double standard with gym attire between men and women

laxplaya456
laxplaya456 Posts: 1
edited November 12 in Motivation and Support
Why is that women seem to get offended if guys have anything going on down there (like tight shorts or not enough support) but women can get away with having things bounce all around and if you say anything your rude?

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  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
    Nice first post
  • jennifershoo
    jennifershoo Posts: 3,198 Member
    Strong first post indeed.
  • ibamosaserreinas
    ibamosaserreinas Posts: 294 Member
    You are not her father... Why do you think you get to say anything to her about it?
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
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  • jennifershoo
    jennifershoo Posts: 3,198 Member
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  • ibamosaserreinas
    ibamosaserreinas Posts: 294 Member
    jennifershoo wrote: »
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    LOL.
  • megganjeninngs69
    megganjeninngs69 Posts: 51 Member
    Well i guess it just sucks for everybody no one wants to c a squirrel in the gym or flopn melons but it happens lmao!!
  • stephanieluvspb
    stephanieluvspb Posts: 997 Member
    Did somebody have a bad day at the gym today?
  • Codilee87
    Codilee87 Posts: 509 Member
    Everybody should keep their bouncy bits under control (as much as possible) But if they don't its usually good for a chuckle
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    What?
  • stellasaur
    stellasaur Posts: 19 Member
    You are completely right. There ought to be complete equality in the gym. If women are allowed to having bouncing breasts then men should be allowed to have out of control moobs too. It's only fair!
  • ChickenLittle1121
    ChickenLittle1121 Posts: 32 Member
    Some of us can't keep the jiggle under control, unfortunately. The bigger they are, the harder they are to strap down.

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  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    stellasaur wrote: »
    You are completely right. There ought to be complete equality in the gym. If women are allowed to having bouncing breasts then men should be allowed to have out of control moobs too. It's only fair!

    lol...But they are allowed to.
  • bettieb1988
    bettieb1988 Posts: 122 Member
    I go to the gym and focus on my workout. What other people do is none of my concern!
  • obscuremusicreference
    obscuremusicreference Posts: 1,320 Member
    laxplaya456 wrote: »
    Why is that women seem to get offended if guys have anything going on down there (like tight shorts or not enough support) but women can get away with having things bounce all around and if you say anything your rude?

    What did you say
    Tell us exactly what you said
  • iwillsucceed0444
    iwillsucceed0444 Posts: 432 Member
    Stop looking at my boobs OP, gosh.
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  • kellycasey5
    kellycasey5 Posts: 486 Member

    In the US, and many other countries, there really is no acceptable or polite way to comment on a woman's "things" that bounce all over (assumption you are referencing body parts), especially a stranger exercising. Any comment is rude, inappropriate, and very likely sexual harassment. It really doesn't matter if you were offended or trying to pay the woman a compliment or any other well meaning intention along the way, comments about female anatomy like this are off limits and even may be grounds for legal action.

    This is not a double standard: it is also considered rude, inappropriate, and very likely sexual harassment for a woman to say the same to a man, and also may be grounds for legal action. Most fitness facilities have zero tolerance for this (neither males nor females are exempt) and will take all complaints seriously, and so do most local law enforcement agencies. Everybody should have the right to go to a public place and be free from harassment.

    Breasts, on women AND on men, bounce, no matter how you try to prevent it. If you have them and you are moving, so are they.

    I will not go into the difference between seeming offended and saying something rude. That is not a double standard at all but 2 very different things. Think whatever you like, but be cautious with what you choose to say.

    Regarding attire: most fitness facilities have policies regarding workout attire, and these apply to males and females equally. Go to the manager and make a complaint if you believe an outfit is inappropriate for a public location.

    Also, any time I noticed "anything going on down there" in reference to a man's genitals in a gym,or a woman's, I was never offended or impressed, but usually trying my absolute best not to laugh. Be careful with what you assume somebody is thinking.

    It would help if we knew what was said.....
  • Pupslice
    Pupslice Posts: 213 Member
    Uh oh, could you see a lady's dirty pillows?
  • vvallentyne
    vvallentyne Posts: 77 Member
    stephanieluvspb wrote: »
    Did somebody have a bad day at the gym today?


    Hilarious!
  • FenTiger89
    FenTiger89 Posts: 49 Member
    Pupslice wrote: »
    Uh oh, could you see a lady's dirty pillows?

    *snort laugh*
  • azulvioleta6
    azulvioleta6 Posts: 4,195 Member
    I've never noticed any men with too much "bounce."

    However, there are a lot of women out there who could use additional support. Of course you cannot actually SAY anything, no matter how painful it is to watch.
  • sofaking6
    sofaking6 Posts: 4,589 Member
    laxplaya456 wrote: »
    Why is that women seem to get offended if guys have anything going on down there (like tight shorts or not enough support) but women can get away with having things bounce all around and if you say anything your rude?

    If I say anything my rude what?
  • Chamiram
    Chamiram Posts: 12 Member
    bettieb1988 wrote: »
    I go to the gym and focus on my workout. What other people do is none of my concern!

    Same here my friend :wink:
  • Lindsay_the_great
    Lindsay_the_great Posts: 209 Member
    edited February 2015
    Men's packages offend my delicate sensibilities. They should wear fluffy skirts.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,232 Member
    So, it OP saying that it's ok for women to comment on mens packages, but not the other way around? I didn't realise either was appropriate.
  • tjcuts339
    tjcuts339 Posts: 188 Member
    big_lindsay wrote: »
    Men's packages offend my delicate sensibilities. They should wear fluffy skirts.
    Chamiram wrote: »
    bettieb1988 wrote: »
    I go to the gym and focus on my workout. What other people do is none of my concern!

    Same here my friend :wink:

  • tjcuts339
    tjcuts339 Posts: 188 Member
    Also agreed. With above post We go to the Gym To work out. What other people. Are doing Who cares
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