Dads and daughters

Dustinsteven22
Dustinsteven22 Posts: 280 Member
I usually don't get choked up very often. When it comes to my daughter, well...

One of the best days is when Madison gives me a hug and says, "I love you daddy." I love watching her grow up. From the time I would watch her as a baby; feeding her, changing her diaper, playing my guitar so she would fall asleep at night. As a toddler she would follow me around everywhere. I would park my truck outside the house after work and she would run up to the window. She would wave at me and then run outside to give me a hug.

When she was 4, I would take her mountain bike riding. I would strap her in the bike seat hooked on the back of my bike and she would yell "faster daddy." Until the one time the bike seat fell off the bike and she went flying off. Scared me to death. I ran up to her and she looked at me and said, "Look daddy, a butterfly." I had some allergies that day, my eyes were watery for some reason.

I love all the drawings and notes from her. I loved coaching her softball and talking about fear, timidity, and how God is with us at all times. Even the times she would argue with me, I couldn't help thinking about how much I love her.

She is now in her "Tweens." Her tastes are changing and she wants her independence a little more each day. It's so hard not to keep her locked up with me for the rest of her life, but I know I have to loosen my hand a little each day. I keep praying and hoping all of my hugs, kisses, and little talks have captured her heart so she makes wise decisions.

For now, we share playing the guitar together. I'm hoping to get her back into guitar lessons soon. I plan on taking her out on "dates," because I know boys are a topic just around the corner. I'm so proud of her and she definitely has me wrapped around her finger. Damn it, I have allergies again.

Dads with daughters, take the time to pour into them because it goes quick. I found these Daddy and Daughter date ideas. Have fun!...

http://www.goodsirs.net/provider/100-daddy-daughter-date-ideas/

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  • skippygirlsmom
    skippygirlsmom Posts: 4,433 Member
    You made me cry. Today is my Dad's birthday, he passed 14 years ago and obviously today he has been on my mind more than usual.

    There is nothing and I mean nothing as special as the relationship a daughter has with her Daddy. He is the first man she will love, he teaches her what a good man is and that she deserves a good man. My dad taught me all the important things I needed, to be strong, how to love, how I should be treated, how to change a tire and do a tune up :wink: Your daughter will always need you and always look to you guidance. When she is faced with tough decisions she will stop and wonder what dad would advise. I know I still do.

    As the teen years approach she may pull away some, looking for that independence we for some reason think we need at 14. But trust me she will come back and you will always be her Daddy and she will always be your little girl.

    Thank you for writing this. I know it was something you wrote for you, but it was something I needed to read today.

    Hugs. I posted this poem on my FB page today, it's long, but worth the read.

    In Your Heart
    He was so proud of his little girl
    It was her very first day of school
    He walked with her to school that day
    And she held his hand all the way
    They walked together quiet and sad
    A little girl and her loving dad
    Into the school her father led
    But he almost cried when she said
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you if you go away
    And I might need you, can't you stay
    Little Daughter please don't cry
    You'll be okay so dry your eyes
    You have our memories in your heart
    We're together though we're apart

    He sat up front on her wedding day
    And cried as his daughter walked away
    Later that night he watched her dance
    He sat there waiting for his chance
    The band started to play their song
    Father and daughter danced along
    She looked at him and saw a tear
    Then leaned and whispered in his ear
    Daddy, Daddy I have to go
    I hate to leave you all alone
    I'll miss you when I go away
    But if you need me then I'll stay
    Little Daughter I'll be just fine
    I'll love you always you are mine
    I have our memories in my heart
    We're together though we're apart

    She came in his room and kissed his head
    Then sat next to his hospital bed
    He took her hand and held it tight
    And wished he had the strength to fight
    They sat together quiet and sad
    A daughter and her dying dad
    He saw the tears she tried to hide
    She looked at him and then she cried
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you when you go away
    I still need you, you have to stay
    Little Daughter I love you so
    I want to stay but have to go
    I'll always be here in your heart
    We're together though we're apart
  • Dustinsteven22
    Dustinsteven22 Posts: 280 Member
    Thank you! I just felt like I needed to share this today. I know we are suppose to be on the fitness topic, but I couldn't help it.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Thanks for sharing!

    I love my dad so much! He's a wonderful man and we get along so well with lots of laughs. Even closer after mom died. He's 80 but super functional and fun. I'll be so sad to see him go.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    OP, just know that she'll venture out, but if you have a great relationship, she'll always be your girl and the bond will only be stronger. It's amazing.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    You made me cry. Today is my Dad's birthday, he passed 14 years ago and obviously today he has been on my mind more than usual.

    There is nothing and I mean nothing as special as the relationship a daughter has with her Daddy. He is the first man she will love, he teaches her what a good man is and that she deserves a good man. My dad taught me all the important things I needed, to be strong, how to love, how I should be treated, how to change a tire and do a tune up :wink: Your daughter will always need you and always look to you guidance. When she is faced with tough decisions she will stop and wonder what dad would advise. I know I still do.

    As the teen years approach she may pull away some, looking for that independence we for some reason think we need at 14. But trust me she will come back and you will always be her Daddy and she will always be your little girl.

    Thank you for writing this. I know it was something you wrote for you, but it was something I needed to read today.

    Hugs. I posted this poem on my FB page today, it's long, but worth the read.

    In Your Heart
    He was so proud of his little girl
    It was her very first day of school
    He walked with her to school that day
    And she held his hand all the way
    They walked together quiet and sad
    A little girl and her loving dad
    Into the school her father led
    But he almost cried when she said
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you if you go away
    And I might need you, can't you stay
    Little Daughter please don't cry
    You'll be okay so dry your eyes
    You have our memories in your heart
    We're together though we're apart

    He sat up front on her wedding day
    And cried as his daughter walked away
    Later that night he watched her dance
    He sat there waiting for his chance
    The band started to play their song
    Father and daughter danced along
    She looked at him and saw a tear
    Then leaned and whispered in his ear
    Daddy, Daddy I have to go
    I hate to leave you all alone
    I'll miss you when I go away
    But if you need me then I'll stay
    Little Daughter I'll be just fine
    I'll love you always you are mine
    I have our memories in my heart
    We're together though we're apart

    She came in his room and kissed his head
    Then sat next to his hospital bed
    He took her hand and held it tight
    And wished he had the strength to fight
    They sat together quiet and sad
    A daughter and her dying dad
    He saw the tears she tried to hide
    She looked at him and then she cried
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you when you go away
    I still need you, you have to stay
    Little Daughter I love you so
    I want to stay but have to go
    I'll always be here in your heart
    We're together though we're apart
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  • gsnobel
    gsnobel Posts: 49 Member
    Dads and daughters never end. My little girl is now a wonderful wife and mother to a teenage boy. But always has time to send her Papa an I Love You text, at the very least a couple times a week. She lives on the other side of the country now but she is always in my heart.

    All the best to you and your daughter they grow quickly and even with the heartache they give us sometimes, they will always be our little girls.
  • Dustinsteven22
    Dustinsteven22 Posts: 280 Member
    So true!!
  • antoniy2409
    antoniy2409 Posts: 193 Member
    In Your Heart
    He was so proud of his little girl
    It was her very first day of school
    He walked with her to school that day
    And she held his hand all the way
    They walked together quiet and sad
    A little girl and her loving dad
    Into the school her father led
    But he almost cried when she said
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you if you go away
    And I might need you, can't you stay
    Little Daughter please don't cry
    You'll be okay so dry your eyes
    You have our memories in your heart
    We're together though we're apart

    He sat up front on her wedding day
    And cried as his daughter walked away
    Later that night he watched her dance
    He sat there waiting for his chance
    The band started to play their song
    Father and daughter danced along
    She looked at him and saw a tear
    Then leaned and whispered in his ear
    Daddy, Daddy I have to go
    I hate to leave you all alone
    I'll miss you when I go away
    But if you need me then I'll stay
    Little Daughter I'll be just fine
    I'll love you always you are mine
    I have our memories in my heart
    We're together though we're apart

    She came in his room and kissed his head
    Then sat next to his hospital bed
    He took her hand and held it tight
    And wished he had the strength to fight
    They sat together quiet and sad
    A daughter and her dying dad
    He saw the tears she tried to hide
    She looked at him and then she cried
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you when you go away
    I still need you, you have to stay
    Little Daughter I love you so
    I want to stay but have to go
    I'll always be here in your heart
    We're together though we're apart
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    So beautifully sad!
    Tomorrow is my daughter's 9th birthday. And I am very happy.
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    You made me cry. Today is my Dad's birthday, he passed 14 years ago and obviously today he has been on my mind more than usual.

    There is nothing and I mean nothing as special as the relationship a daughter has with her Daddy. He is the first man she will love, he teaches her what a good man is and that she deserves a good man. My dad taught me all the important things I needed, to be strong, how to love, how I should be treated, how to change a tire and do a tune up :wink: Your daughter will always need you and always look to you guidance. When she is faced with tough decisions she will stop and wonder what dad would advise. I know I still do.

    As the teen years approach she may pull away some, looking for that independence we for some reason think we need at 14. But trust me she will come back and you will always be her Daddy and she will always be your little girl.

    Thank you for writing this. I know it was something you wrote for you, but it was something I needed to read today.

    Hugs. I posted this poem on my FB page today, it's long, but worth the read.

    In Your Heart
    He was so proud of his little girl
    It was her very first day of school
    He walked with her to school that day
    And she held his hand all the way
    They walked together quiet and sad
    A little girl and her loving dad
    Into the school her father led
    But he almost cried when she said
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you if you go away
    And I might need you, can't you stay
    Little Daughter please don't cry
    You'll be okay so dry your eyes
    You have our memories in your heart
    We're together though we're apart

    He sat up front on her wedding day
    And cried as his daughter walked away
    Later that night he watched her dance
    He sat there waiting for his chance
    The band started to play their song
    Father and daughter danced along
    She looked at him and saw a tear
    Then leaned and whispered in his ear
    Daddy, Daddy I have to go
    I hate to leave you all alone
    I'll miss you when I go away
    But if you need me then I'll stay
    Little Daughter I'll be just fine
    I'll love you always you are mine
    I have our memories in my heart
    We're together though we're apart

    She came in his room and kissed his head
    Then sat next to his hospital bed
    He took her hand and held it tight
    And wished he had the strength to fight
    They sat together quiet and sad
    A daughter and her dying dad
    He saw the tears she tried to hide
    She looked at him and then she cried
    Daddy, Daddy please don't go
    Don't leave me here all alone
    I'll miss you when you go away
    I still need you, you have to stay
    Little Daughter I love you so
    I want to stay but have to go
    I'll always be here in your heart
    We're together though we're apart
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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,992 Member
    As a stay at home dad (yes I stay at home more than I work), I have to agree with this. I am enjoying and savoring the time I spend with my daughter. As most will say, it seems just a short time ago when she was a toddler. She's 10 now and I know the challenging years are approaching.
    What I hope to instill in her though is that she doesn't have to "settle" for just the cute guy. I show her love and respect and personally haven't had to raise a hand to her at all. I'm hoping that she'll see that a man (especially now with how some athletes are treating their SO's) should respect her and never needs to lay a forceful hand on her.
    It's going to go fast I know. I just want to get out as much of it as I can, while I can.

    Lol, in fact. I'm getting off now to go play a game of Monopoly (her favorite) with her.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
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  • spirytwynd
    spirytwynd Posts: 141 Member
    Yup. You're a dad.
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  • FitWarrior7
    FitWarrior7 Posts: 332 Member
    As a new father of a 4 month old baby girl I must say I am looking forward to sharing these same memories with my daughter...although I don't play the guitar. Thanks for sharing.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I have three daughters. When the youngest was born, I started saving various things for her in a box. Included is a cassette tape of the song below. My plan was to give her the box on her 21st birthday. She'll be 21 in two weeks. Time goes by so very fast.


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-IZ6yUXgIo

    To a Sleeping Beauty -- Jimmy Dean

    Dear daughter I tiptoed to your room tonight
    And I looked down at you smiling in your sleep
    You were so lovely my heart nearly broke
    And I thought how very much like sleeping beauty a little girl is
    When I tuck you in at night I never know how old you'll be when you wake
    One evening you crawl on your dad's lap and throw your arms around his neck
    The next morning you might be much too grownup for that sort of thing
    You're so quickly approachin' my awkward age
    Too young to drive a car and yet too old to be carried
    Into the house half asleep on daddy's shoulder
    I have a secret that I've never told you Sleeping Beauty
    You're going on a very exciting trip
    You'll travel from yesterday all the way to tomorrow
    It's a rapid journey and you'll travel light
    Leavin' behind your measles mumps freckles bumps bubblegum and me
    I promise not to feel too hurt when you discover
    That the world is more important than your daddy's lap
    Yesterday you were blue-jeaned and pig-tailed the neighborhood's best tree-climber
    Tomorrow you'll be blue-organdie and ponny-tailed
    And you'll view the world from a loftier perch a pair of high-heel shoes
    Yesterday you could mend a doll's broken leg with a hug
    Tomorrow you'll be able to break a young man's heart with a kiss
    Ha ha yesterday you could get lost one aisle away from me in a supermarket
    Now I have to worry about losin' you down another aisle to some strange young man
    You see just at the point where your growing pains stop mine begin
    Yesterday you were kind of a pain in the neck when you were around
    Tomorrow you'll be an ache in my heart when you're not
    Tomorrow you'll lay aside your jumprope and tie up the telephone lines
    And that little boy that used to push you in the mud
    Well he'll fight to set out a dance with you
    The clock upstairs is countin' the minutes for you
    And the sky upstairs is savin' its brightest stars
    And the sun is waitin' with its shinest day
    Oh I can't expect you to live in a dollhouse forever
    Sooner or later the butterfly sheds its cocoon and the smallest bird must try its wings
    But when you grow up and out of my arms when you finally get too big for my shirts
    I'll still recall how you used to scatter dust and dolls
    And partially through every room in the house but you spread sunshine too
    The dust is settled your mom picked up the dolls
    But the sunshine will always fill the corners of our hearts
    So here I am talkin' in your sleep
    Because well if you saw this look on my face you'd laugh
    And if I spoke with this lump in my throat I'd cry
    Yeah honey when I looked at you tonight you were a Sleeping Beauty
    So I tiptoed over and I kissed you you didn't wake up I knew you wouldn't
    According to the legend only the handsome young prince can open your eyes
    And I'm just the father of a future bride
    So you sleep on pretty thing tomorrow you'll awake and you'll be a young lady
    And you won't even realize that you've changed courses in the middle of a dream
    But you might notice this little change in me
    I look a little different somehow a little sadder a little wiser but a whole lot richer
    Tonight I kissed a princess and I feel like a king
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    You'll lose her in her teens, but you'll get her back someday. My dad is one of my best friends and he is my favorite cycling partner. I wish my daughter had the same love from her dad. :(
  • Joannah700
    Joannah700 Posts: 2,665 Member
    Tugging on the heartstrings over here.

    My Dad passed about 4 years ago, but I still think and talk of him all the time because of the impact he made in my life.


    We also used to go on father-daughter dates. Though...they were definitely centered around his interests. We would drive around town and put up signs regarding whatever political fight he was up to at the moment, or drive over and get ice cream. My dad could always be talked around to ice cream.

    OP: I know she's lucky to have you and will cherish these moments throughout her life.
  • NotShena
    NotShena Posts: 172 Member
    ❤️

    I was a daddy's girl. I was lucky to have him for 19 years. I used to think about how he was taken from me too soon. How much I was robbed by not having him long enough. But now I feel honor and blessed I got to see him every day for 18 years. How he was there. How we went on hikes every Saturday, rain, shine or snow. How I used to nap with him after those hikes. How he used to make me laugh. Now I have his sense of humor. Now I get to take my sons hiking, nap with them, and make them laugh. Because of these things, my dad lives on.

    Thank you for being a wonderful father. ❤️
  • mygnsac
    mygnsac Posts: 13,413 Member
    What a sweet post. I have so much love and respect for my Dad (he's 70 years old now). You are building some pretty great memories. What's the old saying...A son's a son till he takes a wife, a daughter's a daughter for the rest of her life.