I Just Need to Vent

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  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
    I dated a ton of losers too before I met my husband, I mean real losers. Anyway, what I did was learn to NOT TRUST MY JUDGEMENT. I figured out I had horrible taste in guys. If I thought someone was right for me, I ran. It wasn't until I met someone who was the COMPLETE OPPOSITE, (I mean opposite) of all the guys I had dated before that I thought I might be on to something. It's true, the common denominator it all those other relationships was me. I had to figure out why I was letting those jerks have the power. My husband could not be more different than those guys, for one he's nice to me, (and he has a job) and I never would have imagined marrying a cute, geeky, computer artist guy. We are an odd pair and everybody says so when they first see us together, but after 5 minutes with us they know we were made for each other.

    I have to agree....most of the time...the geeky guys treat you the best!

    **Raises Hand** "Don't let the leather jacket and the shades fool ya!! I'm a geek!!"

    Oh yeah! I can see right through your disguise!
  • live2smyle
    live2smyle Posts: 592 Member
    I dated a ton of losers too before I met my husband, I mean real losers. Anyway, what I did was learn to NOT TRUST MY JUDGEMENT. I figured out I had horrible taste in guys. If I thought someone was right for me, I ran. It wasn't until I met someone who was the COMPLETE OPPOSITE, (I mean opposite) of all the guys I had dated before that I thought I might be on to something. It's true, the common denominator it all those other relationships was me. I had to figure out why I was letting those jerks have the power. My husband could not be more different than those guys, for one he's nice to me, (and he has a job) and I never would have imagined marrying a cute, geeky, computer artist guy. We are an odd pair and everybody says so when they first see us together, but after 5 minutes with us they know we were made for each other.
    I soooo agree with this. I LOVE me a hot bad boy whattt....However boyfriend/marriage material they are not :P I met my husband. 3 months later we were married. Our anniversary is July 2nd will be 15yrs. He is the total opposite of anyone I would have ever dated. He treats me like a queen though :) Yep, he may not be Brad Pitt...But I sure feel like Julia Roberts! Good Luck on your search :)
  • jammyone
    jammyone Posts: 80
    Unfortunately, some men are just a waste of space. I promise you that we're not all a**holes and not just in it for the sex.

    I've also been in your position 3 times last year where girls I was dating had messed me around, one of which I was sure was the sweetest girl I ever met.

    Sorry for your bad experiences, don't let it get to you and as RoadDog said, just carry about your life as normal and do the things you enjoy :-)
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    You are beautiful....*Fae hugs for you* :smooched:
  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    Sweetie I saw Plenty of Fish and thats all it took for me to think its not you its them. I met a couple guys off that site and same story. Cheated. I am far from the one to say don't give up but Look somewhere else those LOSERS I can't emphasize LOSERRRR enough aren't good enough for you. Hang in there:flowerforyou: I am gonna say the cliche phrase...it will happen when you arent looking
  • lilmommy
    lilmommy Posts: 84
    Awwww... Girl sorry you've had unfortunate luck in the love department. You are beautiful there is nothing wrong with you! These guys that are cheating and have no problem causing others pain will get theirs!!! Keep your head up the right guy will come along!! **BIG HUGS**
  • DarkAngel864
    DarkAngel864 Posts: 229 Member
    Haha I love some of the responses and love that you all took the time to respond!!!! Big Hugs :smooched:
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