Anyone need to lose 70lbs & wants a friend ?

I "only" have to lose about 40 lbs. to get down to the weight I want to be (I could go lower but first I want to see if I can maintain the loss of 40 lbs.) I am short so for me 40 lbs. is quite difficult! I have tried to lose this weight many times. So I hope you don't mind me friending you even though I don't need to lose 70 lbs.! 5 lbs. a month is about right for me as well. I don't want to be extreme just slow and steady.