Weird question but a little scared to ask

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  • rsharmin8
    rsharmin8 Posts: 2
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    Does not go away.........
  • AmyB2011
    AmyB2011 Posts: 48
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    Perhaps try bio oil... that certainly fades them.
  • Cherrycandy
    Cherrycandy Posts: 200
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    A laser treatment
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
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    You can get your stretch marks tattooed so that they are indistinguishable from the rest of your skin :)
  • carolsohn
    carolsohn Posts: 33 Member
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    Doesn't go away. I'm tried it all. Cocoa butter, mederma, bio oil. They're just less noticeable over time.
  • jennyb31
    jennyb31 Posts: 166 Member
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    Tanning definently helps them be less noticable, sunless tanning lotion can help too. And bio-oil is supposed to help them look better. My stretch marks are probally my biggest insecurity as well as cellulite, ugh but I just try to remember that nobody is perfect and try to focus on the positive like how nicely toned my arms have became, it helps :)
  • curvygirl512
    curvygirl512 Posts: 423 Member
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    Yours is not a weird question. We all get wrapped up in our wrappings--it makes us what we are.

    You can make a choice here--either hate your stretch marks and hate your body, or love them for what they represent and love your body. If you are fortunate enough to have lost enough weight to have stretch marks, personally, I'd be proud of them.

    My stretch marks are from my pregnancy, and I wouldn't trade them, and my beautiful daughter, for anything.

    Keep up the good work.
  • amandamcphee23
    amandamcphee23 Posts: 8 Member
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    I know this may sound silly, but similar to another person here, as I got fitter, ate better foods and increased my water intake I found my stretch got much much better. They didn't completely go away, but you can barely see them. This being said they are not stretch marks caused by pregnancy or extreme stretching from being over weight. I've only ever been about 30 pounds over weight, so my marks were not too wide or deep. My guess is it depends entirely on how deep they are.
  • KickassYas
    KickassYas Posts: 397 Member
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    i have them all over but the most prominent are actually on (TMI WARNING!!)

    my breasts from puberty. i went from nothin to a B cup so fast my breasts pretty much exploded. I have tried everything, nothing makes them go away for me. so i've just accepted them.
  • stephanielynn76
    stephanielynn76 Posts: 709 Member
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    I still have mine. I know there is nothing I can do about them so I just don't stress over them.The ones on my inner thighs are the worst and those were the result of a huge growth spurt during puberty. I have some on my hips and boobs from pregnancy too. As a person who is quite prone to them, I was really lucky not to get them on my stomach... but of course I worked out like a crazy woman during both pregnancies so that likely helped...
  • elli_song
    elli_song Posts: 1
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    They are scars, so you can't get rid of them, but they lighten and fade when they get older. As you lose a little weight they will get to be smaller and closer together, so they will be less and less noticable.
  • inskydiamonds
    inskydiamonds Posts: 2,519 Member
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    I don't understand it, but as I've lost weight my stretch marks have almost completely disappeared.

    Well then!!!! I wish mine did!!!! you got a miracle!

    I was expecting to see them forever, but they're gone! It honestly makes no sense at all, but I'm not going to complain about it :)
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
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    You don't. Sorry. Time will fade them, but there is no getting rid of them without surgery. I would suggest keeping your skin moisturized though.

    100% correct. I did a very big post about this. I will re explain. Your skin is elastic to a point. for example have you ever pulled a rubberband to the point where it actually stretches and turns whitish in a particular area and then stays stretched? Well that is exactly like your skin. The stretch mark is broken skin that has reached and exceeded it's capacity to stretch any further so it tears and heals as that mark.

    Cocoa butter is the biggest misconception....it will help PREVENT stretch marks but that isnt even a guarantee because skin elasticity is effected by genetics as well as how healthy your diet is. Think about it. How many mothers have you seen with no stretch marks. Look at Dizzieferg for instance. 2 kids no visual sign of a stretch mark in her pics. it's just she was blessed with good genes and healthy skin.

    The only way to get rid of them is either to get a tummy tuck, build up enough muscle to replace the fat that was once there to pull the skin taut again, get the lazer surgery now to burn them off and allow new skin to grow where the stretch mark once was or just deal with it.

    Some people swear it takes time. I will say time helps but in no way shape or form does it allow the skin to tighten up THAT much that you wont see the stretch marks if so you are one of those genetic miracles. I have wrinkles on my lower abs and lower back so now I am going to have a full trunk lift if in 2 years it doesn't tighten up enough.

    You also need to know that lose skin stretch marks may still be skin with fat under it that you just assume is lose skin. Best way to check is do this. Pinch the skin on the back of your hand. see how thin it is, now apply that to any area of your body. If the skin isnt as thin as that then that means there is still fat underneath that layer of skin!!!
  • MamaReebs
    MamaReebs Posts: 240 Member
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    Tanning and moisturizer helped to fade mine. But they will never be gone without surgery. Looks like I have zebra striped shorts on! LOL!
  • jeyoung03
    jeyoung03 Posts: 83
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    I used mederma on them and they have lightened. I'm hoping it will help them disappear.
  • MOMO228
    MOMO228 Posts: 7
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    As you loose weight they will start to fade. Tanning helps to hide them, but sorry to say I don't think they ever go totally away. I haven't tried that new stuff I see on tv.
  • Starlage
    Starlage Posts: 1,709 Member
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    Sorry babe...there is nothing you can do about them. I have researched and researched this and there are a lot of myths (cocoa butter) but ultimately these are scars in your skin and they will not go away. There is one kind that can fade. I forget if it's the light ones or dark ones but they will not go away.

    I wish.

    I agree. I used to have dark purple ones on my thighs- I gained them through puberty :o( made teenage years in a bathing suit very miserable. But now they've faded to super light white color- can't really see them anymore unless someone's looking closely. Yours'll probably fade with time, no quick fix.
  • Legs_McGee
    Legs_McGee Posts: 845 Member
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    I got them from a growth spurt too. I was skinny as a rail but I grew over a foot from age 10 to 12 and I guess my skin couldn't keep up. I thought it was entirely unfair. They have faded significantly in the past 30 years, but they're definitely still there.
  • djjohnson2879
    djjohnson2879 Posts: 13
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    I had some, then lost 50lbs in about two months when I had a bad Lupus flare. They all but went away. However, because of the skin issues I was having, I had to mosturize daily with a super duper mosturizer (vanicream) that my dermatologist recommended.
    The weight is back on, and the stretch marks are back, in different places than before. I don't mosturize every day like I should. So take your pick as to which factor you want to blame for mine. :)
    I've not researched, and know of no magic cure, but I'm guessing it's one of those things that's different for everybody.

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