How important is it to have friends on here?
Tiamo719
Posts: 256 Member
I only have 3 friends mainly because I don't ask anyone to be my friend. I feel like I'm being a bother, I mean, what if they have over 100 friends? Do they really want another?
I also feel it's easy to look at my profile and keep up with my friends because I only have three
Anyway, do you feel it's beneficial for success to have many friends?
I also feel it's easy to look at my profile and keep up with my friends because I only have three
Anyway, do you feel it's beneficial for success to have many friends?
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I like rooting for each other but you can do that with 3 friends. I don't think having many friends would make a difference for me. The friends I have are mostly active so I do hear from them.0
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we can be friends welcome0
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I like to see what others are doing but you are correct it can get difficult to keep up when you have too many, then you can't really interact in any meaningful fashion. Once I am caught up on my list if I care to "interact" more I can always look on the forums.
So no, I don't think it's beneficial for success.
Also you shouldn't feel like you are a bother, most people who don't want any more requests at all say so in their profile I think. And if they don't want to add you, they won't. Just don't feel bad if you don't have your request accepted.0 -
I've only got two friends on here, both of which are people I know in real life. I, like you, am worried about being a bother and I'm too shy to actually PM anyone so I don't think I'd be a very good friend as I probably wouldn't talk to them on the other hand, I've done perfectly fine on here without friends as I've lost 26 pounds since June friends are probably helpful, but not necessary.0
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For me, it has changed everything. I am no longer a woman trying to lose weight I am just living a healthy life style and having friends while I do. I get support and ideas from my friends. Feel free to friend request people, especially people you see who are very active on the pages. Good luck with your journey.0
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Depends on you... everyone is different.0
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I have friends for entertainment purposes.0
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I find having friends on here a real help. Hearing their stories, sharing their successes comforting them when they're struggling or down.
Feel free to add me, you won't be a bother.0 -
I have a small handful of acqaintances on MFP, but they're not a factor in my results. I'm here to use the diary and food database functions moreso than to socialize. For some people, though, having a support group is an important factor in their success or lack thereof.0
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I like having friends, it keeps the ideas fresh and I laugh a lot. I do agree that the number is not of any importance. You can have a great experience with any amount, however it is really difficult to keep up with a friend list that is too big0
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I like friends with open diaries because it gives me ideas. I also feel more motivated when folks are posting their activity. I think they help me. I also make a point to leave personal comments instead of only likes because it keeps it more personal.0
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What matters is how important it is to you, not to me. Personally, I find having a few friends is pleasant and adds to mfp experience. However, what I do (or don't do) in regards to food and exercise is not impacted in any way.
Some people seem to "collect" friends like collecting followers in twitter -- and the relationships are not as deep. Having three friends that you interact with on a personal basis is, imo, much more meaningful than having a hundred "friends" who are essentially anonymous followers.0 -
It's up to the individual. Personally, I like it when I post a check-in that reflects a weight loss and I get twelve "likes" and ten "attaboy" comments. But that's just me. Some people would rather not see those.0
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I think that everyone could use hero and support, whether they have 100 or 3 friends on their list. I don't really ask to be people's friends either, but I always say that I'll be someone's friend if they want one! My reason for not asking is not because I feel like I'm bothering people, I just don't lol.
So, with that said, feel free to add me, along with anyone else!0 -
It is important for me to have friends here, simply to have others that understand and others I can reach out to for help. Plus, all of my friends are entertaining as hell!0
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I guess for me, i'm ok on my own in so much as I know what I doing, have my set routines, and I know even if I screw up along the way it back to the grind the next day.
But it a nice feeling being able to advise others from my own personal experiences, and there is always that chance you may learn something new, or gives you ideas for things that on ya own maybe never have thought of.
But others do need that support network, they need the constant accountability for their good and bad habits.
So each to their own at end of the day0 -
I like having my friends for multiple reasons:
One, they keep me accountable.
Two, I laugh my a** off, a LOT!
Three, I like to cheer them on and be there for them.
Four, I like looking at diaries and getting ideas.
Five, they make this journey a heck of a lot easier.0 -
I love the support that having friends on MFP provides. Many of the weight conversations I have, I don't have in "real life". I love having a place that I can talk comfortably about an issue that is important and relevant to me. My MFP fam keeps me motivated, as well as, entertained.0
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I've set the Chrome browser to go to mfp.com/forums/ so I never see what my friends are doing. Sorry if you're my friend. Given that only about 15% of people here will reach their goal weight, I tend to not rely on the successes of others here. For me, weight loss is relatively solitary.0
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Love my friends here. What's with the pic? Post yourself. Maybe you'll have friends. I'm not trying to be mean.
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I like having friends here, people in the same boast so to speak. I get ideas from what other people are posting. I don't think it's necessary for success, but it doesn't hurt.0
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I have too many restraining orders, or I would add you.0
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emily_stew wrote: »
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I don't talk about my health and fitness in my real life, so I love having my friends here to cheer me on, or give me advice without any judgement. Extra support and fun can't be bad.0
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I use FaceBook for my social media ... and I use these discussion groups on MFP to interact with people here. There is one or two groups I have joined and post on them, and read the posts of other members, on a daily basis. That's enough for me. Otherwise I would never get off this computer and I spend much too much time on it as it is already.
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I love having the support of friends on here for me. I have found that it's been a motivation to get going and it gives me new ideas. So for me, yes, friends is important to have on here.
But to each their own.0 -
Thank you for all the responses! I have my diary open and I write in my blog which is open to my friends only. My blog is very boring :-/
I am active every day but more so during the week.
I am going to lose this weight with or without friends but it's nice to have the support of true fighters.0
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