Nervous

Belle8312
Belle8312 Posts: 2,151 Member
edited 12:53PM in Motivation and Support
So I have gained about 25 pounds since November, and am headed to see my best friend and her husband for the first time since December (when I saw them, I had only gained like 5 pounds, so they haven't seen me since I have gained an additional 20).

Her husband is incredibly judgmental and while he won't say anything to my face, I know that he will be judging me for how I look. My best friend is drop dead gorgeous and I am so nervous to see them after gaining so much weight. I suppose I could just cancel going, but I would feel horrible about that because she is so excited to see me.

Any thoughts on what you would do?

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  • peachyfuzzle
    peachyfuzzle Posts: 1,122 Member
    Dude sounds like a douche. Wear clothes two sizes too small to really give him something to talk about.
  • overlook237
    overlook237 Posts: 160 Member
    peachyfuzzle wrote: »
    Dude sounds like a douche.

    Agreed. Go have fun with your friend and forget about him. I was so ashamed of my weight gain that I avoided seeing my best friend for years. Now all we do is exchange cards for the holidays.

    Also, I would hope that as your friend, she would tell him to shut his cakehole if he made any rude comments about you behind your back.
  • carissafinnegan
    carissafinnegan Posts: 6
    I have always been ashamed of my weight. I have hid from people for years but I think it's important to take risks in how people think of you because the only person who should care what you look like is you. :)
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