2-3 very large meals vs 3-6 small ones

mirrinias
mirrinias Posts: 80 Member
edited November 15 in Health and Weight Loss
It seems that conventional weight loss wisdom says it is easier to lose weight on and better for you to eat several small meals throughout the day than to eat just a few large ones. The reasoning behind this is that your blood sugar doesn't rise and drop as drastically throughout the day, leaving you feeling tired and hungry throughout the day.

So far, it seems that I am more inclined to eat a smallish breakfast, and very large lunches and dinners with no snacking in between. If I eat smaller meals, I don't feel as satisfied and want to eat right away again, and reaching for stuff to graze on like chips, popcorn, chocolate covered raisins, etc. I think this comes from the fact that I am used to feeling over-full and that I don't feel "full" unless I overdo it. But, on the other hand, being this full makes it virtually impossible for me to have food on my mind for several hours, especially if I'm busy. I will even turn down my favorites like sweets and chocolates, and samples at the grocery store, etc. The cons are that being that full makes me sleepy and doesn't feel very good for a couple hours, and that sometimes, I am ravenously hungry and irritable before the next meal.

So what do you think? Should I be trying to eat smaller meals and just get used to it? Is it safe and acceptable to eat fewer and sometimes excessively large meals? Does one lead to a greater long-term success than the other?
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  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    It does not matter. Calorie goals are what matter. Do what keeps you the most satiated and with enough energy to exercise.
  • JoRumbles
    JoRumbles Posts: 262 Member
    Well apparently 2 meals a day is good for diabetes, which flies in the face of the blood sugar argument:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-27422547

    Personally I am a three meal a day girl, unless I get up late in which case two meals is fine. Small breakfast, medium lunch, large as possible dinner.
  • melanieliving
    melanieliving Posts: 69 Member
    I prefer 3 squares. It's better for me, since it allows me to listen to my actual hunger cues and allows me to have big, satisfying meals. But really, it's whatever floats your boat.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    Hornsby wrote: »
    It does not matter. Calorie goals are what matter. Do what keeps you the most satiated and with enough energy to exercise.

    ^I'm with this guy. Some people do really well on 6 small meals a day and others feel like chewing their own arm off if they try it. The best diet strategy is the one that works for you.

  • ana3067
    ana3067 Posts: 5,623 Member
    Hornsby wrote: »
    It does not matter. Calorie goals are what matter. Do what keeps you the most satiated and with enough energy to exercise.

    This
  • levitateme
    levitateme Posts: 999 Member
    I prefer eating little things spaced throughout the day with one large meal in the evening. Ultimately it doesn't matter, though. Whatever keeps you in your goal range is the right thing for you.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.
  • melanieliving
    melanieliving Posts: 69 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.
  • mirrinias
    mirrinias Posts: 80 Member
    JoRumbles wrote: »
    Well apparently 2 meals a day is good for diabetes, which flies in the face of the blood sugar argument:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-27422547

    Personally I am a three meal a day girl, unless I get up late in which case two meals is fine. Small breakfast, medium lunch, large as possible dinner.

    That is a very interesting study! I would like it if they had used a larger sample size, but I think it still has value. I am at a very high risk for diabetes considering family history, my weight, and probably PCOS. Besides appearance, my #2 motivation is to not end up with diabetes!
    Hornsby wrote: »
    It does not matter. Calorie goals are what matter. Do what keeps you the most satiated and with enough energy to exercise.

    Thank you!

  • KrunchyMama
    KrunchyMama Posts: 420 Member
    I find I do best on a small breakfast, large lunch, and medium dinner
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    The best eating schedule is the one that keeps you compliant with your plan. Currently, I eat one small meal and one large meal. When I was less active and heavier, I was eating many small meals, because I was insulin resistant and HANGRY every 3-4 hours if I didn't snack. Once the insulin resistance was controlled, I naturally switched to the eating schedule I'm on now.
  • Asher_Ethan
    Asher_Ethan Posts: 2,430 Member
    It doesn't matter as long as you are in your calories.
  • melanieliving
    melanieliving Posts: 69 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?

    Chronic under eating is one way, though since you dont track i assume that is the reason you are not losing weight.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?

    Chronic under eating is one way, though since you dont track i assume that is the reason you are not losing weight.

    ?? Not sure what you mean. I am losing weight.
  • melanieliving
    melanieliving Posts: 69 Member
    edited April 2015
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?

    Chronic under eating is one way, though since you dont track i assume that is the reason you are not losing weight.

    ?? Not sure what you mean. I am losing weight.


    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.


    See your comment in bold above, if you are barely losing not tracking is probably your biggest issue, not the amount of times you eat.
  • levitateme
    levitateme Posts: 999 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?

    Chronic under eating is one way, though since you dont track i assume that is the reason you are not losing weight.

    ?? Not sure what you mean. I am losing weight.

    You said you are barely losing eating a 'small' meal and a 'large' meal. Since you aren't tracking, I'd guess you are eating larger meals than you think you are, calorie-wise.

  • nicsflyingcircus
    nicsflyingcircus Posts: 2,899 Member
    I eat two meals a day, it works for me. Their size varies but they tend to be fairly balanced.
  • girlviernes
    girlviernes Posts: 2,402 Member
    I started out at 3 meals and 2 snacks per day. Now I usually fall into 3 meals and 1 snack, but I'm starting to eat heartier meals and I think I will be shifting to just 3 meals a day at some point. We'll see. I like my afternoon snacks.
  • girlviernes
    girlviernes Posts: 2,402 Member
    JoRumbles wrote: »
    Well apparently 2 meals a day is good for diabetes, which flies in the face of the blood sugar argument:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-27422547

    Personally I am a three meal a day girl, unless I get up late in which case two meals is fine. Small breakfast, medium lunch, large as possible dinner.

    Interesting, but I hate news articles that don't even discuss the basics of where the actual work was published. Any article in this form needs to be considered as an interesting new idea, but certainly is not actual evidence of anything. If we could see a peer-reviewed article we could assess the methodology, and then it would need to be considered within the context of the literature more broadly.
  • AlabasterVerve
    AlabasterVerve Posts: 3,171 Member
    I usually eat two meals a day too -- breakfast or lunch depending on when I'm hungry and then dinner. Occasionally I'll have a snack or small meal but that's pretty rare. It's a perfectly healthy way of eating.
  • amcook4
    amcook4 Posts: 561 Member
    Hornsby wrote: »
    It does not matter. Calorie goals are what matter. Do what keeps you the most satiated and with enough energy to exercise.

    Yes, this.
  • AlabasterVerve
    AlabasterVerve Posts: 3,171 Member
    JoRumbles wrote: »
    Well apparently 2 meals a day is good for diabetes, which flies in the face of the blood sugar argument:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-27422547

    Personally I am a three meal a day girl, unless I get up late in which case two meals is fine. Small breakfast, medium lunch, large as possible dinner.

    Interesting, but I hate news articles that don't even discuss the basics of where the actual work was published. Any article in this form needs to be considered as an interesting new idea, but certainly is not actual evidence of anything. If we could see a peer-reviewed article we could assess the methodology, and then it would need to be considered within the context of the literature more broadly.

    Here's the study the article is referencing: Eating two larger meals a day (breakfast and lunch) is more effective than six smaller meals in a reduced-energy regimen for patients with type 2 diabetes: a randomised crossover study

  • girlviernes
    girlviernes Posts: 2,402 Member
    JoRumbles wrote: »
    Well apparently 2 meals a day is good for diabetes, which flies in the face of the blood sugar argument:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-27422547

    Personally I am a three meal a day girl, unless I get up late in which case two meals is fine. Small breakfast, medium lunch, large as possible dinner.

    Interesting, but I hate news articles that don't even discuss the basics of where the actual work was published. Any article in this form needs to be considered as an interesting new idea, but certainly is not actual evidence of anything. If we could see a peer-reviewed article we could assess the methodology, and then it would need to be considered within the context of the literature more broadly.

    Here's the study the article is referencing: Eating two larger meals a day (breakfast and lunch) is more effective than six smaller meals in a reduced-energy regimen for patients with type 2 diabetes: a randomised crossover study

    You rock!
  • minties82
    minties82 Posts: 907 Member
    2 meals a day works for me. It doesn't have any influence over my weightloss, but I love eating 2 big satisfying meals.

    I have about 2/5ths of my calories at 7am and the other 3/5ths at midday.
  • wizzybeth
    wizzybeth Posts: 3,578 Member
    When I am home all day I do better by eating several small meals / snacks because I like to "munch" things simply out of habit.

    When I am out working I can go all day without eating a darn thing because I am focused on driving, getting into the properties, etc. I keep water and a granola bar or protein bar in the car. Sometimes I am able to plan ahead and pack a lunch...but I rarely eat that much.

    Then when I get home I'm often too tired to even care about supper, and I eat a little, and fall asleep. LOL

  • lisafrancis888
    lisafrancis888 Posts: 119 Member
    I find it harder to stay within my calories with more snack meals...breakfast, lunch and dinner with some sort of treat in the evening seems to be working for me.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?

    Chronic under eating is one way, though since you dont track i assume that is the reason you are not losing weight.

    ?? Not sure what you mean. I am losing weight.


    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.


    See your comment in bold above, if you are barely losing not tracking is probably your biggest issue, not the amount of times you eat.
    Sorry I still don't follow. Tracking wouldn't mean I can eat more calories and still lose.
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    Between my work and school schedule, I can't eat more often even if I wanted to. I've done fine eating three meals when I can.
  • levitateme
    levitateme Posts: 999 Member
    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.

    Then you are doing something wrong (tracking incorrectly) or have done metabolic damage.

    I don't track, but what would that matter? How would I have done metabolic damage?

    Chronic under eating is one way, though since you dont track i assume that is the reason you are not losing weight.

    ?? Not sure what you mean. I am losing weight.


    I would love to be able to eat 3 large meals a day. I am barely losing on one small meal (a snack really) and one large meal.


    See your comment in bold above, if you are barely losing not tracking is probably your biggest issue, not the amount of times you eat.
    Sorry I still don't follow. Tracking wouldn't mean I can eat more calories and still lose.

    Tracking would mean you would find out that you are eating more than you think. If you are barely losing, you are eating close to maintenance. Either that, or you have a really low metabolism from chronic undereating, like melanieliving said. Don't know why you're not following this.

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