How do I tell my husband, that He needs to lose weight?

haha I have a REALLY open relationship with my hubs... I said "hunny, I'm gonna be all sexy and skinny and well... I guess your just gonna be fat." after some denial and excuse making i told him that his health was his choice and now he's agreed tomorrow he will start "dieting" with me. Perhaps a less up front approach but simple telling him your concerned maybe a better approach. Heart disease runs in my husbands family and mine so we agreed when we got married to eat healthy, we just failed a little.

"I looked at him without a shirt on the other day, REALLY too a good look at his tummy and I worry for him. Hes got a 6 pack, a 6 pack of beer! lol."

Am I the only one feeling bad for her husband?

To the op: Did he talk about you like that on a public forum before you decided it was time to start losing weight? Sorry, I don't mean to be rude but it doesn't seem like a kind thing for one to say about her husband.

Not really. She was worried for him, the rest is called humor. Its not like any of us personally know him. I have an entire blog based on my marital problems. My hubby found it one day because I accidentally left it up and he laughed about it.

Man my husband was honest with me when i was getting fat. I'd say "man I am fat I need to lose some weight and he'd publicly say "YEP You do! Your butt is huge" or he'd say "I like em big!" its called making light of a somewhat hard situation. My husband had washboard abs and a hard muscle body when we med. Now he is a marshmallow. Its life. God forbid we poke fun at getting fat on a public forum.

Exciting Update! My husband is going to start P90X this week when the weights and resistance bands come in the mail! A co-worker has the dvd set that we can borrow FREE! Who knows, I might even try P90X too :]