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  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    amen!
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    Not sure what they said to you, and you're right people should be more tactful. But just so the rest of us men don't get accused of being pervs, what would be the right way to approach a woman.

    No woman brings it on themselves, if the remarks are obscene, derogatory, or down right sexist. But if a guy simply ask if you are married and tries to initiate a conversation/relationship, you could politely tell them you are not interested and leave it at that.


    If they are being rude or pervs I think there is a block function on here, if not you can report then to the administrator. I’m sure you are a nice girl but making a blanket statement like you did doesn’t shine the best light on you. We all get frustrated and say things we might wish we said differently, and maybe you could have come on here and ask how to deal with guys hitting on you, instead of making it appear you think you are above anyone on this site hitting on you.


    Like I said I don’t know what they said to you, and no you shouldn’t have to put up with BS here or anywhere. And don’t ignore them either, report them if they are truly being pervs, or tell them you’re not interested and move on.


    freerange makes a great point!
  • td_ssam
    td_ssam Posts: 32
    YealLift - 1

    Urbinachick24 - 0

    That was a dumb thing to post. Not all the guys on here care only about *kitten* / tits. Block the guys that are doing what bothers you. If you've gone through all the guys on the site, then you can post, but until then...
  • Teerai
    Teerai Posts: 243 Member
    YealLift - 1

    Urbinachick24 - 0

    That was a dumb thing to post. Not all the guys on here care only about *kitten* / tits. Block the guys that are doing what bothers you. If you've gone through all the guys on the site, then you can post, but until then...

    Not True-

    Women (and men) should not have to put up with inappropriate comments from every person or have to talk to every person in a community before complaining.

    That outdated logic is sooooo unbelievably chauvinistic! (and dare I say...ahem...dumb )

    It doesn't help that men don't usually 'call out' other badly behaving men by saying,
    "Hey, that is so uncool..."
    (It is noted, there were some brave souls on this thread both directly and indirectly- yay R-dog!)

    But women don't "call out" other women when they act like pigs either.

    There are some pics on MFP of both genders that are super tacky.
    Hopefully, those individuals will wise up.

    But, when someone has a really classy picture and is dissed with gutter trash, she has every right to and, in fact, is completely justified in calling foul! (using sports lingo to be completely understood...lol...no flames for the gender joke :))
  • Teerai
    Teerai Posts: 243 Member
    :heart:
  • td_ssam
    td_ssam Posts: 32
    LoL I just wanted to get in this mix, relax. I agree you don't have to wait to complain as I also agree with Urbanchick. Sucks that there are guys on here that do... Ahem... Dumb stuff, but posting on here wasn't going to solve anything. She's a pretty girl, just like a lot of the girls on here and it's quite unfortunate that her or anyone else on here would have to deal with such antics.

    With that said, a simple block / defriend ought to fix that? Of course I really don't mind if she or anyone else posted anything they want.

    I'm just 'playing on both teams' is all. I like a little debate. =)

    But seriously guys, lay off the cat calls if a chick shows no interest and chicks, sorry, but there are guys that are a little less understanding.
  • NikkiDerrig386
    NikkiDerrig386 Posts: 1,096 Member
    YealLift - 1

    Urbinachick24 - 0

    That was a dumb thing to post. Not all the guys on here care only about *kitten* / tits. Block the guys that are doing what bothers you. If you've gone through all the guys on the site, then you can post, but until then...

    Not True-


    Women (and men) should not have to put up with inappropriate comments from every person or have to talk to every person in a community before complaining.

    That outdated logic is sooooo unbelievably chauvinistic! (and dare I say...ahem...dumb )

    It doesn't help that men don't usually 'call out' other badly behaving men by saying,
    "Hey, that is so uncool..."
    (It is noted, there were some brave souls on this thread both directly and indirectly- yay R-dog!)

    But women don't "call out" other women when they act like pigs either.

    There are some pics on MFP of both genders that are super tacky.
    Hopefully, those individuals will wise up.

    But, when someone has a really classy picture and is dissed with gutter trash, she has every right to and, in fact, is completely justified in calling foul! (using sports lingo to be completely understood...lol...no flames for the gender joke :))

    Lol I like you. Def friending you :flowerforyou:
  • SmartFunGorgeous
    SmartFunGorgeous Posts: 699 Member
    Well, now I'm just jealous! No one has hit on me! ;-)
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