Worst doctors visit EVER! In tears

Went to the doctor for my knee today. I think the 45 minute wait in the waiting room, then the 20 minute wait in the exam room, was the best part. The nurse took my weight then brought me into the exam room and asked "what brought you in today?" i told her that my knees had been giving me trouble since my second pregnancy but after I started eating healthy, doing portion control, and only drinking water, they felt better. But recently after starting the shred they hurt worse then ever before. Clearly my body is telling me it doesnt like what im doing. so I stopped. But I told her that I am also knock kneed and was told several years ago that I would eventually need both knees broken to correct the problem. So I'm unsure if the workout is what is causing the pain, or if that just didnt help.
She asked if I had lost any weight since eating better and working out. I was excited to say "yes! Nearly 10 pounds! I know i still have a long way to go, but its a start!" she took my blood pressure and all that- it was GREAT! so then we waited for the doctor.

he came in....and I swear from the start all I could think of was "where did they find this cracker jack at?!"
He barely even looked at my knees. he was more worried about drilling me about the scars on my legs- I told him a million times fleas and chiggers seem to LOVE me, and it NEVER FAILS i get eaten up by them! "well its not chigger season! thats not what thats from" THEY ARE SCARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SCARS do not just go away! Especially when they dont have time to even lighten up, before I get bit again (we live in the country- we have no pets and no flea problem- yet they still find me when we go outside)
then he tried getting me to do a squat basically. I CANT! unless you want to be picking me up off the floor, im not even going to attempt it! it hurts to just sit in a chair and have my knees bent. theres no way i can put weight on them in a squatting position!

then he went on to tell me "well i dont know what your wanting from me. your over weight- thats all there is to it." that made me mad. but i calmly said "clearly i am over weight. and CLEARLY i am trying to fix that! i am eating healthy now, drinking water, and working out. now can we focus on what i came in here for?" his response? "you're trying to lose weight too fast!" i had to cut him off right there! I asked his HOW he thought I was "losing too fast" when all I am doing is living a healthier life style! I am NOT starving myself. I am NOT taking diet pills. I am NOT making myself throw up. I am NOT losing weight too fast!
he went on to say "well you didnt gain the weight by breathing, did you? you are over weight (he emphasized the OVER WEIGHT...he might as well have just called me a fat *kitten*) because you EAT TOO MUCH." at this point i just sat there thinking that if I didnt say anthing eventually he'd shut up, and send me on my way. WRONG. he went on to say "you only need to eat ONE MEAL A DAY and lose NO MORE then 2 pounds a month. and stop trying to work out. walking is all you need. one meal a day, and walk. i dont want to see the pounds come off in a matter a months. with your weight (i need to lose 100 pounds) it should take 3+ YEARS"

lets think about that. right now i am eating 3 meals a day, and 2 snacks. i am working out (trying to) and drinking water like crazy. I am losing between 2-3lbs a week. what will happen if stop working out, and only eat one meal a day? besides shrivel up and die of starvation?

so i again reminded him that I am not there to be called a fat *kitten*. i am here for my knees. "well what do you want me to do? send you to a surgeon? therapy? what will make you happy?" I just looked at him. I didnt know what to say. I am 20 years old. I dont want surgery. I went to him- a DOCTOR so he can tell me what I need to do. is it my knock knees that is the problem? (if so- yes i need surgery) is it just the weight that is the problem? or did i just do something wrong when trying to work out to lose that weight?! WHAT IS WRONG WITH IT?! again all he said was "when you are that over weight you are going to have problems with your joints. I bet you have problems with your elbows, wrists, ankles, etc too, right?" as a matter of fact NO I DO NOT! EVER SINGLE physical Ive gotten (other doctors. this was my first time seeing this nut case) the doctor tells me i am as healthy as can be! i, so far, have no health problems that my father, or mother face! (depression, bi polar, diabetes, blood clots, blood pressure issues...the list goes on and on!) i am perfectly healthy, despite my weight!

about this time he made a comment along the lines of "if you eat nearly as much as you feed your kids there, i can see why you have a weight problem". my kids were sitting in the chairs eating wheat thins. they hadnt had lunch, and they were hungry. thats it. i was pissed. my kids are 100000000% HEALTHY. not over weight AT ALL! they are both very active and neither of them sit around and just eat.
I said "excuse me. you dont worry about what and when my kids eat. you do not know how often they are fed and you are out of line. the issue we are here to discuss is the problems i am having with my knees and that is ALL you need to focus on. not the scars on my legs. not what i feed my kids, not how much of a fat *kitten* i may be.!"

he responded with "i cant help you if you arent willing to take my advice." i said "remind me again, what is your advice for my KNEES?" he said "eat ONE MEAL a day and lose the weight" so i reminded him "i am breastfeeding my son. i need 1800-2500 calories A DAY and i will not get that in ONE MEAL. now if you listened to me earlier i am trying to lose the weight but like you said yourself, it will not come off over night." he interupted me and said "well i only eat one meal a day, and you see that im not over weight" i got up, grabbed my kids, and as i walked out the door i told him how his one meal a day thing was complete bull **** as it showed in his FAT BELLY (that he was trying to hide) and told him he was a complete nut job and he needed his medical licence revoked. as im telling him this hes still talking about my weight as if im still sitting there actually listening. i yelled (yes i yelled at this damn doctor in a doctors office) " you are not listening to me you old hag!! i am done." and i slammed the door. as i walked past the receptionist desk, theyre hollering at me to come back (youre supposed to check out) and i just walked out of the office.



i swear if my kids were not there i would have been so tempted to punch him in the face.


by the way. the only exam he did on my knee (other then try to force me to do a squat) was poke it 3 times "does this hurt? what about this? and now?"