Has anyone told you to stop losing weight?

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  • AvonBell
    AvonBell Posts: 107 Member
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    Almost everyone is overweight. No one knows what normal weight looks like anymore.
  • Meerataila
    Meerataila Posts: 1,885 Member
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    All the time but I can see where they are coming from my face is very thin but I'm trying to get rid of the last few pounds on my belly.

    I try to explain I have a BF% goal not a goal weight I think most people find that confusing.

    I have the same issue. I just pull my shirt up a little and slap my belly really loud and shout "This here is the problem!" It tends to make those well-meaning annoying people shut up and go away, at least until the next get together.
  • Swiftlet66
    Swiftlet66 Posts: 729 Member
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    My boss told me to stop losing weight when he found out I was having jogging sessions before work. He said this while munching on a peanut butter cookie. :laugh: ... I told him I didn't want to lose a lot of weight; I just wanted to get back into shape. A lot of people seem to think exercise and eating healthy is for solely for dieting and losing weight, which is totally ignorant of them to think that way...
  • yungibear
    yungibear Posts: 138 Member
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    Yeah, my mom just told me to stop losing weight. It's understandable, though. Even I haven't seen myself at this weight as an adult. It makes sense that the woman who was used to raising an overweight child would think I'm getting too skinny. I have also had a couple brushes with disordered eating in the past, so she's worried about that as well.

    She doesn't have control over what I do with my body, though, so I'll just continue doing what I've been doing until I feel I'm in a good place. C:
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
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    Not yet, but my mom has already "warned" me a couple times not to go "too far." I've had more than one person tell me I look a normal size (I'm still 20 lbs away from the top range of what's considered "normal" for my height.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
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    I think you look great as you are, if your pictures are accurate. How tall are you? My mom told me to stop losing weight but I'm still probably around 21-22% body fat so I can afford to lose more.
  • headofphat
    headofphat Posts: 1,597 Member
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    EFF them!
  • kdhamner
    kdhamner Posts: 309 Member
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    Yes, I have and I still have 50 pounds to lose to even get to what is considered a healthy weight. They are just used to seeing me as the large person I was. Silliness.
  • monkeywizard
    monkeywizard Posts: 222 Member
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    No, but then again, i'm 250+
  • Anonycatgirl
    Anonycatgirl Posts: 502 Member
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    My husband told me to stop losing weight. I'm listening to him. I'm at a good weight now, and if he thinks I'll be thinner than he'd like if I dip much lower, his opinion is important to me.

    Anyone else who said anything, I'd laugh. He gets to have a say, seeing he's the one who sees me nekkid and knows if bits are getting bony.
  • biggsterjackster
    biggsterjackster Posts: 419 Member
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    Yes, jealous people, that I don't pay attention to.
  • smarieallen85
    smarieallen85 Posts: 535 Member
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    No one has told me that yet. I am 5' 6" and am closing in on 140. How tall are you?

    5'4", but I'm a size 4 on top and have gone down to an A cup I think. I'm starting to see my bones a little between my breasts when I'm working out too. I think maybe that's why. Butt's still a size 10 :)
  • LAT1963
    LAT1963 Posts: 1,375 Member
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    I think if you are ever in doubt about appropriate end-points, look at your numbers--BMI or body fat percentage. If you are in the healthy zone, then you can blow off what others say. Those numbers come out of research about health outcomes, not someone's arbitrary opinion about looks or fashion.
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
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    I always say it's no one's business what I put into my mouth. ;-) However, I was at my doctor's this morning and she asked if I was still losing weight. To her I said no because it's important that she know.
  • smarieallen85
    smarieallen85 Posts: 535 Member
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    I think if you are ever in doubt about appropriate end-points, look at your numbers--BMI or body fat percentage. If you are in the healthy zone, then you can blow off what others say. Those numbers come out of research about health outcomes, not someone's arbitrary opinion about looks or fashion.

    Yeah my BMI is in the healthy zone. My fat is just distributed funny and I have some junk in the trunk to deal with before I stop losing. Hopefully nothing else will come off of my chest.
  • stephe1987
    stephe1987 Posts: 406 Member
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    No, I still have some more to lose. But I can see that happening within the next 10 lbs or so because everyone is used to seeing me bigger. But I want to get to the middle of the "normal" range and then reevaluate. I might be fine and just want to get in better shape/build muscle or I might still want to lose more to get to a lower body fat percentage.
  • georgemang82
    georgemang82 Posts: 20 Member
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    Oh yes this has happened to me. The amount of people who told me that I should stop now or inferred I had some kind of an eating disorder was alarming! People also didn't want to hear that I had done it with healthy eating and exercise. ... weird!
  • joanna_82
    joanna_82 Posts: 151 Member
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    My boss says this to me all the time. I find it really uncomfortable. I haven't made a big deal out of wanting to lose weight to anyone and I am aware that I have obviously lost weight, I find it strange that people feel the need to point it out and ask you are you still planning to lose more. I am, because I am not yet at a normal BMI, but I'm not happy with going into that much detail with people.

    Funnily enough, my family, who are aware (although they never said anything at the time) that I had a previous brush with not eating, have not mentioned it at all. Maybe they have noticed but don't want to discuss it, in case it encourages me down the wrong road. But of course, they are all overweight or obese so maybe there is some jealousy there.

    I'm going to just continue with what I'm doing, happy in the knowledge that I am doing things right.
  • buzzardsrule
    buzzardsrule Posts: 182 Member
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    Congrats on reaching your goal. Just do your own thing. People get used to you at a certain weight so when you lose a substantial amount they think it's too much. They haven't adjusted to the new you yet.
  • layerstogo
    layerstogo Posts: 5 Member
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    I wish that was the case.

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