Is he or isn't he?

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  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    It sounds to me like he has a "wife" and a girlfriend. An hour is too far to drive? lol. Somebody is fooling themselves.
  • Archerychickge
    Archerychickge Posts: 606 Member
    edited October 2014
    Yup! that thar is an emotional affair.
  • Followingsea
    Followingsea Posts: 407 Member
    Yeah, the husband is out of line in this scenario. If I were the wife, and he wanted to stay married to me, he would end the 'friendship' and get his *kitten* in couples counseling with me.

    I strongly believe men and women can be platonic friends - my best local friend for years and years was a dude, and now that I've moved I miss him terribly - but this guy is pouring *all* his time and energy (and....?) into his 'friend' and neglecting his relationship with his wife. (Thanksgiving with this other lady? hell no!). That's not a friendship, that's an emotional affair, and I wouldn't be surprised at all to hear it had already turned physical.
  • dym123
    dym123 Posts: 1,670 Member
    Whether he's cheating or not, the fact that he would rather spend time with this "friend" instead of his wife, does not bode well for the marriage.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Is it cheating no technically. Are there problems in the marriage? OH YEAH kool aid voice.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    If you're unhappy with this arrangement, it's a problem. He's probably banging her. You available on the nights he's out of town?
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  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    trinatrina1984 wrote: »
    Forty6and2 wrote: »
    I'm only here because I thought your username said "queenqueef." I am disappoint. Also contemplating changing my username.

    Haha how about QueenLaQueefa?

    I thought exactly this. :stuck_out_tongue:
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    If it walks like a duck, and it quacks like a duck....

    Separate rooms my *kitten*.
  • emkayelle91
    emkayelle91 Posts: 846 Member
    I would say he is cheating. If not sexually, then at the very least emotionally. But I mean lets be real, if a guy is spending that much time with a woman that isn't his wife; I would bet my *kitten* they are doing more than braiding each others hair and making friendship bracelets.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Forty6and2 wrote: »
    I'm only here because I thought your username said "queenqueef." I am disappoint. Also contemplating changing my username.

    Glad I'm not the only one!

  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    um, can't you just come out and ask him?? Also, how is an hour too far to drive?!? In Houston that is pretty standard.
  • trinatrina1984
    trinatrina1984 Posts: 1,018 Member
    _crafty_ wrote: »
    trinatrina1984 wrote: »
    Forty6and2 wrote: »
    I'm only here because I thought your username said "queenqueef." I am disappoint. Also contemplating changing my username.

    Haha how about QueenLaQueefa?

    I thought exactly this. :stuck_out_tongue:

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  • SarahJohnson1234
    SarahJohnson1234 Posts: 23 Member
    Cheating. Aka emotional cheating. Their friendship will no doubt progress and his marriage will crumble.
    Then he will repeat this behaviour with another women in the future. Seen it happen too many times
  • SuninVirgo
    SuninVirgo Posts: 255 Member
    Hypothetical questions are a bit ridiculous. He's a truck driver who only lives an hour away from work. He better go home. If this is a true situation, then yes, it is cheating.

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