My boyfriend doesn't like the new me HELP!!!
TurtlesRule
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Guys and Ladies Please help!! My boyfriend is against my wieghtloss goals and says if I lose any more he will dump me:brokenheart: ?? I've only lost 3lbs so far...Makes no sense I was 20lbs lighter when we met :sad: What can I tell him or do??
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personally I say it's time for a new boyfriend. Sorry0
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personally I say it's time for a new boyfriend. Sorry
Agreed! He should support you no matter what.0 -
Have a serious talk / go to couples counseling / get a new boyfriend.
There's no reason you should endure any negativity for trying to be healthier person.0 -
. You have to decide, what is best for YOUR life. Any boyfriend worth his salt should support what is best for you.0
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time for a new boyfriend!0
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personally I say it's time for a new boyfriend. Sorry
Agreed! He should support you no matter what.
I gotta third that. Sorry. He sounds very insecure. :frown: My ex constantly sabotaged me. Been there, done that, and you notice I said EX.0 -
Wow thats horrid! If he is that into appearances he probably doesnt love the real you deep inside. My husband would love and put up with me no matter the size, and he has seen me at all of them. Sounds unhealthy ... im sorry you put up with that!0
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I second the call for a new boyfriend. If a man can't appreciate you for who you are and what you want to be, he's a chump. You're a beautiful girl, and you'll find plenty of better men out there if he doesn't wise up and support you.0
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i say he doesnt deserve u and u should come out for a drink with me instead :O) lol0
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Dump him...don't ever let a man (or boy) tell you how you should look or feel honey.0
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He is probably intimidated by your new attention to your weight/workouts etc. I know i just talked with my boyf the other night...I said, hey, i hope you dont mind weve switched things up a bit, and were staying home for dinner now..we only saw eachother 2 times last week, and once was for like an hour. But he knows its important to me, and he actually started going to the gym with me, and even SUGGESTED we get the fat free cheddar ( lol)
So maybe include him? If he doesnt have weight to lose, or is already in shape, tell him you'd love his support so you can get in the best shape possible too. Maybe he is feeling lack of attention..
if not....bon voyage - not worth your time. This is for your health...0 -
Is your goal within a healthy BMI for you?
If it is, dump him. No one needs to be given ultimatums. You deserve better!
If it isn't, maybe he is just concerned for your health.0 -
Agreed! Why would he be trying to keep you down? He must have some issues with himself, not you, so don't listen to him. It would just be the start of living a life you're not happy with!!0
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personally I say it's time for a new boyfriend. Sorry0
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He says if you lose any more weight he'll dump you?
That sounds like a problem that will soon resolve itself ...0 -
Well if you like controlling freaks that tell you what to do, when to do it or when to stop, then stop losing weight.
If you like being control of you life and your health tell him your going to lose the weight and if he don't like then "kick rocks" and you will find someone that supports you.0 -
time to move on!! what a douche!!!0
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He says if you lose any more weight he'll dump you?
That sounds like a problem that will soon resolve itself ...
LOL Chris! I love it...0 -
personally I say it's time for a new boyfriend. Sorry
what she said.0 -
Agreed! he's insecure and you do not need that! If losing weight is what YOU want, DO IT. He does not own you! And, I bet he will not dump you if you do lose 20lbs. He's trying to control you. Don't fall for it.0
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