Finding boyfriend/girlfriend material on Tinder?

I have never used it. I hear it's just a hook up thing. Having said that, you never know, you may find a relationship out of it. Stranger things have happened.

I've tried www.pof.com, www.okcupid.com, and www.eharmony.com. So far I haven't met anyone from any of the three that has seriously peaked my interest.

I do know a lot of guys (basically every single one minus one) that has said www.pof.com or www.okcupid.com has been nothing but a *kitten* magnet (excuse my language). I tried pof.com and talked to two lovely ladies but when the night was over I didn't want to speak with them anymore as it felt wrong. I'm what I consider a nice guy with nerd/self-image issues and I felt guilty praying on women when it came to dating sites.

Anyways, Eharmoney has been a little better as I feel the women on there are of higher caliber since you have to pay for it. I'm sorry but a woman who's main title says "stay at home mom looking for a sugar daddy" is just sick to me. I want someone with more substance than that.

Anyways, I wouldn't recommend anything on the Internet to find the right person. There are so many avenues to meet someone now and days that I think any of them can be reasonable but the biggest thing is to stay safe, meet in a public area, and don't settle.

It drives me nuts the amount of women that settle for some *kitten* because they don't want to be alone. I dunno I'm definitely old fashioned my father taught me to teach a woman with respect and I've never been one who counted their self worth by how many women they slept with.

I've never used tinder and am not sure if I'd want to. I hope maybe this was helpful in anyway.

This place should have a dating area. I've been single for almost 12 years now, there may be something wrong with me that I'm not seeing. Maybe I give off serial killer vibes. POF and OKCupid just don't work all that well unless you have a super confident sounding profile.

Well if anyone is from the North East of England and female, I try to be nice (emphasis on 'try'), I'm not after a 'hook up' and I'm definitely, totally not a serial killer. I can't stress that last part enough. I don't have a list of victims I want to add you to, I promise.

mfp2014mfp wrote: »

The only people I know that use tinder use it for hook ups. The only other thing Ive heard about tinder is what I see on the news, which was 1 girl raped and anther one murdered, both by people they alledgedly met through the app. I have no personal experience with it however just what friends say and whats on the news, but I wouldnt go near it if I was looking for a life partner, but I'm old fashioned.

Tinder seems dangerous, and so does Craigslist. Remember that couple who lured that person to get murdered with their ad?

Oh, and I met my honey on a social media site, NOT a dating site. *cheers*