I know it's because she love's me...

But my mom's really been getting on my nerves about me trying to loose weight. Every time I see her she tells me "you've lost enough, don't lose anymore" then she will grab whatever person we are near and try to get them to agree with her.

She catches herself and appologizes, but it makes me irritated and even gets a little embarassing because I'm still fat! I'm still considered overweight, i still have a high BMI and not alot of muscle, I'm still wearing size XL everything and I can't help but be a girl sometimes and when I hear her say that think "wow, i must have been way fat if she thinks I look good now, because I have a long way to go!"

I know she doesn't mean it...Im just venting - family can be the worst sometimes and they don't mean it. My sister just gave me a quick "wow you've lost alot of weight, i generally don't notice it on people unless they lose a significant amount, and i notice it on you". Sure, this could have been taken all sorts of ways by me - but i took it as a compliment - simple, and to the point, she pointed out that I lost alot of weight, but didn't make me feel like man, I was a cow, like my mom is making me feel by continously poijting out the fact that I've lost enough, when i clearly have more to lose, and most definetly, much to tone up... I kinda just wish she would shut up about it, especially in public.

Sometimes, i would prefer if people just didn't even bring up the fact that Ive lost at all, because I havent lost that much, so it makes me feel like I must have been this hige blob in their eyes! Ghah!