How old were you when you had your first date and first kiss?

CaptainBrownie
CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
edited November 13 in Chit-Chat
I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.
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  • callmejessica
    callmejessica Posts: 1,868 Member
    My 25-year old friend has never kissed a guy, never had a boyfriend...I don't think she's even held hands with a guy before! Everyone goes at their own pace. You're not a loser!
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    I was almost 16. I never dated much.
  • CaptainBrownie
    CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
    callmejessica wrote: »
    My 25-year old friend has never kissed a guy, never had a boyfriend...I don't think she's even held hands with a guy before! Everyone goes at their own pace. You're not a loser!

    I've never held hands either haha, unless you count primary school where we were asked to partner up with the person next to us and hold hands when crossing the road.


  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    First kiss 14, first date 16
  • fallenoaks37
    fallenoaks37 Posts: 9
    First kiss and date at 17. I regret not waiting for someone of quality. First relationship at 26. We've been married for 6 years now.
  • CaptainBrownie
    CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
    fallenoaks37 wrote: »
    First kiss and date at 17. I regret not waiting for someone of quality. First relationship at 26. We've been married for 6 years now.

    You give me hope!

  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    21 then got married right away lol
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  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    took me awhile but once I got into college that changed lol 19 was first kiss and date.
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!
  • MezaEza
    MezaEza Posts: 267 Member
    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

    I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.

    Totally not a loser! I'm in the exact same!
    I used to worry about it when i was younger and most of my friends were getting boyfriends but it doesn't bother me anymore.
    I'd rather find some one I genuinely like instead of the first person who comes along!
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!
  • CaptainBrownie
    CaptainBrownie Posts: 99 Member
    MezaEza wrote: »
    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

    I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.

    Totally not a loser! I'm in the exact same!
    I used to worry about it when i was younger and most of my friends were getting boyfriends but it doesn't bother me anymore.
    I'd rather find some one I genuinely like instead of the first person who comes along!

    Same here. I know my friends completely regret their first kisses. I want mine to mean something as cringey as that sounds.
  • paintguru77
    paintguru77 Posts: 7 Member
    I think I was 17 for both. Too much other stuff going on in HS.
  • justinegibbons
    justinegibbons Posts: 918 Member
    14 for my first kiss, 16 for my first date
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)
  • MezaEza
    MezaEza Posts: 267 Member
    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    MezaEza wrote: »
    CaptainBrownie wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I've never had either haha. The opportunity has presented itself a few times but I just always end up running away from it.

    I'm a loser aren't I? I've gotten this old and never even experienced a relationship! Ahh at least I have my cats to keep me company.

    Totally not a loser! I'm in the exact same!
    I used to worry about it when i was younger and most of my friends were getting boyfriends but it doesn't bother me anymore.
    I'd rather find some one I genuinely like instead of the first person who comes along!

    Same here. I know my friends completely regret their first kisses. I want mine to mean something as cringey as that sounds.

    I totally get you! :)

  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    19 years old
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)

    Mmm now you make curious how funny your face look like while singing lol!
  • IslandDreamer64
    IslandDreamer64 Posts: 258 Member
    First kiss at 15 or 16, first date at 16, first "relationship" at 19. I was too busy being a good student to care about boys. ;-)
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)

    Mmm now you make curious how funny your face look like while singing lol!

    Rofl if only you could see and I was brave enough to post it hehe I think it looked a little like this :wtf:
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)

    Mmm now you make curious how funny your face look like while singing lol!

    Rofl if only you could see and I was brave enough to post it hehe I think it looked a little like this :wtf:
    You must be a singer lmao
  • xotaaay
    xotaaay Posts: 30
    Omg you're not a loser, don't say that.
    First date: 12 kiss: 13.
    I wish I waited for my first kiss to be with someone special & not just someone who was convenient to say I had my first kiss with!
    First long-term serious relationship: 18.
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)

    Mmm now you make curious how funny your face look like while singing lol!

    Rofl if only you could see and I was brave enough to post it hehe I think it looked a little like this :wtf:
    You must be a singer lmao

    In my car and the shower, hell yeah!!
  • _JustDG_
    _JustDG_ Posts: 1,584
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    I was 21 too, I got married THEN had my first kiss. Meh.

  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    I was 21 too, I got married THEN had my first kiss. Meh.

    Woww amazing!
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)

    Mmm now you make curious how funny your face look like while singing lol!

    Rofl if only you could see and I was brave enough to post it hehe I think it looked a little like this :wtf:
    You must be a singer lmao

    In my car and the shower, hell yeah!!

    We better stop doing chit chat here about other topics.. :) Don't want to detrail the thread lol!
  • ladd_alvy1986
    ladd_alvy1986 Posts: 203
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    ladd_alvy1986 wrote: »
    mamameaof2kiddos wrote: »
    21 then got married right away lol

    Now that must have been an amazing kiss, props to the hubby!!

    @ladd_alvy1986‌ yeppp it was! :)

    I love hearing about stuff like that, it shows that love is not dead!!

    Love is growing like a weed :)

    You know it, Let it grow, let it grow!! (Singing in my best frozen impression lol)

    Mmm now you make curious how funny your face look like while singing lol!

    Rofl if only you could see and I was brave enough to post it hehe I think it looked a little like this :wtf:
    You must be a singer lmao

    In my car and the shower, hell yeah!!

    We better stop doing chit chat here about other topics.. :) Don't want to detrail the thread lol!

    Too true ;)
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