Hi... I'm Brandi?

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  • Fsunami
    Fsunami Posts: 241 Member
    Brandi:

    I read everything you wrote.

    I like your no bull**** view of the world

    FR on the way

    Fsunami
  • Chubunnie
    Chubunnie Posts: 2
    Hi Brandi, Keep up the good work and well get rid of your boyfriend. This makes me furious, your right, he does not deserve you. There is nothing right about what he said. If you weighed much less and gained significant weight that was a issue for your health, then okay, I can understand suggesting - that's right SUGGESTING, that you lose weight. Who gives an ultimatum like that? Shame on him. Obviously, there must be some other issue. It's not the weight. You my girl, are beautiful and the sooner you start acknowledging that the sooner you will become the person you are meant to be. I read once that when a person gains weight it's to protect themselves and their feelings. When you are confident and happy, the weight will drop off, you won't need this cushion of protection. Find out what makes you happy and go for it. You can do it!
  • Carlywiese
    Carlywiese Posts: 51 Member
    I hope at the end of that week-long fight you kicked his *kitten* to the curb. You did, right? Because what you said was true. If he doesn't want you the way you are now, he doesn't deserve to see you the way he wants to see you.

    Do you see how I worded that? I didn't say he didn't deserve to see you skinny, or thin, or after you've lost weight. I said the way HE wants you to be.

    What do YOU want? Do you want to lose weight for yourself? To get healthy? To look and feel better?
    Because that, my dear, is truly all that matters. What YOU want to do, not what anyone else wants you to do, in order to fit into their ideals.

    You do this for you, ok?

    And just to let you in on a little secret, you can still fit in those chicken strips if you really want them. It's all about balance and moderation.

    This one. 100%

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