I need some help.

It's all going to take time, dedication and consistency! It's really hard to predict how your body will adapt to the changes - but if you mix up your cardio with stregth training (make sure to build muscle too - not only will it help you to tone but muscle also helps burn the fat more quickly!) - Don't wait until after you lose a significant amount of weight to start trying to "tone" - yes you won't see the muscle definition until you lose the pounds - but if you start now you'll burn the fat from both sides AND will have less of a chance of it effecting your skin!

CORE WORKOUTS ..Total body burns, you cant pick and choose were to loose body fat, just work hard and eat right .. things will happen for you. best wishes and good luck with your goals. feel free to add me if you want ..

I would say that slow and steady will win the race!! Skin is a tricky thing.....if you lose weight and tone at the same time maybe you will have better luck with the skin. Lose the weight slowly so your skin has time to change with your body!! Best of luck to you!!!

I would suggest Zumba. It is so much fun that the time just flies by and the pounds really fall off. Add 15 min of weights a couple of times a week to tone up your arms.

Starting out will most likely be slow but you will notice results quicker than you might think. Do cardio for 30 minutes per day but it will take some time to work up to that. But make that your goal. Also, do strength exercises such as weights, push ups, lunges. I love doing DVD's. Jillians have really toned me and burn tons of fat. If you need something a little lighter to build up to something like Jillian or P90X...do one of of Leslie Sansone (not sure on last name) walk DVD's. Once you get enough strength and cardio in you will be able to build on that. Everyone starts somewhere. Good luck!

Wishing you good luck and success in reaching your goals !!!

There is no overnight plan. It takes work, dedication and some motivation from friends. I have been saying . . "It took me almost 40 years to put this weight on, so it's going to take some time to get rid of it"

I have been finding success with a fitness/excerise and diet program and have been loosing about 1.5 - 2 pounds a week. Sometimes, I don't even loose weight, but my clothes are getting looser and I'm tightening my belt.

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Mark

For your legs and gluts - squats and leg lifts. Squats = stand with your feet just beyond shoulder width apart and feet straight forward. Drop your rear down while also bending at the waist until you reach halfway to the floor from where you started. Do this movement slowly and reverse the motion at the same pace (try 4 sec down and 4 sec up). Attempt 10 reps. Rest and then repeat. Once you find this to be easy add 2-3 lb hand weights in each hand. Leg Lifts = lay down on your side with legs relaxed straight on the floor. Take your upper leg, straighten and lift approx. 1-2 feet up and then reverse. Again, do this movement slowly (2 sec down and 2 sec up). Attempt 10 reps on each side. Rest and then repeat. Once you find this easy add one 2-3 lb hand weight and hold it at mid-thigh when lifting your leg.

For you upper torso - overhead press and reverse curl. Overhead press = put 2-3 lb hand weights in each hand. Hold hands with weights in a 'T' or 'field goal' formation. The weights should end up at ear level and keep your upper arm square. Lift both hands above your head, bring the weights together until they touch and reverse the movement. Again, do this slowly. Control is key! Reverse Curl = tilt at a slight angle forward at the waist. Place the 2-3 lb weights in each hand. Lift the weights up to your shoulders so that your palms face outward. Attempt 30-50 reps.

Hand weights are about $3 at Target. :-) Good luck!

go on about.com and look up some yoga and pilates exercises! They work areas that are hard to work and yoga is the only work out that gets rid of toxins. Good for those hard to work out spots that you're referring to!!

Lotion!! Also make sure you are doing weights and working all the muscles. I'm a very heavy girl and so far my skin is staying nice, but I have the same worries. I do a lot a resistance training, which is GREAT for weight loss. I did a lot a research before I started so that my work outs would be more effective. I do the Elliptical and I go slower than all the other people but my resistance is typically twice what theirs are on. It is also GREAT for your bones, you're at the prime age right now to get in shape. We stop building bone mass in our early thirties and resistance training helps build and strengthen your bones. Sorry, I'm kind of going off on a tangent about bones. lol. So skin, Almond milk is also suppose to be amazing for skin, I've noticed a HUGE difference since I started drinking it and its WAY less in calories and cholesterol than reg milk.