight...I've been maintaining my weight for a year eating very healthfully...it has nothing to do with that...it has everything to do with how much you are eating. If you eat to a maintenance level of calories, you will maintain weight regardless of whether those calories are coming from healthful foods or junk foods.

TLDR, you're eating too much. Eat a little less and/or move a little more.

I am having the worst time trying to figure out what to eat when, what to do at the gym and how to put everything all together...
I'm also a researcher so I think I have a pretty solid base of facts about different things that involve nutrition, fitness and exerciser, but once again, my problem is I can't put them all together into something that works.

You might get some benefit from reading a few of my blog posts.
I've got LOTS of links to actual research & resources, and I've done posts about goal-setting, exercise, and studies about weight loss.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/MKEgal

I spend a decent amount of money on good food and my gym membership, so my "personal trainer" piggy bank is as empty as can be.

Do you have a Planet Fitness near you? Their basic memberships are $10 per month & they often have trainers on staff. (And they're open 24/7, so you have one less excuse.)
(ETA: just looked it up on the www.planetfitness.com site. There are gyms in Lake Worth, West Palm Beach, and Royal Palm Beach. Those are the 3 nearest 33415 zip code.)
Also, in my post about exercise I give a link to find an ACSM-certified personal trainer in your area. Invest in a couple of sessions, explain up front that you want her/him to design a program for you to start & tell you how to tweak it as you get lighter, stronger, more fit. That can be one session, then use the second to be sure you're doing the exercises properly / safely.

Does anyone have any tips about what they have done and how they managed to lose their weight the healthy way

First, I used a BMI chart (links in my blog post about goal-setting) to decide on a healthy goal weight. For now, I'm going for the top end of a healthy BMI range (165), and see how I feel when I get there. Maybe I'll want to be another 10 lb lower, maybe not.

Incidentally, my doctor thinks that weight is not realistic for me because it's what I think I weighed in high school. :huh:
If I was fat back then, why does that mean I can't be healthy now?! :grumble:

Using the formula my doctor & dietician told me, I multiplied my starting weight times 10, then subtracted 1000 calories to lose 2 lb per week. (1700) If I hit a plateau, I'll cut another 50 cal. Recently I haven't been eating even that much, and I feel OK about it. Yes, I have occasional splurges (oreos, Chinese buffet) but for the most part I'm below my 1700 goal every day.

BTW, that's absolute intake, not "net". Ignore net. (That's what my doctor told me.) Eat below your goal, and treat exercise as a bonus toward weight loss. If you're really hungry at the end of the day, eat back 1/3 to 1/2 of what you burned in exercise that day.

I also exercise 5 or 6 days per week. I always do cardio, and try to do weights every other day.
I'm up to 45 min on the elliptical, that being the most efficient way to burn calories that's available to me. 45 min is 493 cal going by what the machine says, or 731 cal according to MFP. (When I want to eat back part of those cal, I go with the lower number.)

I started with 10 minutes on the treadmill, and once I could do that without feeling completely worn out I increased the time.
When I switched from the treadmill to the elliptical, the time went down again because it's a harder workout & it kicked my butt.
I generally have a workout partner, though he doesn't put as much effort into it as I do & it shows. I noticed Thurs. that we were running about the same pace but my heart rate was close to 30 bpm below his.

For weights, I alternate a couple weeks working on building muscle with a couple weeks working on building strength. (Explained in my blog post about exercise.) Make sure you're working both/all sides of a joint: if you're doing bicep curls, also do tricep dips. If you're doing hamstring curls, also do quadricep extensions.