What do you find attractive?

JaylessCreation
JaylessCreation Posts: 6
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just trying to figure out what some women find attractive in a guy. Maybe also some advice on how to attract females.
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  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    1.) Conversation.
    2.) His lips were like DAYUMMM and I was like ERMAHGAWD LEMME KISS EM
    3.) ^ stuff.
  • Jessica_L_E
    Jessica_L_E Posts: 1,969 Member
    Eyes...smile...personality...sense of humor...
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    I've been told they are attracted to monies.
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    ^ that one probably boobs and beer, and will probably just be the happiest alive.
  • therealklane
    therealklane Posts: 2,172 Member
    Sense of humor, ambition, nice smile..
  • JaylessCreation
    JaylessCreation Posts: 6
    ncboiler89 wrote: »
    I've been told they are attracted to monies.

    I heard that too
  • Jessica_L_E
    Jessica_L_E Posts: 1,969 Member
    edited March 2015
    :p
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    k if that's what you heard, then why you asking the other 1% that doesn't care about that. Let google be yer fwend.
  • JaylessCreation
    JaylessCreation Posts: 6
    I want to hear other things because I don't believe money is everything
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    edited March 2015
    Curvaceousnsassy wrote: »
    I can tell you from experience money doesn't men *kitten*

    Oh this is so wrong. Just so wrong. This is just one example, and we know anyone can post others ad nauseam, of a dude pulling tail that he otherwise would not pull if not for the cash flow he creates. .

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._Howard_Marshall
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Correct. Money is not everything, however, sadly in a realistic world, it is needed to survive.

    In a more generic point of view, don't work your tush off for a woman that's only there because -lets say, for instance- that you're "loaded".
    Same goes for women.. Don't work yourself off for a man, either.

    50/50 or pack yer carrotmobile and GTFO.
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    ncboiler89 wrote: »
    Curvaceousnsassy wrote: »
    I can tell you from experience money doesn't men *kitten*

    Oh this is so wrong. Just so wrong. This is just one example, and we know anyone can post others ad nauseam, of a dude pulling tail that he otherwise would not pull if not for the cash flow he creates. .

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._Howard_Marshall

    Hahahaha to be fair the flip side to this is that this type of dude is typically looking for someone half his age and way out of his league attractiveness wise and with minimal brain cells. If you ask me the two personality types deserve one another :)
  • JaylessCreation
    JaylessCreation Posts: 6
    I just want some advice and I want to learn what attracts females and what they find attractive
  • Jessica_L_E
    Jessica_L_E Posts: 1,969 Member
    I don't know why I bother giving my opinion on these posts...I was engaged to man for several years who had money...he was verbally and emotionally abusive...I left him with my child in tow and without a dime and I'm am MUCH BETTER OFF. Only thing I expect from any man is be able to support yourself I'm not doing it. Otherwise what i stated above is true. Peace out.
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    A man that is confident, charming, and genuine. Someone who Dressed nice and keeps himself groomed. A gentlemen/a man with manners and class. Someone who respects their mother and treats women with class and not like sexual objects.
  • LovingLifeInCalifornia
    LovingLifeInCalifornia Posts: 9,362 Member
    Confidence - don't keep talking about your negative crap

    Independence - don't be clingy or needy

    Honesty

    Good listener (though I dunno if I know many men who meet this one well. Ha. Jk...sorta) okay...forget this one

    Ambition - have goals. Doesn't have to be financial. Could be running a marathon or whatever...but don't just sit on the couch and be complacent.


  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    edited March 2015
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    ncboiler89 wrote: »
    Curvaceousnsassy wrote: »
    I can tell you from experience money doesn't men *kitten*

    Oh this is so wrong. Just so wrong. This is just one example, and we know anyone can post others ad nauseam, of a dude pulling tail that he otherwise would not pull if not for the cash flow he creates. .

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._Howard_Marshall

    Hahahaha to be fair the flip side to this is that this type of dude is typically looking for someone half his age and way out of his league attractiveness wise and with minimal brain cells. If you ask me the two personality types deserve one another :)

    I agree totally. However she isn't out of his league obviously. And if a rich dude wants this then more power to him. To each his own. And it's not like she isn't getting anything out of it.
  • JessieLMay
    JessieLMay Posts: 146 Member
    Physically am really really really really attracted to facial and body hair, otherwise I love an easy going, spontaneous, and romantic sweet heart.
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    I sent you a pm.

    Has fun and stuffs :3
    -poof-
  • britKnee89
    britKnee89 Posts: 6
    edited March 2015
    smiles and how charming he can be..
    but i like a little roughness too
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    Honestly, every woman will want something different lol. For the most part, I think all women appreciate confidence, good manners, and a man who is genuine. Physical traits come down personal preference. For example some women like facial hair, I prefer clean shaven. I am particularly attracted to Italian men. Lol
  • britKnee89
    britKnee89 Posts: 6
    i am attracted to mexicans, confident, honesty ..
    my biggest turn off is an insecure person and jealousy issues.
  • JaylessCreation
    JaylessCreation Posts: 6
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    Honestly, every woman will want something different lol. For the most part, I think all women appreciate confidence, good manners, and a man who is genuine. Physical traits come down personal preference. For example some women like facial hair, I prefer clean shaven. I am particularly attracted to Italian men. Lol

    Im Peruvian and part Italian lol
  • jenniferinfl
    jenniferinfl Posts: 456 Member
    Look, here's how it works. We all have our sets of attributes. People are individuals, so they all rank those attributes differently. For some people, physical attraction is the most important criteria above all else, for other people, physical attraction is still important, but personality has a nearly equal weighting. Some people will value intellect, shared interests, career and so on.

    So, here's what you do. Be true to yourself, but be the most you can be. Read a book, learn something new, cultivate an interest in the arts. Practice conversing with people of all ages. In the midst of conversing with all kinds of people, you will learn something new and make connections. Volunteer for a cause you believe in. Obviously, believe in something.

    If you're lucky, you will meet someone else who is interested in the same things. I feel the best relationships grow from a mutual interest.

    Physical attraction will always matter. But, what someone finds desirable is not universal.
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
    confidence, and an interesting conversation
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    JessieLMay wrote: »
    Physically am really really really really attracted to facial and body hair, otherwise I love an easy going, spontaneous, and romantic sweet heart.

    So manscaping is a deal breaker to you?
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    Rich. With one foot in the grave.
  • misscaligreen
    misscaligreen Posts: 819 Member
    ncboiler89 wrote: »
    I've been told they are attracted to monies.
    soooo funny! This totally made me laugh! The good women are not though. :)
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  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    asflatasapancake wrote: »
    Sense of humor, confidence, smile, boobs, booty.

    Chicks dig a guy with boobs and a booty?

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