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    Who needs enemies with FAMILY like this......

    Posts: 250 Member
    edited September 2024 in Motivation and Support
    well ok she's not family by blood - she's my Sister In Law !!! Its terrible to say but I'm so looking forward to her not talking to me at a family christening in 12 days - why won't she talk to me because I've lost weight
    I realised today that I'm going to bust my butt for the next 12 days just to lose even more weight & p*** her right off!!! B*/chy I know but I don't really care.
    She spent years not giving me the time of day as I had lost weight & when I got pregnant & didn't lose it again I found that she wanted to be all chatty to me at family events - I was at my heaviest last June & I was her BFF at afamily wedding.
    She's an overweight, judgemental person and has comments for everything & anyone - well you can comment on my skinnier *kitten* & happy attitude for all I care I'm on the way back to the old thinner me!!!!

    Ok Rant over - its easier rant here than get divorced !!!! hee hee hee

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    • Posts: 93 Member
      LOL This made my morning. I hope you rock your challenge and get the look on her face that you're shooting for.
    • Posts: 116
      you go girl
    • Posts: 304 Member
      Lol! If I could take a few pounds for you I would!
    • Posts: 250 Member
      Lol! If I could take a few pounds for you I would!

      OMG I'd gladly give them to you but the hard part would be taking them back:laugh:
    • Posts: 415 Member
      :) breath, and let it go, you are a Goddess and having negative people around you does not help, let them go! head held high and know that you ae doing you and let her do her! :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 382 Member
      People come into our lives for very different reasons... Some of them are good and you can tell that right off the hop, some of them are bad but they are all there to teach us a lesson of some sort. Look at the motivation this SIL is giving you to get your butt moving and work even harder. I say do your best and if she seems really annoyed just say "thanks! Thanks for being the person you are cause you were the source of the last __ lbs I dropped" Then watch the jaw drop:)
    • Posts: 52 Member
      Wow! Yup sounds like some people I know... sad isn't it? She should be happy and supportive of you. But that's ok, cuz we are! Now go kick butt! The situation may not be an ideal motivator but if it's working for you go with it!!! =D
    • Posts: 566 Member
      Hahaha... that's AWESOME! More fuel for the fire! Burn baby, burn!!! There's nothing like pissing someone off just for being successful. Remember, everyone hates a team that wins! Or something like that. lol... just keep doin what youre doin!
    • Posts: 3,657 Member
      Oh, Wow! Could we possibly be related. My brother's wife is exactly the same way. Enjoy strutting your stuff!:wink:
    • Posts: 702 Member
      Rant away!! And then tell her to kiss your skinny *kitten*! :laugh:
    • Posts: 501 Member
      You need people around you that celebrate your successes not be jealous of them. Ok they can be a little jealous, but not to the point where it becomes almost hate. This bugs me to no end.
    • Posts: 708 Member
      Buy a dog, that way you can pick a new relative with ones like this =)
    • Posts: 592 Member
      Maybe you should join a kick boxing class and as you kick and punch think of her hahahaha :D
    • Posts: 123 Member
      You know what "they" say misery LOVES company. :explode: But I said nothing is a greater motivater than anger. :mad: In the end you will prevail. Just don't forget to let the anger go with the weight. :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 304
      Maybe you should join a kick boxing class and as you kick and punch think of her hahahaha :D

      Lmao i second that :P

      Just use it to work out harder . Remember her face when you don't feel like exercising and see her face in those munchies you wanna binge on :D Besta luck hun
    • Posts: 119
      HAHA... this made my day and reminded me of my cousin.. she makes rude remarks like, you work full time AND work out.. wow, must be he** doing that... you should just quit...
      ..work EXTRA HARD shove it in her face that you're happier, thinner, sexier.. :)
    • Posts: 510 Member
      You go girl .... I is amazing how people react when you are successful but don't let her jealousy affect you. I am also dealing with family drama with my BFs mom and I decided this morning that I am no longer going to allow her crap to affect me. Be YOU and don't worry about her. She is unhappy enough for both of you.
    • Posts: 358 Member
      Your post lit a fire under my butt. No SIL, but an actual sister who thinks the world revolves around her and has teased me my whole life for being fat. I get angry at people who think their s&*@ doesn't stink and I think I will work out harder in honor of you and for all the people out there with negative people in their lives as well. Thank you, and keep up the good work. Flaunt it!
    • Posts: 21
      She does seem very judemental, but maybe it's a cry for help. Invite her to the site so she can lose too, and maybe she can see things in a different light, and be happy for you instead for jelous of you.
    • Posts: 702 Member
      She does seem very judemental, but maybe it's a cry for help. Invite her to the site so she can lose too, and maybe she can see things in a different light, and be happy for you instead for jelous of you.

      Yeah, invite her, then we'll all pick on her. Oh, just kidding. :devil:
    • Posts: 21
      Haha, or that!
    • Posts: 434
      It could be worse. My sis in law tried to sell me on some multi-level marketing weight loss products.
    • Posts: 4,555 Member
      It could be worse. My sis in law tried to sell me on some multi-level marketing weight loss products.


      my aunt does that to me! It makes me crazy!
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