any good chatup lines for the gym without seeming like a stalker

Saab_2015
Saab_2015 Posts: 277 Member
edited November 13 in Chit-Chat
2nd week in a row seen the same girl ... Help
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  • FitGal4ever42
    FitGal4ever42 Posts: 265 Member
    Leave her alone.. she is there to workout. A good line would be to STFU. Don't speak to her during her workout. That *kitten* would piss me off... sorry.
  • miguelgonzalez192
    miguelgonzalez192 Posts: 259 Member
    Dude I have to agree with her not really the time or place
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Is it really that hard to talk to someone new at the girl? I can think of many things to talk about at the gym with someone new.
  • Saab_2015
    Saab_2015 Posts: 277 Member
    Don't worry I didn't .. thought I was being shy I just smiled back ... Thank God I didn't make the school boy error
  • SJunczyk
    SJunczyk Posts: 430 Member
    I wouldnt mind having someone to natter with at the gym :) might not be a full on convo but i always make time for a chat :)
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    The best thing is to explain to her how you've seen her for the last two weeks, tried finding her on facebook, and then put out a craigslist missed connections ad for her.. when she didn't respond, you were devastated so decided to follow her home one night. and saw that she lives in the 4th house on the right and you would do whatever it takes to go out with her.............. Works every time.
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    Meh, hit her up at the water fountain or something. If someone get's pissed for you talking to them, that's on them, not you.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    I've had guys chat me up at the gym. I don't really care. Usually, they talk about the lifts I'm doing, but I've never had one give me pointers. Sometimes, they ask if I need a spot.
  • Saab_2015
    Saab_2015 Posts: 277 Member
    Lol there was 6 machines empty I was on machine 5 and she used machine 4 ... Maybe she is stalking me ... To make it easier will go there same time same machine next week. This Ant has high hopes
  • Becka4Real
    Becka4Real Posts: 1,527 Member
    Just keep it short and sweet. Smile every time you see her. You'll know if she wants to talk or if she wants you to leave her alone.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Saab_2015 wrote: »
    Lol there was 6 machines empty I was on machine 5 and she used machine 4 ... Maybe she is stalking me ... To make it easier will go there same time same machine next week. This Ant has high hopes

    Wow you must like this girl or something.

  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    Smile. Say "Hi, my name is X". She will likely say something back & if it's curt- just tell her to have a great workout, & that you need to get back to yours.
  • MaxPower0102
    MaxPower0102 Posts: 2,654 Member
    FitGal4ever42 wrote: »
    Leave her alone.. she is there to workout. A good line would be to STFU. Don't speak to her during her workout. That *kitten* would piss me off... sorry.
    Wow.... how do you really feel? :o

  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    Cough- original to mock thread
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,347 Member
    Just say hi. Chatup lines are contrived and sad.
  • WishesOnTheStar
    WishesOnTheStar Posts: 114 Member
    you miss 100% of the shots you never take. start by saying hi to her, or compliment her on something, see what kind of vibe you get back
    Becka4prez wrote: »
    Just keep it short and sweet. Smile every time you see her. You'll know if she wants to talk or if she wants you to leave her alone.
    Cindy4FunFit wrote: »
    Smile. Say "Hi, my name is X". She will likely say something back & if it's curt- just tell her to have a great workout, & that you need to get back to yours.

    ^these
  • gmallan
    gmallan Posts: 2,099 Member
    Just say hi to her or introduce yourself and tell her that you're available if she ever needs a spot. If she seems friendly and up for a little conversation ask her about her workout routine or what she's training for. Obviously only in passing or in-between sets. Don't interrupt her workout.
  • ZeroCal88
    ZeroCal88 Posts: 7 Member
    Start benching and get her attention. Pretend to drop the weight like you need help and..hopefully, she will come over and pick the bar off your chest. Then you can tell her that she saved your life and you would like to treat her to dinner.
  • martinbossphotography
    martinbossphotography Posts: 33
    I wish there were a like button for comments . Id just say hi keep it short and simple . A gym is a kinda of a sacred area when it comes to personal space . She will invite you in if she's interested.
  • SJunczyk
    SJunczyk Posts: 430 Member
    ZeroCal88 wrote: »
    Start benching and get her attention. Pretend to drop the weight like you need help and..hopefully, she will come over and pick the bar off your chest. Then you can tell her that she saved your life and you would like to treat her to dinner.

    ROFL - probably THE best comment!
  • lisalsd1
    lisalsd1 Posts: 1,519 Member
    "I can't help but watch you squat..." Oh wait, you don't want to sound like a stalker. Ok, then make eye contact (when she isn't squatting) and smile. She probably already knows you have a crush on her. We always know.
  • LetsTryThisAgain54
    LetsTryThisAgain54 Posts: 381 Member
    I have girls and guys chat with me at the gym all the time. I just take it as them being friendly. Damn, just go up to her and say a quick hello and compliment her form. No way she'll not be friendly after a nice comp.
  • justinegibbons
    justinegibbons Posts: 918 Member
    I agree with the others. Something short and sweet and if she seems uninterested in chatting, leave it be.
  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    How about "How are you doing?"

    Do this in passing. DO NOT STOP! If she's interested whatsoever, she'll tell you how she's doing and MIGHT ask how you're doing. If she's not, she'll ignore you and you'll save yourself embarrassment from being that guy trying to hook up at the gym if you just keep moving. Whatever you do, don't cry.

    Good luck OP
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    Wanna exchange sweat? ;)

    And that is why I'm single...
  • Oops_Myhaloslipped
    Oops_Myhaloslipped Posts: 3,892 Member
    JackKopCh wrote: »
    Wanna exchange sweat? ;)

    And that is why I'm single...
    That would work on me, if it were you ;)
  • Feelgood97
    Feelgood97 Posts: 89 Member
    r u married? :D
  • moisesfgr
    moisesfgr Posts: 18 Member
    Use the headphone method. If she has them on by you don't interrupt. If she removes one by you say something. Good or no?
  • Saab_2015
    Saab_2015 Posts: 277 Member
    some good advice lets see next Thursday at 7pm ... I think it may be full moon too lol.
  • Markdjones83
    Markdjones83 Posts: 852 Member
    *bites nails for update anticipation*
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