Saw my "frenemy" at the park today....

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  • mrnls
    mrnls Posts: 92 Member
    I was at the park today running and I happened to see my friend, Amy, who I've known half my life. Amy has always been critical of my weight (even though she is also overweight) and in the past has called me fatso and other various other names. Nice, huh? Well, I haven't seen her in a while and when she saw me running I stopped, said hello and then said "Hey, why don't you come run with me?" Of course she declined and said "Oh, I have to run some errands." But I KNOW she never works out and has NO intentions of losing weight or getting healthy. I just smiled and said goodbye and off I ran. Then I even lapped her during my next lap and it felt SOOOOOOOOOOO good! She's about 5 inches shorter than me and 40lbs lighter, but she's still overweight for her height. I just can't wait until I'm her weight! I will get the last laugh in the end!

    It just me feel good to lap her while running! :laugh:
    Sorry, just had to share!


    Oh how good it feels! I have one of those too. She likes to tell me what and how I should lose weight. Yet she has gained all her 33lbs back and I am down 20lbs.
    Enjoy your success you deserve it!
  • AliciaMarie08
    AliciaMarie08 Posts: 2
    Great story...all that does is push you harder! :flowerforyou:
  • Lisa1971
    Lisa1971 Posts: 3,069 Member
    Remind me not to be friends with you. Seriously, these are the people you have in your life? I'd say it's time to find some new folks to hang with.

    well the people they have spoken about are not friends or people they hang out with.... you cant always choose who you work with :-)

    Thank you!!!! So true!
  • LisaZaugg1976
    LisaZaugg1976 Posts: 1,144 Member
    great job!!!!
  • Sasssy69
    Sasssy69 Posts: 547 Member
    Sweetness!!

    Want to know my motivation? My ex's current gf called me a fat cow a few months ago. Since then, I saw a pic she was tagged in on facebook (you know, the ones you don't want online!). In this pic, her gut is HANGING over her jeans (I don't know why she thought tucking her skin tight shirt into her too small jeans would be a good idea). I keep that on my phone so when I don't want to work out, or I feel bad about myself, I'll pull that pic out and giggle till I about wet myself.

    Then suddenly I feel so much better :)

    Ohhhh! Girl ME TOO! My ex husband's current wife made a comment to my girls about how I'm "jealous." She's literally 60 pounds heavier than me -RIGHT NOW, and she's not doing anything to lose weight. Every time I feel the temptation to dive into the cookies or eat a burger, I say out loud to myself, "Jealous." Yeah, you give me two more months...we'll see whose jealous. And this summer??? I'm gonna have a rockin body. Ima hold up a sign that says, "Who's JEALOUS now?", wearing a bikini, when they come pick up my kids. ha ha ha!

    I say whatever motivates ya!
  • AHealthierRhonda
    AHealthierRhonda Posts: 881 Member
    Don't you love it when words are not necessary!! Good for you taking the high road and staying positive. As another post said, "kill her with kindness". Love it!!
  • nehptune
    nehptune Posts: 138
    luvvit!!!

    and you kept the moral highground.
    perfection.
  • Jain
    Jain Posts: 861 Member
    Brilliant, it's little things like that, that make losing weight totally worth while.:laugh:

    I had a 'friend' like that. Emphasis on the had. She was no light weight herself but always had a derogatory comment to make about my size. Eventually I had had enough & told her that once she had solved her 'weight problem' them she could comment on mine. And that was the last I heard from her. No big miss!
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,271 Member
    Sweetness!!

    Want to know my motivation? My ex's current gf called me a fat cow a few months ago. Since then, I saw a pic she was tagged in on facebook (you know, the ones you don't want online!). In this pic, her gut is HANGING over her jeans (I don't know why she thought tucking her skin tight shirt into her too small jeans would be a good idea). I keep that on my phone so when I don't want to work out, or I feel bad about myself, I'll pull that pic out and giggle till I about wet myself.

    Then suddenly I feel so much better :)

    Ohhhh! Girl ME TOO! My ex husband's current wife made a comment to my girls about how I'm "jealous." She's literally 60 pounds heavier than me -RIGHT NOW, and she's not doing anything to lose weight. Every time I feel the temptation to dive into the cookies or eat a burger, I say out loud to myself, "Jealous." Yeah, you give me two more months...we'll see whose jealous. And this summer??? I'm gonna have a rockin body. Ima hold up a sign that says, "Who's JEALOUS now?", wearing a bikini, when they come pick up my kids. ha ha ha!

    I say whatever motivates ya!

    However unchristian it may be....Revenge is better than Christmas!!! I love it
  • ammp
    ammp Posts: 107 Member
    However unchristian it may be....Revenge is better than Christmas!!! I love it

    :laugh:
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