Having nightmares about food

theblondetrick
theblondetrick Posts: 192 Member
edited November 8 in Motivation and Support
I've been counting calories this time for a week now and I have been doing really well, but I'm so scared that I'll get back to my old habits and with a reason. I had already lost about 14-15 kg ( around 30 pounds) two times before and gained it all back and put on some more. Now I started the weight loss process for the third time and if I fail again, I probably won't have the strength and motivation to do it once again.

I've had two dreams ( more like nightmares) about food already. In the dreams i was binge eating and it was so scary because it was so realistic, just like the binges that I used to have before.When I woke up and realized it was just a dream I was both relieved and scared. I just really don't want to go back to that, but I know I'll be tempted because it's happened before and binges are usually really hard to control.

So, has anybody had any similar experiences? How do you deal with binge cravings?

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  • fearlessleader104
    fearlessleader104 Posts: 723 Member
    seek a psychiatrist.
  • theblondetrick
    theblondetrick Posts: 192 Member
    Lol, I don't think it's something you need do see a psychiatrist for. I think it's pretty normal to dream about thing that are bothering you. I was just asking for advice on how to control the binge urges.
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    It's just anxiety dreams, not really anything to be concerned about. As far as the binging, why are you wanting to binge? I have to wonder how many calories you're eating daily. If you're undereating, this will make you hungrier and more likely to binge. You shouldn't be starving yourself but rather eating sensibly.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    1) Manage stress. One of the most important aspects of controlling binge eating is to find alternate ways to handle stress and other overwhelming feelings without using food. These may include exercising, meditating, using sensory relaxation strategies, and practicing simple breathing exercises.
    2) Eat 3 meals a day plus healthy snacks. Eating breakfast jump starts your metabolism in the morning. Follow breakfast with a balanced lunch and dinner, and healthy snacks in between. Stick to scheduled mealtimes, as skipping meals often leads to binge eating later in the day.
    3) Avoid temptation. You’re much more likely to overeat if you have junk food, desserts, and unhealthy snacks in the house. Remove the temptation by clearing your fridge and cupboards of your favorite binge foods.
    4) Stop dieting. The deprivation and hunger of strict dieting can trigger food cravings and the urge to overeat. Instead of dieting, focus on eating in moderation. Find nutritious foods that you enjoy and eat only until you feel content, not uncomfortably stuffed. Avoid banning certain foods as this can make you crave them even more.
    5) Exercise. Not only will exercise help you lose weight in a healthy way, but it also lifts depression, improves overall health, and reduces stress. The natural mood-boosting effects of exercise can help put a stop to emotional eating.
    6) Fight boredom. Instead of snacking when you're bored, distract yourself. Take a walk, call a friend, read, or take up a hobby such as painting or gardening.
    7) Get enough sleep. If you're tired, you may want to keep eating in order to boost your energy. Take a nap or go to bed earlier instead.
    8) Listen to your body. Learn to distinguish between physical and emotional hunger. If you ate recently and don't have a rumbling stomach, you're probably not really hungry. Give the craving time to pass.
    9) Keep a food diary. Write down what you eat, when, how much, and how you're feeling when you eat. You may see patterns emerge that reveal the connection between your moods and binge eating.
    10) Get support. You're more likely to succumb to binge eating triggers if you lack a solid support network. Talking helps, even if it’s not with a professional. Lean on family and friends, join a support group, and if possible consult a therapist.

    Tips taken from http://www.helpguide.org/articles/eating-disorders/binge-eating-disorder.htm.
  • theblondetrick
    theblondetrick Posts: 192 Member
    I'm trying to eat less than 1300 calories. I have the binge urges because I used to use food as comfort for feeling depressed and then it turned into a habit and habits are not easy to break. Now I'm trying to convince myself that food isn't gonna help, but sometimes the urge is stronger than my will.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    I'm trying to eat less than 1300 calories. I have the binge urges because I used to use food as comfort for feeling depressed and then it turned into a habit and habits are not easy to break. Now I'm trying to convince myself that food isn't gonna help, but sometimes the urge is stronger than my will.

    This is why you should seek help from a psychiatrist.
  • theblondetrick
    theblondetrick Posts: 192 Member
    I've actually been to a psychologist and it didn't help, but I think I've been getting better on my own now. I'm still scared of getting back to that, though.
  • I have found that it works best to replace wanting to eat with something else or some sort of activity. I used to do a similar thing but found that lifting weights or going for a walk instead of turning to food is better for dealing with depression. Whenever I binge, I feel more sick and depressed afterward- it is a vicious cycle! It is hard to get off relying on food but if you maybe try taking a walk when you have the urge to binge you'll feel better about yourself afterwards. I find too that I want to eat everything bad/in sight when I deprive myself of food. Maybe try not restricting yourself as much.
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Lots of people use food as a comforting mechanism. Why do you think certain foods are referred to as "comfort foods?" Really, the best thing you can do is to be aware of your behavior. If you find yourself wanting to eat, drink a glass of water, then stop and think, am I really hungry, or is it something else. It takes some getting used to, and also it takes learning how to manage stress and break bad habits, but you can do it.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    The only food dreams I have are of occasionally taking a bite of something that looks delicious - usually a cookie or some cake - without thinking. As soon as it's in my mouth I panic when I realize it has wheat in it. (TMI - I can't eat wheat/gluten because it makes me puke out both ends.) I've been gluten-free for a few years now, and I never dreamed about food before I was GF.

    I'm very careful in real life, so to be so sloppy in a dream freaks me out a bit. I usually end up realizing that I'm in a dream within moments, so it's OK. It doesn't happen often enough to bother me, though. It's strange that I have those dreams, since I'm not lacking for treats in my life. I'm actually quite the accomplished gluten-free baker.

    OP, I think you are very right when you said, "I think it's pretty normal to dream about things that are bothering you." I think our dreams are similar in that they both deal with control. You're struggling with controlling your binges, and I'm struggling with the need to carefully monitor the ingredients in everything I eat. This may just be our subconscious helping us blow off a little steam from our day to day struggles. :)
  • darrensurrey
    darrensurrey Posts: 3,942 Member
    Certainly, I'd seek professional help (not a judgement at all).

    Last time I had a dream about trolleys filled with cream cakes and I just stuffed my face with the cakes. It was awesome. And then I woke up. :(
  • WatchJoshLift
    WatchJoshLift Posts: 520 Member
    I had the same thing happen to me when I first started. I had dreams about bags of potato chips, deep fried chicken tenders and fries (American). After two or three weeks, the dreams stopped and haven't had any since. I've been at this for two years now.
  • acogg
    acogg Posts: 1,870 Member
    Run_Fit wrote: »
    I had the same thing happen to me when I first started. I had dreams about bags of potato chips, deep fried chicken tenders and fries (American). After two or three weeks, the dreams stopped and haven't had any since. I've been at this for two years now.

    This. When I was intensely learning the calorie count of foods and then logging, I had a dream about eating a bunch of jelly beans and having to log them. I don't even like jelly beans. I became more confident and comfortable with my logging, and it never happened again.
  • theblondetrick
    theblondetrick Posts: 192 Member
    I had another food dream last night, I think it just shows how worried I am about failing at this. I hope I'll stop stressing out so much with time, as the faith in myself grows.

    Thanks everybody!
  • WatchJoshLift
    WatchJoshLift Posts: 520 Member
    I had another food dream last night, I think it just shows how worried I am about failing at this. I hope I'll stop stressing out so much with time, as the faith in myself grows.

    Thanks everybody!

    Don't stress it, and I don't think it warrants a trip to a psychiatrist. Once you start seeing the differences in your body, the less stressful it will become and the food dreams should stop.
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