Finding time/motivation for exercise

I'm a chef working 55 hour weeks. I taste a LOT of stuff every day so I'm putting that as 250 working calories. My trouble is finding the time and motivation to exercise. I get in from work so tired so just slump on the sofa, cook dinner, sort the kids out and then slump again! I work on my feet so it's fairly active but I'm not getting out of breath like you should with exercise. Any motivation from fellow MFPers? Thanks in advance x

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  • thegreatcanook
    thegreatcanook Posts: 2,419 Member
    Add me and I'll cheer you on!
  • CyberEd312
    CyberEd312 Posts: 3,536 Member
    Find an exercise that you enjoy doing, so that your more inclined to go do it... I mix things up alot from treadmill, to elliptical, to indoor track, StairMaster, weight room (is pretty much where I live lol), shooting hoops, swimming laps, outdoor hikes, biking, to name a few. Start small, do a 5 minute workout (is exactly where I started), next time you exercise add in a couple more minutes, and rinse and repeat. Once you get moving and allow your body to build strength and conditioning, you will find the energy you are looking for and the drive to continue doing it... Best of Luck
  • lianluo
    lianluo Posts: 5 Member
    Well that is the challenge...the motivation. How about trying small steps such as parking far out in the parking lot so you add more walking. Stop while you are working to do 10 air squats every couple of hours, etc. Just try to build in a little bit more while you are working.

    I struggle with the same thing-in fact, I should have gotten up to work out this morning, but I slept in and am now typing this!

    Consistency is the key and I'm telling myself the same thing. I went through a period where I just did it and didn't talk myself out of things and it worked. Now to reacquire that mindset.
  • thepandapost
    thepandapost Posts: 117 Member
    Find an exercise that you enjoy doing, so that your more inclined to go do it... I mix things up alot from treadmill, to elliptical, to indoor track, StairMaster, weight room (is pretty much where I live lol), shooting hoops, swimming laps, outdoor hikes, biking, to name a few. Start small, do a 5 minute workout (is exactly where I started), next time you exercise add in a couple more minutes, and rinse and repeat. Once you get moving and allow your body to build strength and conditioning, you will find the energy you are looking for and the drive to continue doing it... Best of Luck

    Agree. Or find a workout class that you enjoy. Also schedule workouts for BEFORE work. You need to make it a priority in your day if it is going to happen. We could cheer you on till we are blue in the face but the motivation needs to come from within. You have to want this.
  • kshadows
    kshadows Posts: 1,315 Member
    Commit to doing it, then do it. I work full time, have 2 young children, am responsible for the majority of the housework, just finished a Bachelor's degree and I've still lost almost 40 pounds. You can do it!
  • BrianSharpe
    BrianSharpe Posts: 9,248 Member
    Time isn't the problem, motivation is. I'm self-employed and a 55 hr week would seem like a vacation but a number of years ago I made the decision to become fitter. Once you make the decision you make the time.

    As to the motivation side of things try to find activities that you enjoy, forcing yourself to do something you hate is a recipe for failure (at the same time give new things an honest try). The good news is that you don't have to pump iron for hours at a time or train for a marathon to achieve a good level of fitness, find half an hour a day (as a minimum) to do something that gets your heart-rate up.

    If evenings don't work for you how about getting up half an hour earlier and going for a walk etc? Could you ride a bike to work? It's a paradox but regular exercise actually improves energy levels and your sense of well being.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    You will have to make the time. It doesn't just happen.

    Find something you like to do. It makes it easier to stick with. Your motivation will come from the changes you see and you'll want to keep going.
  • KarenJanine
    KarenJanine Posts: 3,497 Member
    You just have to keep doing it until the habit sticks, like brushing your teeth. Make exercise a priority. Set aside the time, be it before work, after work, whenever you are most likely to be able to do it, and just do it. No excuses or procrastination.

    Some days I just want to slump on the sofa when I get in from work but I make sure I workout before I sit down and get too comfortable. 45 minutes later it's done, I feel good, and then I get to eat dinner and relax.
  • Catter_05
    Catter_05 Posts: 155 Member
    I like the ideas you are getting so far! One thing I have found is that exercise really does make you feel better. Maybe not immediately, but over time you will find you have more energy. You just need to put in the time to build the healthy habits.
    Do you like to plan? Set up a calendar with goals. Do you have something you are wanting to accomplish? For instance do you want to be able to do 25 push ups? Find a push-up challenge and use that. Start small. Incorporate your family. Get your kids moving too.
  • JojoW8183
    JojoW8183 Posts: 540 Member
    I'm a chef working 55 hour weeks. I taste a LOT of stuff every day so I'm putting that as 250 working calories. My trouble is finding the time and motivation to exercise. I get in from work so tired so just slump on the sofa, cook dinner, sort the kids out and then slump again! I work on my feet so it's fairly active but I'm not getting out of breath like you should with exercise. Any motivation from fellow MFPers? Thanks in advance x

    Do you get a lunch break at work? Personally I can't get motivated to work out in the early morning or when I'm off work so I workout during my lunch break. I get it done and it gives me a mid day boost.
  • KandGRanch
    KandGRanch Posts: 131 Member
    I'm a chef working 55 hour weeks. I taste a LOT of stuff every day so I'm putting that as 250 working calories. My trouble is finding the time and motivation to exercise. I get in from work so tired so just slump on the sofa, cook dinner, sort the kids out and then slump again! I work on my feet so it's fairly active but I'm not getting out of breath like you should with exercise. Any motivation from fellow MFPers? Thanks in advance x

    I wake up over an hour before the sun comes up to take care of breakfasts, lunches, coffee, dog walks, feeding pets, and then I spend the next several hours hauling hay and feed to my livestock. I get my first cup of coffee around 9am, then immediately start laundry (which has to be hung to dry) and loaves of bread. I clean coops and pens and hutches while bread proofs and laundry dries, then haul more hay, check my incubators, check my fencelines, and update my sales page. I take dinner out to thaw and prep side dishes, walking my dogs every hour due to an elderly male with bladder issues. Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays I organize closets/dressers/cabinets. Tuesdays and Thursdays I bake pastries to sell and can vegetables. Saturdays I trim hooves, worm, vaccinate, bathe animals, scrub water tanks, and sundays I bake more bread, reclean coops, etc. I also maintain two separate gardens that grow 80%of my familys food and 90% of my livestocks food, so seasonally I am pulling weeds, planting, tilling, hoeing middles, threshing, harvesting, selling produce.

    And I work out at least an hour a day to boot.

    If you want to do it, you will figure it out. and let me tell you-life; especially working on your feet all day, is SO much easier when you're in shape.
  • Tamois
    Tamois Posts: 64 Member
    Wow! All I can say is thank you to each and every one of you. All the posts are very inspirational and knowing that you can all do it (being even busier than me!) has given me a swift kick up the bum! So up for a brisk half hour walk before breakfast shift tomorrow morning. Going to lay out my fitness gear before bed tonight. Thank you all soooo much x
  • csuhar
    csuhar Posts: 779 Member
    Wow! All I can say is thank you to each and every one of you. All the posts are very inspirational and knowing that you can all do it (being even busier than me!) has given me a swift kick up the bum! So up for a brisk half hour walk before breakfast shift tomorrow morning. Going to lay out my fitness gear before bed tonight. Thank you all soooo much x

    I think that, if you can manage to get the motivation to exercise before you go to work, that will go a long way to helping your situation. That way, you're exercising when you're more energized. After that, your work will continue to keep you up on your feet through your work day just as much as it always has. You may feel fatigued earlier at work than you have been, but focusing on what you're doing will help keep your mind off of it.

    After that, you're free to slump as much as you like guilt-free, having already gotten both your workout and your work day out of the way.

    Over time, your energy levels will build up, and you might even find an exercise that you enjoy to the point that it doesn't feel like work, both of which will further assist in the motivation side of things.
  • PwrLftr82
    PwrLftr82 Posts: 945 Member
    Commit to doing it, then do it. I work full time, have 2 young children, am responsible for the majority of the housework, just finished a Bachelor's degree and I've still lost almost 40 pounds. You can do it!

    Yup--50+ hour/week job, grad school, 4-year old (now) son, and my husband leaves the house for work at 4:45 am. I went running at 4:00 this morning. You have to MAKE the time.
  • CassieR6
    CassieR6 Posts: 280 Member
    I am having the same issue. Due to working an 8am to 5pm shift I have no time in the evening to get my videos in. I have enough time to pick up my daughter, make dinner, and get her bathed and ready for bed. Its already almost 730 by that time. Then I put her down around 745 to 8 (she is 4 so I still read to her and what not). So by the time I get to relax after that and preping lunch for the next day its already 830 to 9. So I have to get my butt up at 5am to workout. I did it for a good month and since have fallen into a slump. But it can be done!!! All we need is the motivation! And it will come I promise! :flowerforyou:
  • Fsunami
    Fsunami Posts: 241 Member
    Thank you to all for one of the more civil, educaitonal and motivational discourses I've seen here in a while.

    Very refreshing..

    To OP: You'll get there. I hated it forever. One day, I was on the treadmill and it clicked, you know?

    Now im about to cut out of work early to go sneak some time in :)

    Why? The work will always be here. I wont be if I dont take care of me.

    Fsunami
  • KahalaGal
    KahalaGal Posts: 112 Member
    Even when I start an early day, I must push myself to workout Before work, or it never happens. and, yes, that sometimes means getting up at 4am! Coffee pot set the night before, and walk.

    Benefits: It's not too hot; One pre-work shower, one hair-do-per-day; Give energy to myself first and foremost; No excuses;

    Suggestions: Make yourself go to bed 1/2 hour earlier. Start with 1/2 hour exercise. Just do it. Set workout clothes Out the night before with water bottle ready. If you have a friend or spouse or neighbor to 'meet' you at 5am - set it!

    I successfully trained for a half marathon by "having" to meet my running partner, early a.m. When the alarm went off…sometimes I got up Because I Was Meeting Her!!

    Good luck!
  • Doit61
    Doit61 Posts: 5 Member
    Get a work out buddy and make a pact. The first one not to turn up at ....am or ...pm has to pay $50 to the other. No excuses. Works for me, makes me get out of bed, I can't afford to give away $50
  • leighannMT
    leighannMT Posts: 2 Member
    I actually did a 6 am bootcamp once upon a time, and was surprised how well I did at getting up and working out. It was a great surprise.
    Another thing you might try is a bona fide Dance Break in the middle of your shift. Put down the work and crank up the music and dance crazy for 15 minutes. It will get your heart rate up, and you can incorporate squats, lunges, etc as you go...
  • jacquiearchambault
    jacquiearchambault Posts: 86 Member
    LOVE all the suggestions here! Check out YOUTUBE also. I recently discovered Leslie Sansone Walk at home videos and they are great for when I cannot get to the gym. Start small and log ALL of it! even house work is exercise. Good luck! :0)