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Women (men too).... do you tell your significant other what you weigh?

Tiamo719
Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
Just wondering if I'm the only one too embarrassed. :|
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  • AmberStarr_87
    AmberStarr_87 Posts: 1,291 Member
    Yes, I do. If I'm going to tell an entire online fitness community, I sure hope I would tell my husband!
  • abadvat
    abadvat Posts: 1,241 Member
    a - i don't know how much i weight - last time i was on a scale was probably 3 years ago. b - she doesn't care how much i weight anyway c- i don't care how much she weights! Quicker answer to your question no!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    Yes, I do. If I'm going to tell an entire online fitness community, I sure hope I would tell my husband!

    He's not my husband and he's not a member on here, besides, I have my weight private on here.

  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Didn't used to, but now brag every time I lose more! :blush:
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Yes, I do. If I'm going to tell an entire online fitness community, I sure hope I would tell my husband!

    Change husband to SO and it should be the same answer right?
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    Didn't used to, but now brag every time I lose more! :blush:

    Good for you! :)

  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...

    Yep. We are just in so much agreement today!

    I only weigh 5 pounds less than when I started getting fit 2 years ago. I can assure you though that I've dropped sizes and my body looks completely different. The more you lose and tone, the less the the number means.
  • cnadiger
    cnadiger Posts: 168 Member
    Nope, but I do tell my BF when I lose or gain. I think his prespective is skewed though because he recently called from the store to ask me if he should get me this shirt in a size small. Ummm, no. My D's require a size large. Always.
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...

    He does have problems with his sight, he thinks I look great :-)

    I did search prior to creating this threat and I couldn't find anything, probably worded differently.

  • AmberStarr_87
    AmberStarr_87 Posts: 1,291 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Yes, I do. If I'm going to tell an entire online fitness community, I sure hope I would tell my husband!

    Change husband to SO and it should be the same answer right?

    Yes, that was the point.
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,254 Member
    If he asked I would. Besides, he has eyes, I don't need to tell him what the scale says. Thankfully, I think he likes what he sees.
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
    If she asks, I'll tell her. If I asked, I suspect she'd do the same. That said, I didn't lose weight for her, and wouldn't expect her to change her weight just for me.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Tiamo719 wrote: »
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...

    He does have problems with his sight, he thinks I look great :-)

    I did search prior to creating this threat and I couldn't find anything, probably worded differently.

    OP the issue is you because why would you say that about your SO?
  • sevsmom
    sevsmom Posts: 1,172 Member
    Not that he cares, but yeah. He knows pretty much what I weigh. I'll actually tell anyone. I also don't hide my age. Although, recently a few gals pegged me for nearly a decade younger than I am.....but I think they were just being nice. :-)
  • ttcbelieve
    ttcbelieve Posts: 181 Member
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...

    RLOL....Very true
  • kristen6350
    kristen6350 Posts: 1,094 Member
    I'll tell anyone anything. Specifics too. I have no filter.
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Tiamo719 wrote: »
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...

    He does have problems with his sight, he thinks I look great :-)

    I did search prior to creating this threat and I couldn't find anything, probably worded differently.

    OP the issue is you because why would you say that about your SO?

    Apparently the issue is with me, that's why I'm asking. I love it that he thinks I look great but I am very unhappy with my appearance.
  • kamakazeekim
    kamakazeekim Posts: 1,183 Member
    I never used to...I was so ashamed. But I've lost a LOT of weight now and I am proud of where I'm at. I'm 9 pounds away from my goal weight!
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    I never used to...I was so ashamed. But I've lost a LOT of weight now and I am proud of where I'm at. I'm 9 pounds away from my goal weight!

    And you look awesome! :-)
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Yeah, I do. He doesn't care. I mean he thinks I look great but he doesn't really understand size 6 or size 8 or what weight necessarily means or looks like. So it sort of goes in one ear and out the other with him.
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    He couldn't possibly care less, but I'd have no problem telling him.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Tiamo719 wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Tiamo719 wrote: »
    We've had this thread before!

    Unless your partner has problems with his sight he knows what you look like regardless of whether he knows a number...

    He does have problems with his sight, he thinks I look great :-)

    I did search prior to creating this threat and I couldn't find anything, probably worded differently.

    OP the issue is you because why would you say that about your SO?

    Apparently the issue is with me, that's why I'm asking. I love it that he thinks I look great but I am very unhappy with my appearance.

    Sit him down and tell him why you feel the way you feel. If you want you can ask him why he finds you attractive. I recommend that questions really sucks hearing a women ask men that.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Yes. We are always close to the same weight (unless I am pregnant which I won't be ever again).
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  • cblue315
    cblue315 Posts: 3,836 Member
    I usually did not until I was so proud of my weight loss.
    Down 103 at this point. Now I have it posted on my fridge for all to see.
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    yep. we're very open about our health and fitness. it's pretty awesome actually. he's on here too.
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    cblue315 wrote: »
    I usually did not until I was so proud of my weight loss.
    Down 103 at this point. Now I have it posted on my fridge for all to see.

    103 lbs, wow! You give me inspiration. I want to lose 48, down 13 already.

  • epona08
    epona08 Posts: 39 Member
    I'll tell anyone anything. Specifics too. I have no filter.

    This would be me too.

    Besides, if I'm embarrassed of my weight, what better motivation to move more/eat less. Of course it doesn't always work like that for everyone, but for me it sure seems to.
  • carrieliz81
    carrieliz81 Posts: 489 Member
    I tell him. Whatevs. I'm embarrassed, but the man loves me and my crazy, crazy dog, so I figure it won't scare him off. It's also embarrassing because I weigh about the same as him, if not 5 to 10 lbs more at times. Oh well. We still look cute together! :smile:
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