Sex?

GalaxyBird
GalaxyBird Posts: 24 Member
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For those of you who have lost significant amounts of weight, I am wondering how it has affected your sex life, especially the act of having sex. I am just curious to see what has gotten better, worse, or changed.
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  • GalaxyBird
    GalaxyBird Posts: 24 Member
    TastesLikeBurning wrote: »
    Sex drive has gone up. I think the act itself is better. However, unfortunately, the frequency has not exactly gone up.

    well that seriously sucks :( all that hard work - you deserve it!
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    I will just say this...Amazing.
  • caitconquersweight
    caitconquersweight Posts: 316 Member
    Sex drive is the same. My dude touches more parts of my body than he did before. We do things we didn't really do when I was at my highest.

    It wasn't like some magical miraculous porno revelation or anything lol. Things are great, but things were never really that bad to begin with.
  • 4aces61
    4aces61 Posts: 292 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    I will just say this...Amazing.

    This,a lot. B)
  • oORosadaOo
    oORosadaOo Posts: 97 Member
    I can move more easily and feel more comfortable in my body.

    Still waiting for my sex drive to come back, though. :disappointed:
  • Lilly_the_Hillbilly
    Lilly_the_Hillbilly Posts: 914 Member
    Don't mind if I do.
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    Sex is better of course, but I was thinking this is because I'm older now and want to have it constantly!
  • sydneydeb
    sydneydeb Posts: 93 Member
    What is this "sex" you speak of? ;)
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    Hasn't changed much either way. Seeing as I don't have a partner...I don't have it much. But lately, since I've been on BC, I don't care too much about it either, so it doesn't bother me. :)
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,147 Member
    Sex is the same, just more slapping sounds.
  • Pickles175
    Pickles175 Posts: 211 Member
    Liftng4Lis wrote: »
    Sex is better of course, but I was thinking this is because I'm older now and want to have it constantly!

    This!
  • 365andstillalive
    365andstillalive Posts: 663 Member
    I'd say it's gotten better, and a little more frequent. Which is probably just more a confidence thing on my end. Walk around half naked all the time, suddenly I can compete with videogames for my SOs attention on weekends hahah
  • Cortneyrenee04
    Cortneyrenee04 Posts: 1,117 Member
    It's a lot more fun and feels less like work now :blush:
  • AnthonyThrashD
    AnthonyThrashD Posts: 306 Member
    She makes me leave my HRM so she can watch my BPM and does stuff that could make me have a heart attack :s
  • Nic0919
    Nic0919 Posts: 954 Member
    I lost 50#, sex is incredible! And with the distance running, my stamina is greatly increased
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
    My ex was less attracted to me. No harm no foul though. We got together when I wasn't as fit, and that's what he liked. I can't fault him for that.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    GalaxyBird wrote: »
    For those of you who have lost significant amounts of weight, I am wondering how it has affected your sex life, especially the act of having sex. I am just curious to see what has gotten better, worse, or changed.

    Well, now when I'm panting it's because we're both immensely satisfied... whereas before, I was panting because I was exhausted from the effort. So yeah, that's been good.
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
    My sex drive has always been pretty healthy, definately increased since though. Alas as I'm single it's a solo sport rather than a 2 player event.
  • GalaxyBird
    GalaxyBird Posts: 24 Member
    zyxst wrote: »
    Sex is the same, just more slapping sounds.

    omg I just died!

  • mamadon
    mamadon Posts: 1,422 Member
    Well I've lost 124 pounds, the hubby 127, so thats 251 pounds less in our bed. Lets just say things have definitely gotten more interesting lol! and lots more fun!
  • 1brokegal44
    1brokegal44 Posts: 562 Member
    Doesn't need to be a significant amount....
  • TossaBeanBag
    TossaBeanBag Posts: 458 Member
    Let's just say, my life will probably have a happy ending.
  • PurrlyGirl
    PurrlyGirl Posts: 59 Member
    I've still got a lot to lose, but I've noticed that my drive steadily climbing. I used to really love gettin' frisky, then I gained a buuuuunch of weight, and then I just didn't feel hot anymore. I stopped wanting it, I mean my drive just totally tanked.

    Ever since I started losing, it's been coming back. I feel hot, so I flirt more with my husband and instigate intimacy, and I've been way more relaxed and open to some more...adventurous activities there. If it's this good now, I'm looking forward to when I hit goal weight and hot costumes and lingerie are easy to come by. :D
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    a song title comes to mind.

    Better, Faster, Harder, Stronger.

    On top of that, set aside a lot more time.
  • KameHameHaaaa
    KameHameHaaaa Posts: 837 Member
    I'll let you know when I start having it again haha. :disappointed: My ex just liked me better bigger.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    edited November 2014
    it's like night and day. I used to hide under the blankets the entire time and not let my fiance see me naked. I don't think he ever saw my full body at once.

    Now it's the opposite.
  • fat2fit4good
    fat2fit4good Posts: 154
    my arm doesn't get as tired as before...
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    GalaxyBird wrote: »
    For those of you who have lost significant amounts of weight, I am wondering how it has affected your sex life, especially the act of having sex. I am just curious to see what has gotten better, worse, or changed.

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  • shadowloss
    shadowloss Posts: 293 Member
    Mine Has :o
    Her's Hasn't, never had it :s

    Great News is, Fitbit counts all arm movement.
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    I've always had a high sex drive, but it's gotten much higher since I've lost weight. The fitter I get, the better it gets. And squats... makes it so tight down there.

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