If you could give some advice to your 14 year old self. What would it be?.

Noogynoogs
Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
edited November 11 in Chit-Chat
Mine would be, don't accept that ring in a few years time.
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  • Melissa90xo
    Melissa90xo Posts: 1,020 Member
    edited January 2015
    "Put that goddam pizza down and go for a run" :|

    But seriously, I'd probably tell myself to not sweat the small stuff and just let life happen. Life is sweet!
  • Sweetsluv
    Sweetsluv Posts: 2,260 Member
    Love yourself...you are beautiful, and worth it.
  • MrsBooBear
    MrsBooBear Posts: 12,618 Member
    "what other people think of you, is none of your business"
  • flabassmcgee
    flabassmcgee Posts: 659 Member
    You are NOT fat, you're just filling out. You're going to look back on pictures and kick yourself for thinking you're fat!

    Pay closer attention to nutrition so that later in life, you'll find a healthy relationship with food like you have now.
  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
    It's not okay to eat chocolate for breakfast lol
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    lighten up, laugh more, open a CrossFit gym :D
  • jellybeanhed313
    jellybeanhed313 Posts: 344 Member
    Don't waste time loving people who don't care about you. Stop eating without limits, just eat when you're hungry. You are loved.
  • HunterKiller
    HunterKiller Posts: 361 Member
    Don't hide your porn stash in the Cluedo box!!
  • BeTheChange352
    BeTheChange352 Posts: 253 Member
    I would tell myself that things are going to get really hard for quite a while and that I shouldn't use food for comfort.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    I feel like my 14 year old self was almost exactly the person I am today at 38. It's that 16 year old self who needs advice LOL
  • asdowe13
    asdowe13 Posts: 1,951 Member
    Repeat what I did.....It was awesome!
  • ulovenicole
    ulovenicole Posts: 1 Member
    Stop convincing yourself you're fat at 110 lbs. You don't know what fat is until you're 28!
  • jpaulie
    jpaulie Posts: 917 Member
    it won't make you go blind
  • SexyGamerGal
    SexyGamerGal Posts: 75 Member
    You are not fat! No matter how much you think you are because you are not size 2 and have a perfect flat stomach. Love yourself! Love who you are!
  • mitch16
    mitch16 Posts: 2,113 Member
    Push yourself socially and academically. Live outside of your comfort zone. Don't get sucked in by the mean girls.
  • Cactusgirl88
    Cactusgirl88 Posts: 113 Member
    Don't starve yourself, love yourself and focus on studying.
  • JennyJH
    JennyJH Posts: 189 Member
    What's happening to you is emotional abuse. It isn't right, it isn't fair but above all it isn't your fault. And don't wait until your 40's before you cut them out of your life.
  • engrdad
    engrdad Posts: 25 Member
    Nothing about fitness. I was active in just about every sport back then. Now I would like to give a LOT of advice about the fairer sex. Shy quiet guys in high school (even athletes) don't do that well with the ladies. ;)
  • elixile
    elixile Posts: 80 Member
    Don't suffer because of pride, perfection is not realistic or achievable.
  • otter090812
    otter090812 Posts: 380 Member
    You are beautiful and you are not fat, but FFS stop the eating insanity now!
  • TEZofAllTrades
    TEZofAllTrades Posts: 51 Member
    In the real world being thin and attractive is one of the most important things in life. If you don't change your attitude to food and fitness now, before it's too late, you will be miserable.
  • trouble007
    trouble007 Posts: 18 Member
    Be picky about boys. Very picky. Otherwise keep being your weird self...it paid off. :-)
  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
    Stay the heck out of the dugout with that boy, and don't date until AFTER high school.
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
    HunterKiller wrote: »
    Don't hide your porn stash in the Cluedo box!!

    ^ :joy: must have become awkward when the family wanted to play a family game! lol

    I would say.. stay away from men until you're 30! :joy:

  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
    HunterKiller wrote: »
    Don't hide your porn stash in the Cluedo box!!

    Love it!!
  • joshua3179
    joshua3179 Posts: 2,882 Member
    Self... Lock your door so mom doesn't walk in on you uhhhh you know... :neutral_face:
  • edensgarden2015
    edensgarden2015 Posts: 223 Member
    When that boy asks you to the school dance...say no!!!
  • rjmudlax13
    rjmudlax13 Posts: 900 Member
    If you like a girl just go talk to her. Have a normal conversation. Ask her out if it goes well. Be your goofy, slightly awkward, funny, intelligent self. It's really not that big of a deal. Rejection is not the end of the world. The worst thing that can happen is you will learn something for the next one. Also, trying really hard to be part of the "cool crowd" is a waste of time and ends up not meaning much after high school. Appreciate the great friends you already have. Just wait and see how some of those "cool" people end up anyway.

    Damn, I wish I wasn't so shy back then!!!
  • epido
    epido Posts: 353 Member
    You are not fat! You are active, athletic, and healthy. Continue to stay active so you don't have over 100 pounds to lose in anther 30 years. In 3 years, your life is going to be turned upside down. Don't turn your back on the support of family and friends. They really are looking out for you and want to help you get through it.
  • HollyMGT
    HollyMGT Posts: 111 Member
    Use vinegar on your acne, it really works! And, stop being so mopey and moody!
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