If you could give some advice to your 14 year old self. What would it be?.

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  • Beploveshomer
    Beploveshomer Posts: 283 Member
    DO NOT TRY ALCOHOL. You will get a taste for beer that will lead to an unsightly gut!
  • assthetikk
    assthetikk Posts: 2,014 Member
    Just chill and yank it like a monkey in a mango tree
  • GoldieGlocks
    GoldieGlocks Posts: 54 Member
    Love yourself. Don't just sit there while people bully you, stick up for yourself.
  • MaxPower0102
    MaxPower0102 Posts: 2,654 Member
    Mom was lying..... you won't go blind
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
    rjmudlax13 wrote: »
    If you like a girl just go talk to her. Have a normal conversation. Ask her out if it goes well. Be your goofy, slightly awkward, funny, intelligent self. It's really not that big of a deal. Rejection is not the end of the world. The worst thing that can happen is you will learn something for the next one. Also, trying really hard to be part of the "cool crowd" is a waste of time and ends up not meaning much after high school. Appreciate the great friends you already have. Just wait and see how some of those "cool" people end up anyway.

    Damn, I wish I wasn't so shy back then!!!

    ^^ you sound like such a nice person :)


    el3ctricskittl3z wrote: »
    Love yourself. Don't just sit there while people bully you, stick up for yourself.


    :heart:
  • Follow_me
    Follow_me Posts: 6,120 Member
    Do better in school
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Don't try to be popular by doing stupid things with the dumba$$ kids! No more ditching classes and care about your future more!!!
  • fara180
    fara180 Posts: 1,260 Member
    Chill out with the red lipstick, you look ridiculous.
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    edited January 2015
    You will end up more successful and happy than all of them. And don't stifle your feelings.
  • exstromn
    exstromn Posts: 176 Member
    Being chesty and having curves is alright! Stop comparing yourself to others and do your homework!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Noogynoogs wrote: »
    Mine would be, don't accept that ring in a few years time.

    Exactly!
  • kaseyr1505
    kaseyr1505 Posts: 624 Member
    I probably wouldn't say anything, because I was a stubborn 14 year old, and most of the things I know now are what was being told to me then.
  • scorpiophoenix
    scorpiophoenix Posts: 222 Member
    You're beautiful and he thinks so, too. Do not give up and do not let him go. You ARE good enough!!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    edited January 2015
    Noogynoogs wrote: »
    It's not okay to eat chocolate for breakfast lol

    Wait! WHAT?!? I've done that within the last ten days...

  • caratayloruk
    caratayloruk Posts: 58 Member
    You are not fat! Oh and be more confident, the real you is pretty awesome and people love that you
  • randilast
    randilast Posts: 99 Member
    Sweetsluv wrote: »
    Love yourself...you are beautiful, and worth it.

  • lady6starlight
    lady6starlight Posts: 127 Member
    Stop worrying about boys, it's not the worst thing ever if they reject you. You have your entire life to live and being single is really not a big deal.
  • Maries_wine_calories
    Maries_wine_calories Posts: 152 Member
    I would tell myself: "your body can and will do amazing things, take good care of it and love yourself enough to respect it in all it's forms".
  • jasefit_tx
    jasefit_tx Posts: 105
    If you're at the school dance and you like that girl, go ask her to dance instead of bs'ing with all your loser friends.
  • exstromn
    exstromn Posts: 176 Member
    edited January 2015
    You are not fat! You are active, athletic, and healthy. Continue to stay active so you don't have over 100 pounds to lose in anther 30 years.

    I can relate to that one!
  • bencze1
    bencze1 Posts: 30 Member
    study harder, be a little more ambitious. plus some lottery numbers or google stock tips.
  • cedens312
    cedens312 Posts: 20 Member
    Don't be afriad to take a risk. It will be okay.
  • ritodcin03
    ritodcin03 Posts: 105 Member
    Don't let the mean girl who is bullying you right now get into your head. Continue to be kind, funny, and open to friendship because there are so many wonderful people out there who want to be around you. Her cruel pettiness is not a measure of your worth. But if she does get into your head (because she did), take comfort in knowing that you are totally going to intimidate the hell out of her at your 25th Highschool Reunion. And it will feel sooooooo good (because it did).
  • Will_Run_for_Food
    Will_Run_for_Food Posts: 561 Member
    1) Don't let Christine and Courtney give you all that wine at the Christmas Party. 2) It really does get better. 3) Just like the song says - wear sunscreen!
  • lots2live4
    lots2live4 Posts: 107 Member
    Use two sport bras or one really good one and keep running!! lol
  • dawnna76
    dawnna76 Posts: 987 Member
    Avoid the intersection by your house when riding your bike in early october. That car is going alot faster than its supposed to be.
  • Barbellarella_
    Barbellarella_ Posts: 454 Member
    Don't be so weird!
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    I wouldn't say anything - because my choices led me here, and it's exactly where I want to be.

    If I could change something and still end up right here - my advice to myself would be: he will break you, in every way - walk away before it starts. You deserve better.
  • logicman69
    logicman69 Posts: 1,034 Member
    Don't worry about if "people are going to make fun of you" for voicing your opinions. Take risks. Ask out that pretty girl. And for god's sake stop spending all your money at the video arcade! That crap will be free in a couple years anyway.
  • laura2813
    laura2813 Posts: 84 Member
    MaxPower0102 wrote: »
    Mom was lying..... you won't go blind

    Then why does the Viagra commercial tell you to see a Dr. if you experience vision problems?
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