I don't like exercise
hannahncakes
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and I feel really guilty about it!
I've been on here for nearly 2 months now trying to change my life. When I first started I exercised every day but slowly it's pettered off to about 2 times a week when i can force myself. I read a lot of people on here saying "wow one of the things that's changed is I now love to exercise" & I think- why can't that be me? I only do it when i can force myself to and afterwards I don't feel like I've had loads of happy hormones released or particularly good with myself.
I've tried work out DVDs, walking, wii fit/wii games, dance games. I don't have time/money to go to the gym or any classes such as zumba etc.
Anyone else feel this way? I want to lose weight & I want to WANT to exercise but it's just not happening for me :sad:
I've been on here for nearly 2 months now trying to change my life. When I first started I exercised every day but slowly it's pettered off to about 2 times a week when i can force myself. I read a lot of people on here saying "wow one of the things that's changed is I now love to exercise" & I think- why can't that be me? I only do it when i can force myself to and afterwards I don't feel like I've had loads of happy hormones released or particularly good with myself.
I've tried work out DVDs, walking, wii fit/wii games, dance games. I don't have time/money to go to the gym or any classes such as zumba etc.
Anyone else feel this way? I want to lose weight & I want to WANT to exercise but it's just not happening for me :sad:
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i wish you lived nearby - I'd love to go for an easy walk with you (which is exercise by the way!!) and show you some different things that you can do and see what you like!
Find something that you enjoy. FORGET that it's exercise. If you like dancing - go and dance. If you like swimming go and swim.
You probably dont like "exercise" because you dont want the chore of having to do it, but you can get so much activity just doing things you like!
What kind of activities do you like hannahcakes?0 -
Me too. I keep hearing about how exercise is supposed to be addictive, and I've been sticking with it 6 times a week since new year, but still waiting for the addiction to kick in :frown:
It would be so NICE if it didn't feel like such a chore every day!0 -
You just need to find something you like. Once you find that one thing you enjoy it will be OK, just try out a few different things0
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As much as I'd like to say you'll figure it out, you might just be one of those people who hates to work out forever.
I thought I was, too. Turns out, I just had to find my sweet-spot. I ride my bike for an hour at about 9mph and burn around 400 cals. That will change with time, but, to be totally honest, I'd rather be doing just about anything else - or not doing anything at all, really. But It's one hour of my day that allows me an extra 400 calories in food. 1200 is NOT a lot to work with so the advantages outweigh the inconveniences and my desire to just stay home instead.
Trudge through!0 -
Write your self a programme, Its the only thing that got me started.
Plan the days you're going to exercise and what you're going to do that day. That way you cant back out, and put it on a sheet that you can cross off. Do it for a month in advance.0 -
I'm not the type of person who goes to the gym and works out for an hour or so. I would rather do something less..intense...so I started walking my dogs more often. Just 30 mins of walking burns 250+ calories. I do it when I get home from work. I usually walk to the mailbox down the street, and then aim to walk for 30 mins. Maybe consider just walking at first.0
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Did you like the dancing games?
The reason I ask, is because after going to my first Zumba class - I am now hooked..! But I can't really go to the classes regularly, as I don't always have a babysitter - so I bought the Wii Zumba Fitness game (I believe it's also available on PS3 & xbox).
The game is great - it will have you sweating within the 1st 5 minutes - and a class is only about 20 - 25 minutes long including warm up & cool down.
Like others have said, you just need to find something YOU enjoy.... and then you will be motivated to do it....0 -
I don't to be honest. I'm so uncoordinated I find it really frustrating when I can't keep up with what they are doing & I can't just think of it being fun & what not I want to be able to do it all correctly or I get really mad :laugh:0
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Can you ride a bicycle? I mean both are you able to, and, are there places that you can do it and enjoy it? Could you commute to work by bike?
Walking is good too, so long as it is nice and brisk.0 -
I an't say that I enjoy exercise all that much, but I do enjoy feeling like I am doing something for my health. What has been helping me to keep it up is that my slightly chubby 12 year old son has started doing the DVD with me. I want him to be healthy, so I do it and act all happy to encourage him. Maybe there is someone you can workout with that you can motivate, which will motivate you in turn. And you can always complain together, which is a bonus!0
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I read a lot of people on here saying "wow one of the things that's changed is I now love to exercise" & I think- why can't that be me? I only do it when i can force myself to and afterwards I don't feel like I've had loads of happy hormones released or particularly good with myself.
I hear you! I'm not that much into exercise either, but I'm trying.... I'm hoping that eventually the endorphins will catch up with me....0 -
I was getting really bored with my workouts until I started doing kickboxing. It's something that I love and always wanted to really do. The videos are a start and they burn more calories than anything else I was doing previously.
Also - you may want to try Pilates or yoga. I thought I wouldn't really care for them at first, but I love them.
There are a bunch of good workouts on Netflix Instant Watch and, if you have Netflix subscription, it won't cost you anything extra.0 -
I used to hate it too.
But then I lost lots of weight trough proper nutrition and now I look at myself in the mirror and think "ok, it looks fine, but it could look way much better with some exercise!" - so my body kind of motivates me to try it out.0 -
I had to force myself in the beginning. I was tired and didn't wanna do it but I kept at it. Now I get all stiff and yucky feeling if I don't do it. It also really really helps me with stress relief. I love those endorphins!0
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I have to be honest...I hate it. I don't know why people say they love it because it is freaking hard and it makes me sweat and all sticky and yucky...BUT I do it because I focus on the end result. I always knew I wasn't going to be one of those people that enjoyed working out but I still do it 6 days a week because when I finally fit into that pair of jeans hiding in the back drawer where I haven't seen in the last 18 months, it makes it all worth it. When I'm working out, I keep thinking myself in the jeans and in all the clothes I want to wear and that pushes me. I agree, maybe a program will help because it will hold you accountable. That's what got me started is following a 30 days program because no matter how much I hated it, I just keep saying I have to finish 30 days because I want to accomplish something.0
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I really don't know what to suggest to help you with this but just to let you know, I kind of feel the same and I definitely don’t think your alone on this one.
I am not a fan of exercise, I can and sometimes enjoy a light cardio workout... walking, jogging and boxing etc using the Wii Fit Plus and when the weather gets out nice I’d like to do my walking/tiny bit of jogging outside. I don’t enjoy the more intensive exercise, I have a JM 30 Day Shred DVD and find it a struggle to motivate myself to put it on but I know I can’t reap the benefits if I don’t put the hard work in and my bingo wings need toned with a mix of cardio/strength training.
I hit a plateau recently, and I think it was down to lack of regular exercise simply because I used to be full of excuses when getting home from work and wanting to having my tea first then feeling too tired to do anything afterwards. Now I try to work it into my morning routine and do a little but consistent amount Monday-Friday and if I can motivate myself I may/may not do a little at the weekends. I am amazed I have stuck it out for a week so far and that it is actually working for me but doing it in the morning means I’m getting it out of the way then I can enjoy my day without the “Oh I am dreading the exercise I have to do when I get home from work” feeling. The only thing that get me up and out of bed in the morning to do this short amount of exercise (when all I really want to do is hit the ‘snooze’ button) is thinking about the benefits... it means I will have worked some muscle and may be on my way to toning up my body, I have more calories to eat that day (mmm yeah!) and I am losing weight and cms (baby steps) again because I am getting regular activity in... It’s not a lot and not as intensive as most people’s workouts on here but for me it’s something and I don’t care as long as I’m moving.
I really hope you can find something that will work for you! Hopefully with people’s suggestions via this post you can get something out of it that will help you.
Good Luck xxx0 -
Write your self a programme, Its the only thing that got me started.
Plan the days you're going to exercise and what you're going to do that day. That way you cant back out, and put it on a sheet that you can cross off. Do it for a month in advance.
I had trouble sticking to the gym in the past. This time around, I am following the Couch to 5K program, and so I have a goal each time I go to the gym--it has really made a difference for me as not only do I feel challenged to go, but feel great when I meet my goal.0 -
I'm guilty of it too! I've been "trying" to lose weight since October and I only started exercising for real last week. It does get easier once I'm into it but I still can't say i LIKE it. I watch TV shows on my computer (like Teen Mom and ABC shows) while on the elliptical and that helps. I told myself if I can't watch TV online anymore unless I'm on the elliptical.0
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One of things that It took me awhile to understand about my enjoyment of exercise was that there are two distinct ways that I love or hate exercise.
1) The activity - boredom
2) The intensity - pain
For the first, many people have already mentioned that you need to find an activity that you enjoy. For me, I've found that unless I was already super committed and goal oriented (i.e don't already have motivational issues) a home workout was a no go. I just wasn't going to enjoy doing anything in front of the television in my living room. I had to get out. Understandably a gym membership may not always be economically possible but that was exactly what I needed, the obligation to use something I was paying for. Alternatively I found that taking a hobby like approach to a particular activity always leads me to deeper enjoyment. For example, I started road biking so I started to watch the tour de-france, I like to hike so I got involved with 14ers.com (sorry I'm a mountain snob), etc.
If it's matter of the second, you just have to be honest with yourself. Exercise hurts and it's hard, that's the point and that will never change. What will change though is how you perceive those feeling. In the beginning you'll hate it and you'll think this sucks why would anyone in their right mind want to put themselves through this, especially when it feels so much better to be a lazy glutton. If you can be honest with yourself about the pain and except it, you'll begin to adjust to it. Your body will begin to transform along with you attitude and you begin to see results. You mind will rewire those associations and your body will recognize that the deeper the intensity the greater the gain.0 -
Fake it to you make it. Or something like that.
Everytime you tell yourself you don't like it, you are really telling yourself, you don't want to change. So don't be surprized when you fall off the wagon and back onto the couch. "I hate exercise" is the same as saying "I am punishing myself by doing something I don't want to do." We will all only take so much punishment.
Rather than focusing on the "don't like" and the "exercise" , how about focusing on the part you like? Maybe you like that you are the only one that can get yourself to get off your butt and out there in the dreaded world of sweat and pain and ripped muscles. Or maybe you like telling your mom you walked/ran/biked XX miles this week and that amazes her. Or maybe you like that proving to yourself that you can to it. Or maybe you like wearing the cutest exercise outfits. Whatever.0 -
I actually feel bad for you. I think attitude is everything. If you start something thinking you aren't going to like it, you will have a hard time finding any enjoyment in it.
I never did a lot of physical stuff (besides dancing, but I didn't know that was exercise) because I never felt I was good at it. Once I realized I didn't have to be good at something, I like it a lot more.
It's kind of like a job IMO - Some days, I hate it. I don't want to be here, don't want to do what I do, stress over what needs to be done, and come the end of the day I got through it. But when I go into with the attitude that I love my job, want to be here, I'm more productive, end the day with less stress and feel I accomplished more and made a difference.
I'd suggest trying a little of everything, I guarantee there is "something" you will like at some point. And it may constantly change, you may get bored easily and want to try something new. I was at the Dr today, she just opened a Cross Fit gym, I wish I lived closer, but we were talking about when you find something you really love, you want to do it all the time. I'm hooked on P90X, Insanity, and Running, I want more intense at all times... but will be the first to tell people, it's not for everyone. I love my kettlebell work outs too and have learned to like Yoga. But I went through 15 Yoga DVD's off netflix before I found one I liked.
You can learn to like and enjoy exercise and fitness, it's just a matter of finding what's right for you at that moment.0 -
I put audiobooks on my mp3 player & phone
If I wanna know what happens next, I gotta go for a walk/run! :laugh:0 -
I've got the same problem. I had a few week spree where I exercised like 4-5 times a week but I honestly haven't been to the gym or done any intense workout in weeks. It's embarassing, and it makes me feel like a failure. I just love to.. be sendentary.0
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ALSO remember you don't have to do a big lock of exercise at once.
If it makes you feel better, go hard for 10 minutes a couple of times a day (like with a jump rope or something), its just as good for you, and sooo much easier to 'talk' yourself into doing!0 -
Did you know that Jillian Michaels doesn't like exercise either. She wrote in her book. So don't feel bad you just have to make yourself do it.0
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It seems people always think it has to be something they haven't tried or don't like to be exercise.
Find something you like! Swimming, walking, even dancing if you are into the club scene... just don't dabble in the alcohol. Taking a bike ride, rollerblading, playing sports, etc. I'm sure there is something you naturally love already that you could do that burns calories. As far as people getting addicted to exercise, I think its just that they have found another thing they like to do. I got addicted to running.. because I enjoy it, not because its exercise, regardless of the reason I tried it initially.
Don't be so hard on yourself.0 -
I have to reply because I want to give a big shout out to the response of pkpzp228, you have hit the nail on the head.
I have a couple of more things to add. Frequently people throw themselves in the deep end when they first start an exercise program, with an all or nothing approach, which sometimes results in burn-out and sometimes injury. It is hard, once you have committed to something to take a gradual approach to it so your body and your lifestyle will adjust.
Also, to say that you are naturally sedentary is just not right because humans are wired for activity. I started at the gym because I wanted to improve my life, I saw my mother who at every turn when things got hard, she took the easy way out, and not she is too frail for the heart operation she needs. That could be me, so I am clinging to my exercise and fighting all the way.
I agree that you need to find an activity that you like, but some activities you may never particularly like but may fit into your lifestyle. For example I don't particularly like my gym, but it only takes 30 mins, it has improved my fitness immeasurably and I can afford it. It is only a short time and I'm there and home, I can put up with most things for only 30 mins!
Does everyone who gets up at 5.30 a.m. 3 times a week have motivation and enthusiasm all the time? No we don't but we have enthusiasm for fit and healthy and have the right frame of mind and internal dialogue to get us through. What is wrong with your internal dialogue that you are letting yourself talk you into giving up? Some people have deals with themselves: "I don't feel like it, but if I get up and go I'll let myself do 10 mins if my headache doesn't subside", usually once you are there you feel it is not worth it to get there and then not do the full workout.
Just do it, you don't have to love it, you just have to do it.
Julie0 -
I do the Denise Austin Daily Dozen. It's only 10-12 minutes, I do it a couple times a week, and it's really the only thing that has helped me start losing pounds. Worth a shot!0
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I have trouble committing to working out even though I have a gym membership. I do find that having someone to 'share' and workout with is a lot better. Without it, not sure I"d go. Maybe there's a local 'coffee house' group that you could walk with.0
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Just remember that any movement can be considered exercise. It says on your profile that you have a 3 year old daughter. Why don't the two of you go to the park 3 times a week and run around together. It'll be fun for both of you. Even the pumping motion of your legs when you are swinging is a pretty decent workout. Climbing up the ladders. Hanging from the monkey bars. All exercise. Or you could take her to a water park and hold her up while she tries to swim. That would be a really good resistance workout for your lower body while also being a good muscle building workout for your upper body.
But my best suggestion would be to not beat yourself up about it. You can lose weight without exercising. Of course exercising is good for your body and your heart but if you really hate it, don't do it. Just eat fewer calories, you'll still lose weight you just won't tone up.0
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