Emotional eater seeking help

Take it one day at a time! Do not dwell on yesterday - you cannot change that. Try to start each day feeling positive and prepared for the journey. Good luck to you.

I am an emotional eater too and honestly some days it just gets the better of me. I can pig out on ice cream, cookies, potato chips and pizza if I'm not mindful.

Since I've started losing weight on mfp and I'm liking what I see in the mirror that has helped me somewhat. I've started asking myself "is it worth it?" before I eat something and often times it isn't. It takes discipline and sometimes you are the victor and sometimes u r not. Don't wallow in self pity, just get up and try again.

It also helps to figure out what emotions trigger your eating splurge. I find for me it can be having a really stressful day at work or it could simply be from boredom. What ever it is for u, realise that food can ONLY fill hunger in your stomach and not a void in your life. Keep your self busy, read more, go for walks, call a friend but don't just sit there and stuff your face.

All the best on your journey ;o)

Hello! I too am an emotional eater. I can agree with everything youve said in here, I too when I go on a diet decided not to tell anyone because when I did I got the "ya okay okay"
I have to keep this short and sweet because im about to leave. My biggest hard time is night time. During the day I have control and do great. 8-10pm haunt me. Sometimes I will fall alseep on the couch, and my way from my couch to me bed ( a whole 15 steps) I will manage to stuff my face with 200-300-400 calories?!. Horrible. Im a very "oral" person. I find that when I feel like I need to munch I need something in my mouth gum,mints,a hard candy to suck on for awhile helps. Ill eat acouple, it takes a minute to eat them and usually by the time im done eating a few my urge is gone. You have to want it. When your ready your ready.
Good luck!

I use to be an emotional eater. It was really hard to stop but I made it through. Here is what helped me:

1) For a while I stopped brining my *weakness* into the house the snacks i brough in were only healthy, no chips no popsicles nothing like that- i know they say when dieting not to deprive yourself, but i had to break the chain, I slowly started brining healthier snacks back into the house after the first 3 months or so.

2) when I felt like that I realized even though the motivation, the want wasn't there and in the moment I resented myself for making me do anything at all other than eat I would make a logical decision to get up and train myself to do something else. Wither that was take a walk, play with the kids, call a friend ( not necessairly about what i was feeling) just something anything else then sitting there thinking about food or eating

3) If that didn't work, then I would eat celery, I had lots of celery chopped up in zip lock baggies, and would eat that plain, no dressing, just the celery at first i wasn't that fond of it but grew to like it, finally 2 years later i am completely free of being an emotional eater and no longer need the celery as a crutch

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Hello, I was asking myself the same thing this morning. It is difficult and I haven't had much success either, especially as I have been trying for years to loose weight.

But the other people are right. Starting each day afresh is a good place to start.

I think we have to address our emotions, not the food (that will follow automatically). Why do you feel sad (assuming its sadness/stress that is making you eat)? What can you do to make your situation better? For example, my old job really stressed me out so I changed jobs and have managed to loose about a stone in the last year, just because I'm that bit happier and not heading to the vending machine just to get away from my desk for 5 minutes.

My problem is that I also associate food with happiness so I like to eat when good things happen as well. But I'm trying to remind myself that I'm not the dustbin and I should be more choosy about what I put in my mouth. I want to savour food more and I can't do that when I'm stuffing it in at 100 miles an hour.

Little trick is to have a glass of water before you eat something. It may just fill you up, help you to feel a bit virtuous and give you that crucial time to think first before you eat. Those 20 seconds could help you to improve your habits. I'm going to give it a go!

Im an emotional eater, when things got bad or i was feeling down picking at bad foods was my comfort, i always felt like food was in control as i seemed to have no control over what i ate and couldn't seem to stop. I then got to the stage of braving the scales and i stepped on them and it went to 286 lbs then i realized i had to take that control back.So i told everyone i was going to be changing from that day on and lost 126lb in a year.Yes it was hard work but because i told people i was doing this i didnt want anyone to see me fail so it motivated me to keep going.I then hurt my back and could hardly walk for a year and that old pal comfort eating come back but lucky for me i realized before i put the whole lot back on and then got back on to losing this weight and taking that control back. I think of everything before i put something bad in my mouth now and think do i want this really or do i have the calories to allow this. You CAN do this and if you need some support please feel free to add me and ill help where i can. I think having support and people around you knowing what your doing helps so much on this journey

Mandy xx

I'm there with you!

Almost 50 years old, and my first impulse is STILL to use food as an emotional crutch--particularly when I am stressed, angry, a little blue or depressed, or lonely. But I'm getting better--by really paying attention to it.

I have really worked on finding healthy ways to deal with my emotions. Among the things that have helped are:
1) naming and facing my feelings out loud--
I have learned that taking a moment to close the door of my bedroom or office and saying out what I am feeling ["I am really stressing about that deadline!" "I feel really cranky and blue today"] helps get it out of my head and into the air where I can deal with it rather than running to the pantry to stuff it down.

2) short deep breathing meditation--
taking 2 minutes to sit quietly with my eyes closed breathing deeply in and out while rhythmically touching each finger in sequence with my thumb (inhale--pointer, middle, ring, pinkie; exhale--pointer middle ring pinkie pointer middle ring pinkie)

3) rehearsing and replaying conversations--
this is a technique I learned from some self-help book many years ago (can't remember which one), but basically when I identify a specific situation that stresses me out (for me, encounters with my mother and a specific co-worker are major triggers!) I plan or "rehearse" conversations with them in my head in which I am calm and in control of my emotions prior to an encounter so I "practice" being in control and not stressing out. Or after a bad encounter, I "replay" it changing the "script" for a better outcome on my part.

4) exercise--
yep. As hard as it is to make myself do sometimes, "gettin' my sweat on" has helped me deal with emotional eating tremendously! Even something as brief as walking once around the block, running up and down the stairs once or twice, or a few jumping jacks standing in front of the refrigerator door can give me a reality check and clear my head enough to see past my anger or my fussiness and give me the perspective to just walk away.

I know it's not easy, but I'm pulling for you!

I personally am motivated by what I have already lost and don't want to gain it back so that is what I think about. Sometimes I recite a bible verse or find something else that makes me happy. Because I to am a emotional eater and I love food it always makes me happy. I suggest you go talk with someone like a counselor or health professional. It sounds like you might be slightly depressed and that is truly a medical condition that will damage your weight loss attempts. Keep your head up and don't beat yourself up. Keep working at it and things will get better. Don't be so hard on yourself. Also I make sure that even though I am dieting I eat food that taste good. Believe me there is no shortage of healthy recipes that aid in weight loss that are actually delicious. I love eatingwell.com. They have great recipes that list all the nutriention values you need to record your caloric intake. Good luck....much love.....YOU CAN DO IT....

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