What do you think of using exercise as punishment?

lorib642
lorib642 Posts: 1,942 Member
Another post triggered this thought but I didn't want to hijack.

Sometimes coaches or instructors will make students run laps or do push ups or some other physical activity for misbehaving.

I always thought it was a bad idea to equate exercise with punishment because then you would develop a negative attitude towards it.

Now, I have kids and I am not sure. My daughter already has a negative attitude about exercising and I think it is good for her to run a few laps if she is late to band practice. And my son is active, but it is the part about being pulled away from the group that he doesn't like. Also, he's a lineman and running isn't his strong suit. It doesn't change how he feels about exercise and sports.

I like positive reinforcement, too, even if it is just an atta boy.
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  • kelly_e_montana
    kelly_e_montana Posts: 1,999 Member
    I see your point.
  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    edited October 2014
    I agree with you that it's a bad idea to associate exercise with punishment.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    I'm not really sure how I feel about it. My college age son had coaches that did that when he was younger. He's all into working out now--both weights and cardio.
  • jbee27
    jbee27 Posts: 356 Member
    I think that like any punishment it is when and how it’s used is as important as the “punishment” itself.

    I played sports growing up and some coaches used this effectively, some did not. For example, anyone who left equipment at the field where we played softball had to do something (sprints, push-ups, etc.) to earn it back from the coach. I thought that was an effective “punishment”.

    I had a different coach who would make us run laps for mistakes that we made. This served no purpose other than exhausting and frustrating everyone, causing more mistakes, and thus more punishments. The same coach would time us running and then made anyone who did not meet the time he had set do additional laps as punishment. This was embarrassing to any of us more out of shape kids, and I attribute my long time refusal to run as exercise to my memories of this humiliation.
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    I used to play rugby... practice was NOT considered punishment BUT it was often punishing... and grueling... after " warm-up" guys would be bent over dry heaving or vomiting and that was just the beginning... exercise as punishment in order to participate in a sport is NOT really punishment it's extra conditioning... and most "guys" see it as the price of admission... there is NOTHING wrong with learning that wrong choices lead to negative results... THAT is merely a fact of life...
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    Sometimes, you have to do things you don't want to do in order to do things you want to do.

    This is good early training for that. Kids quickly learn that doing their best the first time is easier than half assing it and running laps until someone becomes tired of watching them.
  • ukaryote
    ukaryote Posts: 850 Member
    Good point. Just like training animals, positive punishments often have unintended consequences. A better idea would be to ignore the late band member and make them wait 10 minutes before joining in. The person wants to join in, standing there being seen waiting is negative punishment. Even better, the leader complements all the on-time people and not the late people.

    For an example, of positive punishment gone awry, I wanted to teach my dogs about the new electric fence wires, in a controlled way. I baited the wire with peanut butter and with each dog , leashed it and lead it near the treat. After licking the wire and getting a shock, 3 of the 4 dogs understood to avoid the wire. The 4th dog became afraid of the leash. It took hours of work to get the dog to accept a leash again.

    Positive means actively applying a stimulus, like running around the track.
  • lorib642
    lorib642 Posts: 1,942 Member
    jbee27 wrote: »
    I think that like any punishment it is when and how it’s used is as important as the “punishment” itself.

    I played sports growing up and some coaches used this effectively, some did not. For example, anyone who left equipment at the field where we played softball had to do something (sprints, push-ups, etc.) to earn it back from the coach. I thought that was an effective “punishment”.

    I had a different coach who would make us run laps for mistakes that we made. This served no purpose other than exhausting and frustrating everyone, causing more mistakes, and thus more punishments. The same coach would time us running and then made anyone who did not meet the time he had set do additional laps as punishment. This was embarrassing to any of us more out of shape kids, and I attribute my long time refusal to run as exercise to my memories of this humiliation.

    Thanks. That is a good point. It does depend on how it is used.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    lorib642 wrote: »
    Another post triggered this thought but I didn't want to hijack.

    Sometimes coaches or instructors will make students run laps or do push ups or some other physical activity for misbehaving.

    This isn't any different than having to do extra math problems for being bad in math. It's physical conditioning that makes you better at your sport. Having to do math as a punishment in sports would be odd. Running laps in math would be odd. Each has it's appropriate method for correction.
  • NoelFigart1
    NoelFigart1 Posts: 1,276 Member
    lorib642 wrote: »

    Now, I have kids and I am not sure. My daughter already has a negative attitude about exercising and I think it is good for her to run a few laps if she is late to band practice. And my son is active, but it is the part about being pulled away from the group that he doesn't like. Also, he's a lineman and running isn't his strong suit. It doesn't change how he feels about exercise and sports.

    I like positive reinforcement, too, even if it is just an atta boy.

    I think context is important. A coach for something physical getting a kid to do something physical as a punishment is appropriate, I think.

    When I was in Karate, there were things for which I had to do pushups. (Or God forbid, spar Sensei). I was incredibly touchy about inappropriate authority as a teenager, but I kinda got the justice of it. And Sensei wasn't a power-hungry jerk or anything, so if you were doing pushups, you'd really screwed up. (Usually a glare was enough to straighten most of us out)

    I think as with any behavior modification, you've gotta have the empathy to ensure the lesson sticks.

    I am with you on the positive reinforcement, but I think that just positive or just negative causes the system to oscillate out of control. Both types of feedback need to be used in conjunction to keep things running smoothly.



  • lorib642
    lorib642 Posts: 1,942 Member
    ukaryote wrote: »
    Good point. Just like training animals, positive punishments often have unintended consequences. A better idea would be to ignore the late band member and make them wait 10 minutes before joining in. The person wants to join in, standing there being seen waiting is negative punishment. Even better, the leader complements all the on-time people and not the late people.

    For an example, of positive punishment gone awry, I wanted to teach my dogs about the new electric fence wires, in a controlled way. I baited the wire with peanut butter and with each dog , leashed it and lead it near the treat. After licking the wire and getting a shock, 3 of the 4 dogs understood to avoid the wire. The 4th dog became afraid of the leash. It took hours of work to get the dog to accept a leash again.

    Positive means actively applying a stimulus, like running around the track.

    Thanks. I used the wrong term. I meant rewarding them (like praise) when they do well
  • deksgrl
    deksgrl Posts: 7,237 Member
    For some people, some exercise is always going to seem like punishment. lol.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    edited October 2014
    For sports, fine. Other activities - no. Context matters a lot. If you are playing a sport extra laps for infractions seems reasonable. But laps for being late to a non sport event? I dunno. I probably wouldn't.
  • iheartinsanity
    iheartinsanity Posts: 205 Member
    My husband did this to his daughter when we first got married...but mellowed out on it after a while. I think it did more harm than good. She's a typical lazy 12 year old. Wants all the glory of running a marathon one day but thinks running a half mile is "a lot" of exercise. Even with having me as a (step) mother who is fitness instructor...it still doesn't motivate her. She's probably worked out one single time since school has started (early September). I just continue to be an example and hopefully she'll follow along. I had to learn the hard way and didn't chose fitness till I got in my 20's, and was obese at a point. Stubborn people.
  • Shan790
    Shan790 Posts: 280 Member
    my hubby and I coach football. We have one coach who is horrible for using it as a punishment for dropped passes, missed tackles etc. We will not punish mistakes with physical activity. I've seen kids want to quit because of it. At the start of every practice though there is a conditioning series we do. Everyone does it, everyone hates it, everyone accepts its part of getting stronger, faster, and better at the game. Some kids do more laps or more push ups because the point is to push your limits. Making a running back do the same lap as a big line man is just silly.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    My husband did this to his daughter when we first got married...but mellowed out on it after a while. I think it did more harm than good. She's a typical lazy 12 year old. Wants all the glory of running a marathon one day but thinks running a half mile is "a lot" of exercise.

    LOL. That's a significant number of posters on MFP. :)
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    I like it,, think its great to a degree, as long as they do not become a bully.
  • darrensurrey
    darrensurrey Posts: 3,942 Member
    Interesting thought there.

    I just make kids sit out if they're naughty.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    My kids are all competitive athletes. They love sports and exercise. That being said, all of their coaches use running and conditioning as punishments. It hasn't stopped my daughter from running 3 days a week, or my son from doing extra push ups at home. My youngest is a gymnast and comes home bruised and blistered all the time, but she still practices at home.

    So I don't think it's really hurting anything for a kid who is already active. For a non-active kid? Maybe. Although they might discover that they like the rush after a few laps.
  • silentKayak
    silentKayak Posts: 658 Member
    It's a bad idea. I think it's fine if it's in the context of an athletic team or military - you messed up, so coach makes you work harder. But as the parent, you should be trying to make fun associations with exercise.

    I have one kid who's not very physical. He doesn't want to do team sports, which is fine, but he has to do something. He's ok with individual stuff like swimming and rock climbing, so we signed him up for that. He likes the driving range, trampolines, and archery, so we try to fit those things in occasionally. We go on family hikes and bike rides, and make a point of getting ice cream at the end. The goal is to help them find what they like and build a lifelong habit. I think that's way more important than forcing them to run a few laps.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    Absolutely horrible form of punishment. Teachers at my elementary school did this all the time, even in non-PE classes. It's one of the many reasons I hate all forms of exercise today.
  • kelly_e_montana
    kelly_e_montana Posts: 1,999 Member
    edited October 2014
    I had a PE teacher that would make people run a mile when they did something wrong. I've tried to be a runner and have even gotten okayish at it to the point of getting second in my age group in a 5K trail run last spring, but I still associate running with punishment or if not that extreme, then a giant chore that had to be done before the fun stuff. I just can't get it out of my mind that it's supposed to feel bad or something.
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    I have zero issue with it, in context. Randomly making my girls run laps because they are goofing off during a school lesson makes no sense. Having them do push ups during dance class because they aren't paying attention does make sense.

    We can't get rid of all punishment because it might cause long term avoidance behavior - we have to make sure we're using it in a way that makes sense and is used sparingly.

    I was in dance and marching band - both had physical "punishments" tied into them - I don't view exercise as punishment.
  • shreddedtrooper
    shreddedtrooper Posts: 107 Member
    Definitely no Cardio for punishment. That's like punishing your gains, cardio is a tool. Whilst some may view it as punishment; rather focus on the end result and aim towards that vs. some form of exercise that some may excel at and some may not want to do.

    Would one punish a marathon runner with "laps?" This would serve no purpose.

    I respect the coach that betters their subjects by teaching good practices vs. dictating a form of cardio( insert exercise) that some may not excel at while others do.

    Now motivation for being lazy? That's beyond the scope of the topic, that is reserved for upbringing/surroundings and overall sense of being. Just like others above stated, "context."

    Anywho, happy halloween and cardio is a tool and always will be. Gains over everything else. SRS
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    As a generality, I agree...

    That said, context is very important...I don't see anything wrong with it in the context of athletics or military training (I've done both)...but as another poster stated, it also depends on how the coach or drill instructor or whatever approaches things as well. For example, having to PT because I was a little out of step on a march would be pretty inappropriate...and It would generally bring about more resentment than anything...having to PT because you've made an error that in time of war could cause someone to get their *kitten* shot off is completely appropriate.

    When you're talking athletics and the military and things of this nature though, I think it's understood that PT is not only going to be a part of your daily regardless, but it is also going to be a form of punishment for screwing up.

    In the context of being a parent or whatever, I would never PT my kids as punishment for anything. We do a lot of physical fitness activities as a family and I like that my kids associate these activity with fun and enjoyment and quality time together.
  • Azdak
    Azdak Posts: 8,281 Member
    Shan790 wrote: »
    my hubby and I coach football. We have one coach who is horrible for using it as a punishment for dropped passes, missed tackles etc. We will not punish mistakes with physical activity. I've seen kids want to quit because of it. At the start of every practice though there is a conditioning series we do. Everyone does it, everyone hates it, everyone accepts its part of getting stronger, faster, and better at the game. Some kids do more laps or more push ups because the point is to push your limits. Making a running back do the same lap as a big line man is just silly.

    You sound intelligent. I'll bet the other coaches think you're weird.
  • Azdak
    Azdak Posts: 8,281 Member
    One element of good coaching is "pushing" your client/athlete beyond what they think they can do and discover abilities they didn't know they had. This requires skill, knowledge, empathy and self-discipline on the part of the coach. Unfortunately very few coaches have these abilities -- the others are either bullies or blindly mimic the blustering caricature of a "coach".
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,029 Member
    As punishment, IMO no. Best punishment for just about anything is to restrict them from what they enjoy, IMO.

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  • crisb2
    crisb2 Posts: 329 Member
    Same concept as rewarding with food.
  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    Not sure it's a great thing for parents, but for coaches, Heck, Yeah!