Frustrated and want to give up

Cdaughen
Cdaughen Posts: 5
edited September 24 in Health and Weight Loss
I've been doing my darndest since i started using MFP. The first month, I lost 10lbs. So far this month...I don't think i've seen anything. I'm keeping my calories to about 1500 a day and exercising burning 1200-1500 off every day except on Mondays. I give myself a day off because I start planning out my school week. I eat late (after 10pm) for dinner because I have class in the evenings from 6-9pm. I don't understand what i'm doing wrong....I think I'm gaining muscle with as much walking as i'm doing, but shouldn't i still be losing weight? How long until i start to see a better decrease in weight?

Any suggestions? :frown:

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  • Woah! You're burning 1200-1500 calories in exercise 6 days a week? Are you eating those exercise calories?
  • meggonkgonk
    meggonkgonk Posts: 2,066 Member
    You need to eat more. If you are only eating 1500 calories and then burning them all off, what's your body running on? Nothing- its locking down and keeping weight on to feed itself.

    My suggestion- there is an equation on your Home page, it should be like:
    Goal Food - Exercise = Net Make sure that net number is at least 1200, but ultimately you should be trying to get that net# to match your goal #.

    Sometimes, less is not more. More is more. Good luck!
  • DanOhh
    DanOhh Posts: 1,806 Member
    Have you tried just doing measurements instead of the scale?
  • LadySBPA
    LadySBPA Posts: 5 Member
    I would highly recommend doing measurements as well as weigh ins. I have had the same problem. I have lost 1 pound so far, but I have dropped a size in jeans. So I know I am losing fat. It helped to keep me motivated when I started using measurements. I also had to start looking at what I was eating, besides just calories. Keep it up though. You are keeping those 10 pounds off, which is a challenge in itself!
  • iAlly
    iAlly Posts: 66
    Sounds like you are not eating enough.

    If you only eat 1500 calories and burn off 1500 you have not given yourself any calories for day to day metabolism.

    You'll make yourself sick in the long run.
  • bmmadden
    bmmadden Posts: 499 Member
    It sounds like your maybe your not eating enough to make up for the exercise and depending on what your eating maybe, but I also go to school about same hours and I eat a early dinner before class and maybe bring a couple nutritious snacks with me to class that way you don't eat a big meal before bed
  • I've been doing my darndest since i started using MFP. The first month, I lost 10lbs. So far this month...I don't think i've seen anything. I'm keeping my calories to about 1500 a day and exercising burning 1200-1500 off every day except on Mondays. I give myself a day off because I start planning out my school week. I eat late (after 10pm) for dinner because I have class in the evenings from 6-9pm. I don't understand what i'm doing wrong....I think I'm gaining muscle with as much walking as i'm doing, but shouldn't i still be losing weight? How long until i start to see a better decrease in weight?

    Any suggestions? :frown:

    You are seriously in starvation mode if you're only taking in 1500 calories, but burning 1200-1500 calories every day except on Mondays. You're killing your metabolism, your health, and any chances of losing any more weight. You need to eat your exercise calories or burn only like 500 calories during exercise. You are over doing it.
  • How much are you working out to burn that many calories? That's kind of a lot... What kind of workout are you doing?
  • jennyfoxx
    jennyfoxx Posts: 22 Member
    Don't give up!! You can do this!! Is there a nutritionist at the the gym where you are working out - if so see if you can talk to them. If you are burning all the calories that you quoted in your post- that is A LOT!! You might possible need to up your calorie intake since you are working out hard. Make sure your body is not going into the starvation mode. GOOD LUCK and don't give up!
  • kristie874
    kristie874 Posts: 774 Member
    Read the links in my signature to explain about eating exercise calories.

    When I first started I did the same thing...I lost weight then hit a plateau that I couldn't get past. I decided to go ahead and listen to people on here about eating my exercise calories and added in the 300-400 that I was working off into my food. Immediately I started dropping 3-4 lbs per week! It may take a week or two for your body to adjust once you start eating them but it's important to fuel your workouts as well as your day to day activity. Good luck!
  • bmmadden
    bmmadden Posts: 499 Member
    Thanks Meg/Gonks I didn't know either that net should match goal number learning new things everyday!! That what I love about this site
  • crystal_sapphire
    crystal_sapphire Posts: 1,205 Member
    do you have a HRM that indicates you're burning that much?

    agree with most above comments to accommodate more calorie dense foods.
  • I am with you! I began losing 10 lbs. the first month and now things are slowing down...just a loss of 0.5 lbs this week ( with no cheating).....however, when I did my measurements I lost another 1/2 inch off my hips and 1 inch off my waist. Also got into a pair of size 8 pants today that I never thought would fit ( from a tight 12). I am not thrilled about the lack of weight loss, but I am loving the smaller waist. Have you checked your measurements at all?
  • You need to eat, love. You can't burn EVERYTHING you eat. You're body is keeping the weight on because it's starving. I suggest you work out much less - how about you burn 800 everyday instead?
  • aprylkemper
    aprylkemper Posts: 123 Member
    Don't give up! Remember that we've all been there at some point and go out and find some resources. Whenever your weight loss stalls, it's time to get into troubleshooting mode and figure out what's behind it. It is within your control and it is doable but you have to fight the instinct to throw in the towel. I say that because I did that for years, losing a little and then giving up when it stalled and then gaining it back. Here are a few of my tips:
    1)Find a good podcast that you can listen to for motivation (fat2fit radio or Ask Leigh are both really, really good and you can find them in iTunes or on the web). Fat2fitradio.com has a great BMR calculator and and their advice and information is the most logical and realistic you will find.
    2)Check out changing up your workouts because you body adapts quickly. Start running short bouts in your walk and work your way up to a run. I started out dying at the thought of running but now I love it.
    3) Also, take measurements and set goals for yourself that you can control (I will exercise X days this week or I will eat all my calories)
    4) Undereating will not help you, especially if you want to gain muscle (which you do because it will make your metabolism more efficient and you will be more effective with your cardio workouts
    5) Finally (especially as a woman) set your MFP log to track your sodium intake. Sodium in itself isn't bad but if I have too much sodium, it doesn't matter if I hit or am under my calories, my weight will stay the same or go up because of water retention.
    Best of luck - rooting for you in your continued success!!!
  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
    I've been doing my darndest since i started using MFP. The first month, I lost 10lbs. So far this month...I don't think i've seen anything. I'm keeping my calories to about 1500 a day and exercising burning 1200-1500 off every day except on Mondays. I give myself a day off because I start planning out my school week. I eat late (after 10pm) for dinner because I have class in the evenings from 6-9pm. I don't understand what i'm doing wrong....I think I'm gaining muscle with as much walking as i'm doing, but shouldn't i still be losing weight? How long until i start to see a better decrease in weight?

    Any suggestions? :frown:

    You are seriously in starvation mode if you're only taking in 1500 calories, but burning 1200-1500 calories every day except on Mondays. You're killing your metabolism, your health, and any chances of losing any more weight. You need to eat your exercise calories or burn only like 500 calories during exercise. You are over doing it.

    I agree with this. 500 cals is a great. Plus, I hate to say it, but while you may have strengthened some muscle with the walking there is no way you could add that much with just walking OR with that kind of calorie deficit. I went about 4-5 months last year without losing because I wasn't eating enough and I didn't have NEARLY the deficit you have. As soon as I closed the gap and started to EAT MY EXERCISE CALORIES the weight started to come off.
  • PJilly
    PJilly Posts: 22,252 Member
    I've been doing my darndest since i started using MFP. The first month, I lost 10lbs. So far this month...I don't think i've seen anything. I'm keeping my calories to about 1500 a day and exercising burning 1200-1500 off every day except on Mondays. I give myself a day off because I start planning out my school week. I eat late (after 10pm) for dinner because I have class in the evenings from 6-9pm. I don't understand what i'm doing wrong....I think I'm gaining muscle with as much walking as i'm doing, but shouldn't i still be losing weight? How long until i start to see a better decrease in weight?

    Any suggestions? :frown:

    You might glean something from this post (there's really good stuff in there, in my opinion):
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/172515-frantic-about-adhering-to-the-right-calorie-intake-read-t
  • YOU HAVE TO BURN MORE CALORIES THAN YOU ARE EATING IN A WEEK IN ORDER TO LOSE! BUT THERE IS SUCH A THING AS BURNING TO MANY CALORIES...IF YOUR BODY BELIEVES YOU ARE STARVING IT, IT WILL THINK YOU ARE STARVING IT, AND THAT CAN CREATE A BLOCK IN LOSING WEIGHT, BECAUSE MY MOM HAS HAD THAT PROBLEM IN THE PAST. MAYBE EAT A LITTLE MORE JUST TO SEE IF THAT GETS THE SCALE A MOVING, AND IF NOT, MAYBE YOU ARE EXERCISING TO MUCH...SOMETIMES OUR BODIES CAN GET OVER WORKED, SO IF YOU GIVE IT A BREAK MAYBE THAT WOULD HELP,
  • YOU HAVE TO BURN MORE CALORIES THAN YOU ARE EATING IN A WEEK IN ORDER TO LOSE! BUT THERE IS SUCH A THING AS BURNING TO MANY CALORIES...IF YOUR BODY BELIEVES YOU ARE STARVING IT, IT WILL THINK YOU ARE STARVING IT, AND THAT CAN CREATE A BLOCK IN LOSING WEIGHT, BECAUSE MY MOM HAS HAD THAT PROBLEM IN THE PAST. MAYBE EAT A LITTLE MORE JUST TO SEE IF THAT GETS THE SCALE A MOVING, AND IF NOT, MAYBE YOU ARE EXERCISING TO MUCH...SOMETIMES OUR BODIES CAN GET OVER WORKED, SO IF YOU GIVE IT A BREAK MAYBE THAT WOULD HELP,

    The thing is you burn calories (varied by age, gender, weight, etc) just by virtue of breathing, and your heart beating, getting out of bed, sitting down, and typing at the computer. Existing burns calories. For a 31 year old woman who's 5'8" and 225 (just as an example), simply existing would burn around 1800 calories. (See a BMR calculator.. there's one under tools on this site.) So if it takes 1800 calories for your body simply to exist - breath, pump blood, process food, etc - and you burn AN ADDITIONAL 1500 calories from exercise, you would need to eat 3300 to maintain your weight of 225. 3500 calories is a pound of fat, right? So you think "okay if I eat 1300 calories and burn 1500 calories, I'll have a 2000 calorie deficit (1800 BMR + 200 extra calories burned over what was eaten) each day and lose 4 pounds every week. Only problem is... our bodies aren't that exact in how they burn calories. We're designed to survive famine and scarce food so our bodies conserve energy and use less calories to carry our normal processes when we starve them. i.e. instead of the 1800 calories it would normally take to carry out breathing and pumping blood, our bodies slash that to 700 to keep from using up energy too quickly. And that workout that would burn 1500 calories for a healthy person, for you in starvation mode only burns 600... and there goes your deficit. Your body will fight with all it's got to keep you from starving to death and will reduce energy expediture as much as possible making it harder and harder to lose weight. You want a moderate calorie deficit that causes you to lose weight slowly and reassures your body more food is coming, no need to hold onto to those fat reserves.
  • meggonkgonk
    meggonkgonk Posts: 2,066 Member
    Thanks Meg/Gonks I didn't know either that net should match goal number learning new things everyday!! That what I love about this site

    Sure thing! Glad I could help!
  • some of us lose weight different. I tend to hang on to a weight (I drink lots of water) for like a month then the scale just drops 5 to 10 pounds that stay gone, and I start the same cycle again. If you stay consistant it will keep coming off. I lost 80 pounds before joining and MFP really helps me keep my eating in line (if I don't track I eat way too much) and makes me exercise more because I like to see high numbers. If your not weight training add it, it burns less while you do it, but keeps burning as the muscle repairs and that helps tons for body shape and toning. The mirror and clothes tell so much more than the scale. The scale says 1 pound last week, but I can get in my size 8 jeans no problem now and before I could barely button them.
  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    Like others, I'm interested in how you manage to burn so may exercise calories each day?
  • I weigh 269 and I'm 5'7" tall. I use the correct calculations. I'm extremely active. I'm sure I burn more than that. I LOVE to move for real. At the gym i use the cybex arc trainer a lot and add resistance and incline to it. Then on the treadmill i go 2.5mph to 3.3 mph on an incline. I try and eat, but i feel like I'm stuffing myself to the gills if i eat the recommended 1845 or whatever it tells me. I told myself today to try and just eat the calories and see what happens.

    The funny part is, I don't look like the "typical 270 lb person". I built up a lot of muscle working as a CNA years ago. I can see my body reshaping itself and i did see some inches lost in the first 6 weeks, but the scale....

    It probably is the calorie deficit. I'm not tired, i have tons of energy. I mean, i just don't know...I'll try the calories recommended and not my own set level of 1500. I can't see myself just going to the gym and burning 500-800 calories. I'd feel like i cheated myself. I'll increase the food and see what happens.

    And here i thought i knew what i was doing. LOL! so much for listening to myself!!!

    Thanks for the feedback, y'all!!! :flowerforyou:
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