Does it really matter that my fats are consistently over?? :/

Nope, caloric deficit equals loss, doesn't matter how you get there. The last few pounds are harder and logging needs to be pretty tight, but I'd say you were there! Great job!

All calories are equal, the same way that all other units of measurement are. If you are not losing weight, it's more likely that you are currently eating around your maintenance level, which, glancing at your diary, doesn't seem wholly unlikely. It's still good to track your fats though, even though there is no reason to avoid them. It might be easier to eat less if you cut out some fatty foods, because they give you a relatively high amount of calories per gram. Also, though there is debate about it, general consensus still is that it's better not to have too high of an intake of saturated fats.

Only on a hormonal level, it will have an effect on your body composition but not your weight loss.

Calorie deficit = weight loss
Carbohydrate = fast burning energy & fat storage - insulin hormone.
Fat = slow burning & emergency energy - if insulin is active while eating then fat will be stored.

If you eat a high fat & high carbohydrate meal then your fat cells will be effected by normal hormonal behavior, this can be offset by eating fat when insulin is less active (low carbohydrate high fat meal) or not eating fat when it is (high carbohydrate, low fat meal)

This is not something that will effect your weight loss, which is genuinely as simple as calories in < calories out. It may however have an effect on your appetite & body composition. If either of these things start to become a problem for you then would be the time to adjust your macro intake; if you're happy at the moment with your diet, then you're doing everything you need to be.

Carbohydrates & protein both contain 4kcal per gram.
Fat contains 9kcal per gram.

I am so glad you asked that question because I am usually over my fats with breakfast just with 1/2 cup of milk and oatmeal, throw a banana in there somewhere and I am screwed. All of the input has really helped relieve my mind. It's all about balance I think. I need to concentrate more on my exercise and getting the required amount of exercise in to balance my diet.

@RunRutheeRun that's awesome! Those few extra lbs are apparently always the hardest. Keep doing at it, you will get there! You diary looks delicious btw! If you really just want that number on the scale you could probably flush out some water weight (we all have some) by upping water & dropping anything that bloats (eg: sugars/dairy) but obviously that'd only be a temporary thing. I did notice your salt sometimes can be a little high - salt does retain water & that may just be it!

Anyone else worrying about fat, don't it's an essential nutrient. Obviously a cake isn't the best place to get it from opposed to an avocado for example. Finding a balance that works for you. The "low fat" stuff was entirely peddled by a dieting industry that doesn't really care if individuals lose weight or not, but products that make us think we might lose weight are worth a lot of money & fat is the easiest to do this with, as it sounds bad & has more calories to boot. It's very easy to think fat in = fat on, but it's simply not how the body works.

There are even ways of eating that use dietary fat as the main source of energy (nutritional ketosis) this has proven to be sustainable long term for certain individuals & actually improved some people's base health - blood work, body fat% etc.

If you're eating at a deficit there are no naughty foods that will takeaway all your hard work.

I hate to be the bad guy but your eating enough. I know your trying to lose and everyone thinks less is more. Your first goal should always be is to hit your protein goal, from there it should be your fats since you are cutting, and if you pull from any area or don't hit your goal on a area it should be carbs. not telling you what to eat but if you want a smaller tummy or waist you need to cut back on the dairy products cause they are natural allergens that will automatically bloat you. The average day at least 200 cals you have are from snacks, tea, and coffees. There is a difference between losing weight and looking healthy and losing weight looking sickly.