Restarting...150Lbs to lose

wbl512
wbl512 Posts: 21 Member
Hello - I'm restarting this crazy endeavor again. My history:
I started with MFP in 2009
Got serious in 2010
Lost 82lbs in 13 months
Hit a huge plateau
Did not hit my goal
Deleted my account because I wanted to start fresh
Started fresh with my current user name
Lost interest
As of 3 days ago, gained all the weight back

I was very committed when I lost the 82lbs. I'm not sure what happened but I lost interest. I guess I just got tired of fighting the fight. Now, I'm at a point where it's hard to get around. The harder it is to get around, the more sedentary I get.

I am 52

I'm ready.

Anyone else in a similar position?

If so, friend me....I know it can be done!!

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  • We have similar goals, Id love to work together on this!
  • cjcarter77
    cjcarter77 Posts: 48 Member
    add me up, will help all I can!
  • anorrisdyer
    anorrisdyer Posts: 52 Member
    I want to lose at least 100lbs, so I am with you! I sent a request to you. Anyone else can add me as well.
  • LETS GO!!! I will help you :)
  • rafaytina02
    rafaytina02 Posts: 10 Member
    I'm with you.. gotta get healty!
  • BryVia12
    BryVia12 Posts: 181 Member
    I could have written that myself! Adding you now.
  • ronercat
    ronercat Posts: 273 Member
    I also have quite a ways to go in my weight loss journey. Having support on here always makes it easier.
  • commkrista3
    commkrista3 Posts: 31 Member
    We are in the same boat! I, too, got serious in 2012, lost a lot of weight. My father became terminally ill, and I VERY CLEARLY remember a friend saying "Now is not the time to worry about your diet....look after your family." That became my license to eat! I too have gained it all back, plus some. I also re-started a couple of times. Have been back at it for 3 days. Have 100+ to lose. I would love to take this journey with you!
  • amcook4
    amcook4 Posts: 561 Member
    Sounds close to me, only last time I lost weight it wasn't nearly close to 82 pounds, but I did gain everything back, plus 25 pounds. I have over 150 to shed as well, feel free to add me if you want! Support of MFP friends has played a big part in my success this time around.
  • I have done the 'lose weight and gain it back' dance more times than I can count. Now I'm starting over again. This time I'm breaking it down into three phases. Feel free to add me.
  • wbl512
    wbl512 Posts: 21 Member
    Thanks everyone for all the warm comments! MFP rocks! I love this place.
  • StarFall90
    StarFall90 Posts: 133 Member
    I started with 200 pounds to lose. 6 1/2 months later I need to lose 135. Anyone can add me!
  • I can relate to all of this. My story is very similar. I've been on the loss/gain roller coaster all of my life. Ready to get serious and do this the healthy way.... and with friends. We all need that support! I would love to be there for you as you start over.:smile:
  • KValmera71
    KValmera71 Posts: 82 Member
    I can absolutely relate!! I am restarting myself as of this past Sunday. My tools are my Jawbone UP and MFP. I ordered the 21 Day Fix because I have really bad issues of portion control and I believe that will help. I am good with using the tools I have, I just have to continue to keep using them. I have 200 lbs to lose to be healthy, but honestly, I would be happy with 100 - 150 lbs gone.

    I will add you and anyone else, feel free to add me!
  • wbl512
    wbl512 Posts: 21 Member
    MFP has the greatest people!
  • queenstatus
    queenstatus Posts: 267 Member
    I TOO JUST RESTARTED 4 DAYS AGO AND I HAVE 77 POUNDS TO LOSE. I ALSO GAINED MOST OF MY WEIGHT BACK SO I KNOW THE FEELING. ANYONE WHO READS THIS POST CAN ADD ME. WE CAN AND WILL DO THIS!!!
  • Tanie98
    Tanie98 Posts: 675 Member
    I have 20 more to go and I cant wait to get into maintenance.I hate eating at calorie deficient .i love food
  • Cerakoala
    Cerakoala Posts: 2,547 Member
    Hello :) I am 3 years into my journey but started with about 300lbs to lose. I would love to help support and motivate you :) I know sometimes counting calories can become old and staying motivated is hard. I find this site encourages me to log in and stay on track because I know my friends help hold me accountable. You can do this you took the first step of coming back :) IF you would like to add me feel free :)
  • dinglehopper14
    dinglehopper14 Posts: 48 Member
    I would love to use my recent pregnancy as an excuse but to be honest I gained all my weight three years ago. Now it's time pull myself together! It's a lifestyle change that I have needed for some time. Let's do this together!

    Feel free to add me. 8)
  • dinglehopper14
    dinglehopper14 Posts: 48 Member
    You are an incredible motivation! Congratulations on your successes so far. Keep it up!
  • I am in the same position! Just joined. So nice to know there are other people like me. We can do this. This is my umpteenth attempt. Want it to be just my new lifestyle forever....! Would love new MFP buddies!
  • LivyMarie93
    LivyMarie93 Posts: 134 Member
    You can do it! MFP is perfect for motivation and keep up with your goals. Feel free to add me :)
  • I feel your pain. I eat smart for a while then life takes over, I get stressed and I give up. I would love a group of individuals that understands that the loosing process is an emotional struggle as well. Feel free to send me a request and I will be happy to help and to reap the benefits from a goup of like minded people.
  • Goal179
    Goal179 Posts: 314 Member
    I'm here for you. I log every day. I am struggling a little right now but I am still there and working at it every day. Friend me if you need support.
  • lisajmille58r
    lisajmille58r Posts: 2 Member
    just gettijng started myself. Need to stay focused...I guess it's just all about how much you want this. I want this and need to stay strong!
  • Same here. About 130 or so to lose. Desperately need friends that are motivational and also HONEST.

    Friend request sent, and anyone else please feel free to add me. The more the better.
  • trogalicious
    trogalicious Posts: 4,584 Member
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1235566-so-you-re-new-here

    even though you aren't new, you're getting "back on the horse."

    make the horse easier to stay on. Check out some of those tips up there in that link.

    If you don't wanna click the link, here's the stuff:
    1. don't trust the initial setup that MFP provides. If you put in the wrong/inaccurate information, it'll tell you to eat an amount that may not be applicable.
    2. Make sure you eat enough.
    3. Figure out what works for you and is sustainable/healthy/long term.
    4. avoid fads. don't buy in to any "Hey, try the twinkie and vodka diet"
    5. Don't cut out anything now that you don't plan on literally giving up forever.
    6. GET A FOOD SCALE. Weigh everything. No, seriously.
    7. Get an HRM with a chest strap. You'll at least have a better idea of what you're burning. It'll be more accurate than the generic info in the exercise database.. and even more than the cardio machines. This is great for steady state cardio (run/walk/etc)
    8. Don't go balls out. You'll burn out. I see 300 lb people show up here, instantly start working out and cutting their intake SEVERELY... trying to cut out all of their carbs at once.. whatever. Take it slow. Figure out how much you need to eat FIRST in order to lose.. then incorporate exercise.
    9. Don't cardio yourself to death.
    10. Take the information on the forums with a grain of salt. A lot of people that have been here for a while.. and have been successful, may seem jaded. They give out GREAT advice day after day, only to be met with people that refuse to listen.
    11. Eat real food. Not diet food. Not "low fat, sugar free, now without X." It's easier to get/find/count.
    12. don't set time restrictions.
    13. measure yourself weekly. Don't just weigh. Measure and take pictures.
    14 BE PATIENT.
    15. Avoid forum topics that have "1200" in the title. It's just full of butthurt. Lots of it.
    16. If you ask a question on the forum, give as much information as you can ("yes, I have a food scale and weigh my food" is worlds better than "I eat a palm full of miscellaneous boiled chicken parts..sometimes.")
    17. Be honest with yourself and honest with us.
    18. This isn't a game, it's about changing your lifestyle. Do that.

    pretty much that.

    ...and don't fall into the "1200 calorie" vertigo of suck because of:

    the typical MFP users does this:
    1. I wanna lose weight, let's try MFP.
    2. OH! Wow, it tells me I can lose 2 lbs a WEEK? AWESOME!
    3. I just sit at a desk when I'm not working out, I guess I'm sedentary.
    4. MFP tells them 1200 calories, and they don't even eat that.. then they work out on top of it.. creating an even bigger deficit.
    5. Lose a lot, fast, brag about 1200 calorie success.
    6. Come back in a few months trying to figure out why they're dizzy, tired, not losing weight.
    7. Get on the forums, ask why they aren't losing.
    8. Get two responses (I eat 1200 and lose) (I eat 2200 and lose)
    9. Argument ensues about who is right.

    Now. That being said. These threads happen hundreds of times per day. Most times, and I mean really.. seriously.. 95% of the time.. people get the 1200 number because they don't put the right information in when they set up the account. There are a great number of people that are trying to help. I'm one of 'em.

    I'm a hardcore advocate of actually finding out what works for the individual.. by means of other calculators, averages, time, practice, and patience.

    Blanket prescriptions of 1200 calories "because it worked for me" is more harmful to the generic new user than the "figure out what you need to eat." Unfortunately, one is a LOT easier to type.

    Find out what you need: http://scoobysworkshop.com/accurate-calorie-calculator/

    and make sure to read: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1080242-a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants

    ...and here's another approach.

    Block off 6 weeks. log EXACTLY what you eat for those six weeks, weigh at the beginning, weight at the end. If you've lost, you're eating under your TDEE. If you haven't lost, congrats.. you found your TDEE, if you've gained... then you're above TDEE.

    From there, look at how much you lost or gained and you have a rough estimate of how to shift your intake to balance it out.

    Online calculators are great, but they're just estimates. They give you decent ideas for starting points. From there, it's on you to fine tune it.
  • I have the exact same amount to lose. Wishing you the best! Feel free to add me as well. I have found that updating my "status" from time to time has helped me stay motivated. Best of luck!!!!!!!!
  • FattyFatsoMcTubby
    FattyFatsoMcTubby Posts: 170 Member
    You already know how to lose weight. Now you need to make this a lifestyle change, not something that will end when you hit some goal. Otherwise, you will likely keep putting the weight back on. Good luck, I'll be rooting for you.
  • thenewstaci
    thenewstaci Posts: 2 Member
    I deleted my old MFP page 20 minutes ago. I want a fresh start! I began my journey 2 years ago and lost 30+ pounds. My heaviest weight after my last pregnancy was 286. I got down to 253 in April. As of tonight I am 268.4 :(
    I have to regain the same level of focus in which I once had! I need to push myself to be consistent! I'm an Independent Distributor for It Works and I don't want my weight and how I look hinder my business!
    And to hear my 4 and 2 year old say "MOMMY YOU GOTTA BIG OLE STOMACH" breaks my heart into a million pieces!

    We can do this! Myfitness Pal is an awesome tool!
    Wishing you all great success! Cheers to the new you!