Women (men too).... do you tell your significant other what you weigh?

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  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    I imagine my husband could probably guess within 5-10 pounds what I weigh...but it's not like I'd have the number printed on a tee shirt.
  • CrabNebula
    CrabNebula Posts: 1,119 Member
    Yes.
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    edited February 2015
    The closest thing I have to an SO is a member here, and on my friends list, so he gets regular updates on my progress. Also, anyone can see my ticker. :grinning:

    But I've told quite a few people who aren't on MFP that I've lost over 75 lb, and told a couple people that dying my hair was my reward for getting back under 200.

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  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    B_x_L wrote:
    I can't get over the emphasis on the site about weight. What looks better? 230lbs of chewed up bubblegum or 230lbs of angus beef?
    Composition is what matters, not weight, forget a scale was even invented.
    Both matter. Being overweight is being overweight, even if it's all extra muscle. That's not as dangerous to your health as being 50% body fat (which is where I started, and there are plenty of people who are worse than that).
    I meant the female being lighter than the male
    Not necessarily. Women are generally smaller, yes, but my brother & his wife are about the same size, and I'm about the same size as my last boyfriend (we wear the same size shoe, are the same height, and are now within a few pounds of the same weight).
  • suncluster
    suncluster Posts: 539 Member
    I was embarrassed when I weighed more than him. Now, I don't mind telling him.
  • AmigaMaria001
    AmigaMaria001 Posts: 489 Member
    I've been married for 43 yrs and not once in all those years have I told my husband what I weigh... not even now that I've reached my goal. Just can't do it!
  • MindySaysWhaaat
    MindySaysWhaaat Posts: 401 Member
    Even when I was at my heaviest, I've never been afraid to tell anyone what I weigh. I figure it's just a number, one that will be decreasing this year :)
  • bethouiseevans
    bethouiseevans Posts: 41 Member
    I don't - if he asked I wouldn't lie but I don't go out of my way to tell him. Not because I don't trust him or anything like that I just don't feel like its needed :)
  • maggierenee88
    maggierenee88 Posts: 352 Member
    Now I do but I never used to
  • butterpecan_ts
    butterpecan_ts Posts: 48 Member
    Yes. He knows what I look like naked. Knowing my weight shouldn't change his viewpoint. If it did make a difference, I married an idiot.
  • Morgan5647
    Morgan5647 Posts: 598 Member
    butterpecan_ts wrote: »
    Yes. He knows what I look like naked. Knowing my weight shouldn't change his viewpoint. If it did make a difference, I married an idiot.

    Lol ❤️ It!! Yes I tell my husband too
  • justinegibbons
    justinegibbons Posts: 918 Member
    Heck no!
  • miguelgonzalez192
    miguelgonzalez192 Posts: 259 Member
    We always weigh in together
  • lborsato1
    lborsato1 Posts: 1,011 Member
    He has never asked.....he doesn't care - loves me big or small.... But I would tell him if he asked...
  • PerfectMisfit
    PerfectMisfit Posts: 360 Member
    Yes, but he doesn't care.
  • AllAboutThatPace
    AllAboutThatPace Posts: 151 Member
    I didn't at first, because I was embarrassed, but after the first 10 lbs came off, I told him. He's always been very supportive and celebrates with me when I hit a goal. :)
  • cuckoo_jenibeth
    cuckoo_jenibeth Posts: 1,434 Member
    I have never spoken the words, "I weigh x pounds" but he has to know that I started out a *kitten* ton, cuz he knows that I have lost almost 60 pounds & still have 16# to go! He can math!
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