partner's weight?

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  • MsFitnFabulous
    MsFitnFabulous Posts: 432 Member
    I love a man who is solid. Not fat not skinny either. I need some meat to hold onto too lol.
  • Guinepig
    Guinepig Posts: 51 Member
    I have always gravitated to big guys. I'm a wopping 5'1" and I just love it when a man eclipses me. Healthy big though, no one wants their loved one to die an early death. On the same token I don't really care for hulking muscles...some are nice.
  • helloiloveukitty
    helloiloveukitty Posts: 448 Member
    I'm odd here I'm sure but to me, as long as they are not morbidly obese and not working on it or extremely underweight and not working it...it doesn't matter to me. I've been attracted to and dated guys of all different body types and sizes.

    As far as women go, the type I tend to find attractive would I suppose fall under healthy medium, little curvy but also at least somewhat fit if that makes any sense.

    All so subjective, especially since one persons definition or medium or fit or big or whatever is different than anothers.
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    I find a whole range of sizes attractive. My husband and I are the same height and I find that perfect. I see men of all kinds and differences and they look great too.
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    I'm really fussy when it comes to male bodies, which is massively hypocritical, since i'm hardly perfect :-/

    i like gym toned, well built, all man ;-) and if they've got the hip ridge, then it's prefection.

    my last boyfriend was 6"4 and about 225, he was close to perfect, for me.
  • CaityB14
    CaityB14 Posts: 74 Member
    My fiance is about 5'11" and right now he weighs about 245. Over the summer he was like 210 and he was looking so hot! He finished his last semester of College in December and said it was the most stressful so he's working on losing weight again. He's got really big biceps. I love him muscular
  • punkinbeanie
    punkinbeanie Posts: 50
    I prefer medium but married a smaller man, but he is hot so whatever!! lol:love::love:
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    I prefer medium but married a smaller man, but he is hot so whatever!! lol:love::love:

    I read that as: "I prefer a medium, but married..." Then I lol'd. I still am.
  • VictorianJade
    VictorianJade Posts: 705 Member
    I like tall, medium-built guys, and short, chubby women.
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
    This is hard because I have never really looked for one "type" when I was dating. If I like a person, I find them attractive. *shrug* I suppose if I was just looking at pictures of random people I did not know, I would gravitate towards guys who are tall and slender and women who were tiny and cute. But when looking for a serious partner, none of these things have ever been a priority. I ended up with someone who is medium height with a bigger frame and I like him just the way he is xD Honestly, my tastes change from person to person too, I find different physical characteristics attractive on different people. I don't have one friend that I don't find attractive in one way or another.
  • bdavenport62
    bdavenport62 Posts: 101
    Medium. My DH is 5"10ish and 190. He actually lost 10 pounds just by taking his lunch to work, and trust me they aren't that healthy of lunches. I wish I had his genes! He can also build muscle pretty quickly too.
  • LadyPersia
    LadyPersia Posts: 1,445 Member
    My husband is 212 and 5'8 wants to get down to 200. I like that he runs and is active at any weight even after 64 broken bones. He has already lost 20 pounds.
  • DeBlue
    DeBlue Posts: 254 Member
    Love a man who is solid and strong, and taller than me. My ex weighed less than I did and was about the same height - never did feel right. My guy today is tall and muscular and sexy as all get out at around 200!
  • noltes2
    noltes2 Posts: 202 Member
    Big guys! Not "fat", but broad shoulders and tall. If I liked women too I would say lean and toned, but not too bony lol.
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
    I think guys have a warped sense of what a girl might weigh
    guess I would be deemed unattractive by the 150-190 standard...LOL..oh well
    It always amazes me guys here say they don't like skinny and they like curvy..i think it all depends on how/where u carry your weight...any weight can be attractive

    I prefer a medium guy, def wouldn't want anyone thinner or smaller than I am

    Yeah, 150-190 seems really high. I'm 5'8 and carry my weight pretty evenly and when I was 150-170 I was seriously chubby. You may be right that guys have a "warped sense of what a girl might weigh"....or maybe they really like bigger girls? *shrug*
  • Crowhorse
    Crowhorse Posts: 394 Member
    I think guys have a warped sense of what a girl might weigh
    guess I would be deemed unattractive by the 150-190 standard...LOL..oh well
    It always amazes me guys here say they don't like skinny and they like curvy..i think it all depends on how/where u carry your weight...any weight can be attractive

    I prefer a medium guy, def wouldn't want anyone thinner or smaller than I am

    Yeah, 150-190 seems really high. I'm 5'8 and carry my weight pretty evenly and when I was 150-170 I was seriously chubby. You may be right that guys have a "warped sense of what a girl might weigh"....or maybe they really like bigger girls? *shrug*

    I am 5' 4" and at 155 I was NOT chubby (use to think I was, but looking at the pictures now, I was pretty fit). I was solid.
  • bahrainbel
    bahrainbel Posts: 194
    I was going to say the same, I would be humongous at anything over about 155llbs, I think. All my weight goes to my hips and chest, I start to look like a cartoon character :-/
  • loupammac
    loupammac Posts: 194 Member
    My bf is 5'10" and weighs like 140. Hes as skinny as skinny can be practically and I adoooorrrre him that way. Scrawny guys are the best. Especially with a tiny bit of muscle in the forearms and legs...and with the hip bones touchable.

    Mine's the same. He's muscly and little :) I'm the tall one. I like being able to cuddle him like a teddybear. He likes how soft and squishy I am so he's happy being cuddled up against that.
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
    I think guys have a warped sense of what a girl might weigh
    guess I would be deemed unattractive by the 150-190 standard...LOL..oh well
    It always amazes me guys here say they don't like skinny and they like curvy..i think it all depends on how/where u carry your weight...any weight can be attractive

    I prefer a medium guy, def wouldn't want anyone thinner or smaller than I am

    Yeah, 150-190 seems really high. I'm 5'8 and carry my weight pretty evenly and when I was 150-170 I was seriously chubby. You may be right that guys have a "warped sense of what a girl might weigh"....or maybe they really like bigger girls? *shrug*

    I am 5' 4" and at 155 I was NOT chubby (use to think I was, but looking at the pictures now, I was pretty fit). I was solid.

    Yeah, I suppose we are all different. You were fit, I was not....so that's probably the difference right there.
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